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Speaker1:
So here's the big question. Our entrepreneurs like us, who have been hustling and struggling to make it to success, who seem to make it one step forward, two steps back work getting.
And drib. How do we finally break through? That is the question. This podcast will give. My name is Brian. This. The mind body.
Speaker1:
Hello, everyone, and welcome, welcome, welcome
Speaker2:
To the Mind Body Business Show. Yes, indeed, we are back and I am so, so excited to nice guest. You are going to love her. Her name is Dee Dee Wong and I will be bringing her on. I promise the mind body business show. What is it all about, real briefly? It is about what I call the three pillars of success. And about 10 years ago, a little longer than that, I started studying only successful people because I was so enamored and so curious. What the heck makes them more successful than me at the time? It's like, what is it they're doing? And time after time. And these are people I knew personally. These are people I worked with, mentors of mine. These are authors of books, some of whom I met, some of whom are no longer with us. And I just kept looking at all the traits that made them successful. And those three things kept bubbling to the top. And you might you might have an idea what those three might be. Yes. It's part of the title of this very show, the mind body business show mind is all about mindset to a person. Each and every one of these very successful people had a very powerful and more importantly, flexible mindset. Body was literally that they all took care of themselves physically, nutritionally that simple. And then business business is multi multifaceted. There are so many skill sets that one must master in order to build and then grow a thriving business. These are skill sets like marketing, sales, team building, systematizing leadership.
Speaker2:
And I could go on and on and on and on. The good news for you is you don't need to master every skill set that is in that list and more. In order to build a thriving business, you don't have to build it yourself. Those skill sets, the the good news is if you were to just master only one of those, there's one magic wand. And in fact, I mentioned in that list, I wonder if anyone could guess which one it is. Oh, wait. I'm kidding. It is the the skill set of leadership, when you've mastered the skill set of leadership, then you now have the ability to delegate to those who have the skill sets, who have mastered the skill sets that you have yet to do, because, let's face it, to master anything, it takes a long time. And being just one person, it may take more than a lifetime to master every single one. So now is the time, if you're not thinking about it, to always think about delegating and utilizing a team from day one. Because if you don't. You might just burn out, many of us have already been there, done that, learned the lesson the hard way, that is the mind body business show. And another wonderful trait of very successful people is to a person, they are also very voracious readers. And with that, I'd like to segway very briefly into a segment I like to call bookmarks.
Speaker1:
Bookmarks to read, bookmarks ready, steady read, bookmarks brought to you by Reach your peak library dotcom.
Speaker2:
And yes, Dee Dee Wong is here. She's waiting in the wings. She's coming on. She's like biting her nails, saying, let me in, let me in. I'm kidding. She's not biting her nails, but she is very, very eager to come on and she's coming on very soon. Real quick, reach your peak library, Dotcom. This is a website I had built with you in mind, literally. And why I did that was because I myself was not a voracious reader until about the age of forty seven. I'm fifty six at the time of the show. And then I realized, oh my goodness, it's a gold mine. And it changed my life profoundly in many ways, both in business and my personal life. And so what I did was I started compiling all of the books that had that kind of impact on me personally. And so now these are books that have been vetted by at least one other successful person. So when you go to look at a quote unquote, library, at least the odds are greater that you'll have if you grab a book from this library that you'll find one that will have a similar impact or even greater on you as it did me. And this is not here to make money.
Speaker2:
Just to be clear, yes, there's a tiny affiliate. You know how it works with Amazon. So all these buttons go straight to Amazon. I don't even know what I would make on it. I honestly don't even look, it's probably 30 cents, maybe a buck. I have no idea. You don't pay any more, but I just I just do that out of discipline. No matter what a product is, I always attach affiliate link to it, no matter what it is. If I'm promoting it, it's just how I roll. And that's how I teach my students to roll as well. But it's not about money. This site is for you. And in that light, I wanted to also point out one more really important thing before we bring on DEEDI, and that is reach your peak library dot com. This is one of those examples where you want to just write it down on a piece of paper or on a notepad, on your computer, whatever you have available, rather than and instead of clicking away and typing and looking. Because let me tell you something, when did comes on, she's going to be dropping some big, massive wisdom, bombs and bombs of knowledge. They're just going to come flying out of the sky. And you do not want to miss them if you're writing or if you're not if you're writing, if you are off looking at another website, typing it and scrolling up and down, not watching as Didi is dropping these nuggets in these bombs, you could very well miss the one thing that could have changed your life for the better forever.
Speaker2:
And I'm not kidding about this because I've seen it happen. I've spoken from stage. I did it for years. I was a lead trainer for a mentor of mine. And I know I'm getting to the part that is the life changing part. And I'd see somebody get up out of their chair and walk out of the room, and that was to go to the bathroom or whatever they had to do. And I just felt so bad for them. So this is for you, not for me. So take out a notepad. In fact, I never ask folks to do what I don't myself do. I have a notepad. I will be taking notes. I'm the director, the producer, the talent, if you want to call it that. And I take notes. So go ahead and grab something real quick because you know what time it is. It's time for Didi Wong, here we go.
Speaker1:
It's time for the guest expert spotlight. Savvy, skillful, professional, adept, trained, legally qualified. And there she is, ladies and gentlemen, the one the only lady wonkiness. Hello, everyone. Hello, Lowe.
Speaker2:
Deedee Oh, this is going to be so much fun. You are such a breath of fresh air. You are so fun to talk to. Before we get on this show, before we get any deeper, I need to do a little housekeeping. I like to call it and mention a few of our sponsors. One of them is right above your head, up above, I think, to your left and.
Speaker1:
Yep, to the viewer's right.
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Speaker2:
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Speaker1:
Be
Speaker2:
All right. Born in Hong Kong, I'm already interested. Raised in England. Are you kidding me? And now residing in Los Angeles. She's traveled more than I have. Didi Wong is an award winning international keynote speaker, executive TV producer. I mean, listen to this speaking coach, business mentor, best selling author, angel investor. And here's the most incredible part. She's a mother of four, all under the age of ten, including an identical set of twin girls. Wow, I don't know how any human could do all of that. At the same time, her company, which is called the Yes Academy, is a results driven educational mentorship program for entrepreneurs. That's why she's here. She has received numerous awards and recognitions all over the world. But the one she is most excited about in the coming months is when she will be knighted, Lady Didi, where she will join the royal order of Constantine the Great and Saint Helen of Spain to further the royal initiatives, both domestically and internationally.
Speaker1:
Goodness sake. I think you.
Speaker2:
I don't know if we have anything else to talk about that.
Speaker1:
Ok, fine.
Speaker2:
Very, very impressive. And congratulations to you. You've put in the time and effort so deserved. The accolades, the rewards, the awards, the upcoming. What is it. The knighting. Yes. My God. It's a
Speaker1:
Phenomenal. And so I
Speaker2:
Love to get to introduce folks like you. Such incredible, amazing people by the bio and they get an idea of what you've accomplished and what level you're at, which is pretty high. And then what I like to do is I like to dig a little deeper because there's something that got you there. There's something that got you there. And there's there's something got you there that other people are still struggling. They haven't figured it out. And where it all comes is that that wonderful, beautiful brain of yours. And what I like to do is kind of peel back the onion, so to speak. I'm not talking about your brain and stuff. And I wanted to find out, like when you get up in the morning, because being an entrepreneur, let's face it, it's not always easy, is it? It's it can be a grind. There's always a challenge. So it takes a very specialized kind of mindset. And for you, when you get up in the morning, what is it that motivates you? What is that thing that you think about that no matter what's going on in the day coming ahead, even if something arduous is about to take place that you have to take care of? What do you do in your mind, set in your mind? What are you thinking when you get up to start each and every day so you can crush it over and over and over again?
Speaker3:
In one word, just gratitude. I always wake up with a smile. I talk about smiling a lot and anything that you watch of mine, I talk about smiling. And it's not just smiling when you are talking to someone, but actually starting off with a smile for yourself. I talk about being your own best friend a lot, and I truly am very comfortable in my own skin. So wherever I go, there I am and I am happy to be with me and I'm treating myself as my own best friend. And so every day when I wake up, my mindset is positive. My mindset is I'm going to do something extraordinary today, no matter if it's just showing up to my yoga class, speaking nicer to my children, giving an extra kiss to my husband. You know, whatever it is I think about just giving goodness. I talk about transferring gold dust every single day. So that's my mindset every single morning. I just really happy. I really do.
Speaker2:
I've never heard that. Transferring gold dust, though, you said
Speaker3:
Is
Speaker2:
That is not a Smartbomb moment. I don't know what is.
Speaker3:
I hate to get all of this throughout the whole
Speaker1:
Hour with you.
Speaker2:
I can tell I think you will. And it's only 30 dollars per day.
Speaker1:
Not kidding. It's actually
Speaker2:
A good idea to charge
Speaker1:
It ridiculous. All right. And then you have your guests completely compete.
Speaker3:
How many bombs did you get? I got 15. Did you get 17?
Speaker1:
That's not a bad idea. So I cut you in on a percentage.
Speaker2:
We'll make a deal. So one of the things I talked about on the opening, there were several mind, body and business. And then one of those was about reading. And I'm just curious. I see books stuck behind you. So I'm going to guess that you do read and enjoy it. What would you say is and let's say it's a business book, it doesn't have to be a business book. Forget that, because business is about relationships. So it could be something else. It could be mindset or anything else. But what book has inspired you the most up till now?
Speaker3:
Like you, Brian, I heard you say you didn't really start reading until a later stage for me. It was after I had my four children when I really pressed on the gas to be a real entrepreneur, a serial entrepreneur, when I decided that I need to read more books. And my favorite book is the one of the ones that you have that I have to actually want is The Thinking World, which book by Napoleon Hill. You talked about how you really wanted to start talking to a lot of successful people. That's what Napoleon Hill started doing. Right. So that one has made a major difference in my life. I was on the thinking for a rich world legacy tool actually in twenty nineteen, which allowed me to step on stage big stages all around the country to decide which success principle I was allowed to talk to and talk about. So Success Principle number seven decision is my favorite one. So that book has been a huge made a huge difference in my life. I refer to it all the time when I have my clients and when I speak on a podcast or any TV shows. The other one I'm if I'm allowed to also tell you audience is one thing, one thing by Gary Keller, because I'm a Gemini, I am somebody who loves variety. So when I first started being an entrepreneur, I decided, what is it that I really wanted to do? I couldn't decide because I'm so good at so many things. But more and more, with branding and understanding how I should really be known in the world, I had to really design and evolve as an entrepreneur.
Speaker3:
And I started off being a life coach relationship expert. Then I went into business and being a pitch queen because I was on a TV show that I'm like, it's not really what I want to do. Then I went into really helping people build businesses like start ups. Is that really what I want to do? And I keep evolving. And now right now, I'm really known for just really helping people with speaking. How do you convey a message in a very short amount of time and string of vocabulary words together to form a beautiful sentence that will actually leave a lasting impression in people's minds? And at the end of the day, here's the big nugget. Write that down. Since I told you to have some notebooks out, it's really not always about your words. It's about how you make people feel. So if you're watching this right now and in a month's time, you remember that Asian girl I still remember seeing? I don't remember her name. I remember she's just I don't remember what she said, but I just remembered she was just so happy and bubbly and I really enjoyed watching her. And that's the feeling that you want to leave people transferring Goldust, you're adding to people's lives. No matter what you're saying. It doesn't matter. It's how you made them feel at the end of the conversation so that they would want to have another conversation with you. So that's really my message right now as I speak in college and a business mentor.
Speaker2:
I'm telling you, you hit the nail on the head. It's not always just about the words, it's about how you make them feel and that, if anything, was not a bomb drop.
Speaker1:
I mean,
Speaker2:
Genius, and that's true because, you know, people buy if you're talking about a transaction, let's say you're selling from stage, you're selling on the phone. It doesn't matter where you are. If they are emotional, they're not going to buy. And if they're not in the emotion that drives them toward buying, they won't buy. So if if you want somebody to be happy and excited, then get them in that state with authenticity like DNA and character and everything like that. And then just a future pacem allow them to see what their future could be. Once they work with you, show them how others have succeeded, do all the right things about it. But the key you set it, that is the key. It's emotion. We are emotional beings. People think of business. They think it's ones and zeros, corporate dollars, money teaching. It's really relationship building and it's humans interacting. And how do you interact at the best at the peak level with another human? She just hit it on the head. I mean, thank you for bringing that up, because I hope people wrote that. All right, look, I'm running the show.
Speaker3:
I love it. I got to back just to delve deeper into it, because I just love talking about this so much. You also brought up the emotion treat people as humans. So what I talk about is when you meet someone new, don't just treat them as that title. Yes. You heard I was an international award winning speaker. I'm a bestselling author and angel investor, blah, blah, blah. All of those accolades are good for business, for introduction. But once you get into the actual conversation, treat people as humans like treat people as like treat me as a woman. Right. Treat you as a mother or father son, you know, treat you as a human first and talk about things outside of the business. And that dreaded question will always come, oh, so what do you do that's always going to come? And when that question comes, that's when you can really open up and start talking about business. But at the very beginning, especially the seven to 30 seconds of the beginning of the conversation, that's when people are forming that judgment on you. And so in that time and that's why I teach my elevator pitch, cause in that 30 seconds before it ends the 30 second, you better have made an impression that you are authentic, you are real fun. Find somebody that you people want to talk to before you go into that boring business. Stop talk about money or talk about what you offer.
Speaker2:
But that is so vitally important. I totally agree with everything you said there, because I remember the old me when, you know, if you're if you guys can remember being at actual events, seminars and things where there are other people and yes, you you are interacting with those folks and your. You know, back then, back in the day when I first started doing that, I didn't know how to talk to anybody. It was it was horrible. You know, we were handing out business cards and it just I learned so much over the years on how to properly introduce oneself and make it about them first and then use second. I don't know if that's the way you teach Dedi, but people don't want to hear about you. They want to hear about themselves. And as much as you want to talk about yourself, you'll get a chance if they see the value and they want to interact with you. But that's so it's so key communication. So, OK, that's so look, we're talking there's two keys already. We've we've hit two. If anybody comments on what those two are, I will I will grant you a complimentary vacation. Stay five days. You want it and we'll still give away another one. How's that? One of them is amazing. Yeah. So so I'm going to write them down so I don't forget. And I'm sure there's more and yeah, when the third one comes out, we're going have another big bomb blast, you can better believe it. So, yeah, it's so communication is key. And would you agree that it's not just verbal communication? Would you also say written communication is also important? The skill,
Speaker3:
Body language, 93 percent of how you communicate comes from your body language and facial expressions. That is included. And I would like to say this is a Deedee ism and energy is so weak in any body language books. All of you Googled body language. They will say ninety three percent is what? But if you actually cut off those facial expressions are you're talking to you're hearing me right now. Yes. You see my body, you see my hands doing gestures and stuff like that. But actually, you're seeing my eyes open up and you're seeing my mouth smile in a certain way and my eyebrows are all of that comes into play when people are checking you out, when you're speaking and they don't even know it. That's the thing. It's a normal human perception. And on top of that, I add on the energy. So body language is your arms, your body bending your knees, maybe your shoulders going up or down or whatever. And then then you have your facial expression, which, as I just said, the energy now the energy part is the part where people don't even realize how they kind of exude negativity all that they don't. They say they just tell people who they are without even saying a word. And you don't you know, I say your vibe attracts your tribe. So when you actually meet someone like Brian, I just met and it was instant, like we knew we were going to have a good time because your vibe attracts your tribe. You are going to vibe and the frequency that will attract someone who finds the same frequency. But when you find someone who is vibing low and you're like being high, then, you know, you know, that might be a waste of time to actually get into a conversation.
Speaker3:
And I'm not saying this in a nasty way, because when you go into a room of networking, there are times when you just know someone is yapping away and you're not tuning in and your is just somehow does not want to be actively listening. Right. And you just looking around hoping for something to happen so you can move on. And I see my pitch cause I say just politely move away like you actually should be real about it, be authentic about it. And you really cannot tell someone, hey, I want to move away, then, hey, I need to run to the bathroom. All I need to go get a drink or something like. But I actually think that networking is a skill set, that networking and being able to move around the room, find the people who are fighting at your frequency. That's when you really get something out of when you show up to an event. And I've done that so much in my lifetime as an entrepreneur. And if you build your relationship fragile because that's the goal line of every single business relationship capital, that should be a bomb right there. Right now, your relationship makes much more sense than the financial capital because you know the right people, they can take you to so many goals that you want to achieve. Then just having money because you have money and you don't know the right people, you don't know how to use it.
Speaker1:
Yes. Yes. I mean, I can see what's finger on
Speaker2:
The relationship capital, you said, huh? Interesting.
Speaker1:
Yeah.
Speaker2:
Forms of wisdom are flying tonight. Eddie Wong is bringing everything, and she's absolutely right in all of this relationship relationship capital. I love that term and energy. That is one thing that's often not discussed when it comes to communication. Thank you for bringing that to the forefront, because everything you just said, I could relate with you. You know that that's a person you either want to be hanging with or you just don't want to get back out. And that's right. And there are many times and never knew the right way. I would just thank the Lord if a friend of mine would come up and actually interrupt us like.
Speaker3:
Oh, exactly,
Speaker2:
I, I have a tough time being rude. I just I don't know how why, but I just can't do it. It's my blood. But but boy, there are times where I just sit there. Oh please. I got to get out of here. So perfect. And then but the opposite is true. And think about that. One person could say all the right words and have even facial expressions to go with it. But if they're doing it haphazardly and you can tell it's kind of like I always say this, it's kind of like a dog that can sense fear. Yes. A human that can sense inauthenticity when you're trying to act like you're happy or energetic and you're not, you're just going through the motions. Right? If you're not energetic, figure out a way to get. So go run around the corner and do some jumping jacks, literally do some physical activity. They'll jack up the interview first, no matter how tired you are. But these are these are phenomenal tips. And this is this is Deedee who is all about communication. The other thing I love, if we can go back a second on it did was you were talking about how you've evolved, which I think is key for people to hear and learn is that we've all been through there. A lot of people will shame other entrepreneurs and call that the shiny. Syndrome right on their chest, this new one is No. One, no, in this case, it's I'm doing one thing and I'm learning, you know, what this other thing is? I'm actually I like that more and more passionate about it. And I have more core competency in that area. And then then even then, there may be another one. I've been through it, too, and that's why I can relate to that one as well. Used to be in the fitness industry and now I do automation. I'm a software and I love automation more than I love fitness. I didn't even know it until a couple of years ago.
Speaker3:
So it makes the whole business. And so as humans, we all have so many different skills. And I like I said, I have a variety of things I'm really good at. So actually, it was not really chasing the shiny object is really more fulfilling my own soul that I can be a life coach, I can be a relationship expert, I can be a host on a TV show if I want it to be. I can be so many things. And who's to say you can't be try them. All right. It's up to you to control what you want to do. And right now, I've I've had so many people tell me you have to have a podcast, you have to have a podcast. Your personality is so great. You be such a great host. But in my heart, it is not bringing true to me. And so I'd rather be a guest and I come on the shows. And so if it's not ringing true to you, but even though if somebody keeps influencing you, influencing and talking and staying with one book, I actually don't have a solo book.
Speaker3:
Everyone keeps saying, do appreciate you have achieved so much. You need to have a book. You need to have a book. I don't think I need to have a book right now. I may be down three years down and you know, it's up to you to decide what is true to you. And that's my evolved revolution. You know, I really have been authentic to my own journey because it's not always about, you know, serving. You've got to serve yourself first before you serve others because you have to be happy with what you're doing. If you're not happy with what you're doing, then people will sense that if I were doing relationship expert and life coaching right now, I know I'm good at it, but it's not something that I love to do every single day anymore. So I have to be my own soul. That's another thing that I think people are afraid to do and really listen to your own heart. Then you'll be happy. And if you are happy, then everyone around you can be happy.
Speaker2:
Yeah, and it's so spot on. A quick story. I had a really good friend. His name is Rozz Slotter. He's been on my show twice now. He was on not too long ago and this was back when he was big in the fitness business, full time, three boutique studios, one in New York, two in Florida before covid hit. But at that time, we had a chat. He just called me. So I just want to talk to you. So we did we shared the stage at one point. He's a phenomenal speaker. And we think that this personal chat with me, it was so wonderful. And we were talking about the whole world of fitness because at that time I was in fitness as well. And then he says, tell me, what else are you doing? And I said, well, I'm doing all this stuff in this automation, blah, blah, blah. And this is what the greatest thing that came out of it did was he's a good friend. And he he hit it right between right between my eyes. He says, Brian, when you talk about fitness and we're just on the phone, not even zoom, because I don't feel it.
Speaker2:
But when you talk about him, I feel the passion. I said, wow, Ross, thank you so much. That is incredible feedback. And yes, it's OK. I'm saying that for me to realize it's right. Three other people said similar things within a 30 day span and I decided to stop and completely get away from fitness. In two days after that decision, I completely eliminated my website with all the workout videos I had personally recorded. Spend years, seven years of this, and I did not feel one ounce of regret. I felt free. So what you're saying is after you go, Oh, Tim Gillette, how are you doing? Is coming up. Tim's got a great podcast of his own. Look him up on Facebook search. Tim Gillett, the amazing, amazing guy we met probably nine, ten years ago, maybe longer. Really, really great guy entrepreneur and three D Odilo three. I should know what this is. This sounds familiar. Said cool. If you're still out there, remind me your name. I feel bad because I know who this is, but I can't remember your name.
Speaker3:
I love your story illustrating my point because most most people they are on autopilot are on just every day. Wake up a certain time, bruschetta, tea put that sits on or put their clothes on and then they go out, drive a commute. It's the same old thing every day. But have you stopped? And actually ask yourself, are you enjoying your life every day, are you enjoying doing that routine every day? And if you say yes, then amazing. That's so great. But if you have an inkling, like I am not quite fulfilling my soul, I'm not. Am I really walking my purpose? Even if you have to ask that question, then you're absolutely not doing what you want to do and really close. It has been such a blessing in disguise for actually a lot of people, even though they might have lost their business. But you know what? You know, in the losing the closing of the door, you open another door. Like Sharon Lechter says, she always talks about how one door closes, another door will open and believe in the journey of life. You don't even have to believe in God but believe in the universe that will guide you to, if you will, will it to guide you and manifest it. I talk about manifestation all the time.
Speaker3:
And if you have if you can please listen to this podcast of the podcast, TV show and live streaming it all. The audience that you have. Brian, I really want to get this. And I hope that I'm not just one of these guests that you like. Oh, she was cool. I want to really get into your ears and into your eyes and say stop for a moment and think about your life. Thought for a moment and really think about your routine. Are you walking on spending time with the people you want just because of money, or is it because of really fulfilling your soul? You will live as much happier life if you do something that you love to do and that will help other people because we are all on this earth actually to help other people. And the side the side bonus is cash flow. So, yes, Academi, like confidence, connections and cash flow will just come. And I really like to reach those. I'm sorry I'm getting so passionate about this, but I really love talking about really making people wake up and smell the coffee and like, what are you doing with your life? I wanted to shake you. Are you happy? Are you happy? Go on and live a happy life.
Speaker1:
These are huge volumes of wisdom. Yeah, great, you love it.
Speaker2:
Tests, yes. Does anybody that's watching or listening, can they feel her passion?
Speaker1:
I can,
Speaker2:
And it's obvious and I love it, it's been elevated and getting stronger as the show goes on. And that tells you she loves what she gets to do. And and she's right. There's a constant tug back and forth. It's a tug of war in your mind? Well, I'm not really satisfied or fulfilled with what I do, but it is paying my bills. So, you know, then there's that fear factor of making that transition switch. Yeah. Dennis in Ramallah, coming all the way from China, says, Do what you love a good friend. Move to China. He teaches there. He teaches English language. Think he's still doing that. So thanks for coming on, Dennis. I can't imagine what time it is there right now.
Speaker3:
Thank you for calling.
Speaker2:
Yeah, and that's there's somebody a great example, he followed his passion, he moved to China. I mean, he he just up and moved from the United States and moved over there. Thankfully, he spoke the language enough to where he could interact over there. But he's teaching them the English language and he's made a ton of friends. You just follow him and look at that. I want to give him a shot to follow him. It's Dennis with one in that way. You know, you've got the right guy, Dennis in Ramallah. So go out on Facebook and just watch his life unfold before you in China. It's really neat to see it from a different vantage point. You know, we're all here in the United States. There he is. I teach public speaking and English. Yes. Oh, wonderful.
Speaker1:
Oh, that's great.
Speaker2:
He is an amazing entrepreneur on his own. Right. He's founded and started many businesses. He's multitalented as well. And that's a good point. You brought up an interconnectedness.
Speaker1:
Yeah, definitely.
Speaker2:
There's a really good point. You brought up about having multiple talents. We all have multiple talents. Every human being does. It's up to you to figure out which of those talents you want to hone and craft into your passion. Right. And there's I just saw another comment. I know very little Chinese and he's making it work. So you don't need all the resources on the planet to become successful. You just need to have the drive and the passion and the resources will find you and you will find them and you'll get it done. Will it be a struggle? Will it be there? Will it be fear? Will it be trepidation? The beginning, most likely. I just that's just your subconscious telling you
Speaker3:
You're doing the right thing because you're challenging yourself. That's another part. You shouldn't be so comfortable all the time. The more you challenge yourself, the more you grow or think otherwise, you're going to be bored by the mundane stuff. You know, try to challenge yourself no matter if it's playing a different game or playing a new instrument or speaking the language or traveling to another world and learning about other people's cultures, getting on a different show with a different person and learning about them. You know, I mean, I've done so many podcasts and shows the mind body business show that Brian's putting on, taught me something today as well. So I'm always looking to educate myself. So education is it's so fun. It's to be fun, right?
Speaker2:
Yeah. And I can tell it is with you and I think no one else can too. And that's a great, great thing. And you just hit another nail in the head because I, I hosted the show and I am one hundred percent positive. I get the most out of doing this than anybody on the planet because of the people I have like you, relationship capital. I've never heard that before. Maybe it's been said before, I just never heard it before. And there are things that certain guests have said, certain certain routines they go through certain tools or techniques or strategies. I've implemented several of them and I've seen my business improved drastically as a result. This show itself not I mean, the show cost nothing. So I'm not really pitching. It is your time, but just if you just watch the shows, they're all available on the mind body business show dotcom. Every one of them is there and you can watch them. And it's like being in a seminar and not paying a dime for it. And you're going to
Speaker3:
Learn amazing,
Speaker2:
Incredible it. Look, everyone thinks it takes some magic wand of I just I have to know something that I've never heard of before. It's not it's a lot simpler and it's pretty much laid out the entire strategy to your success on this.
Speaker3:
Sometimes it takes a different person to say the same idea for it to suddenly bingo in your head or lightbulb in your head. And that's why I think the power of listening to different speakers come in, because you can listen, of course, a lot of things that speakers talk about, it's very common sense. It's you hear a lot of entrepreneurs talk about positive mindset. But when you hear it from people, you hear from Brian Kelly, you know, it it rings differently. And that's why it's very important for you to choose the right podcast to consume. I talk about whatever you consume. You talk about mind, body, body. Is nutrition. What you do to your body a consuming right. What have you doing, your eating, whatever you listening to is really important to people. Don't actually think when I say consume, you probably think, oh, what I eat. But no, it's consume what you listen to. And nowadays more and more we're so lucky because we live in a day and age where there's so much live streaming, there's so many podcasts, there's so many like radio, TV shows. All of that gives you so much information. But you also have to be picky as to whom you listen to, because then you listen to people who are either negative. They swear a lot they they don't have a very good picture of life, you know, you start to become that you get influence without even knowing. Is that a subconscious is part of the thinking, the subconscious mind. So make sure your consumption of whatever you consuming the food, drinking or listening to you are picky with what? You put that in your body.
Speaker2:
I don't know if think she's dropping more bombs than anyone ever in history.
Speaker3:
Yes.
Speaker1:
Oh, my goodness.
Speaker2:
Look, here it comes. So we have three key areas. And so those that did not answer those two questions is now too late, because I'm going to reveal there came a comment to see if someone had it. Oh, we got another one. So Dennis normalizes. Yeah, roller coasters are no fun without ups and downs. So true. If you are always successful all the time, you wouldn't know any different than why it wouldn't be gratifying unless you had the bumps in the road or the dips in the coaster. Yeah, that. All right, this is a long one, but Don is a good friend, a local gentleman who is a chamber of Commerce, runs our Chamber of Commerce here locally, says one of these days when I grow up, I'm going to figure out grow up. He's funny what I like to do, although I'm having a lot of fun engaging with our wonderful consumers here in the Antelope Valley, taking talking about supporting our small businesses and economy. Yeah, and. It doesn't matter where you are and in your life or in your walk with your entrepreneurial career, you're always going to be that's what makes us entrepreneurs. I think we're always looking for that. Next, how do I prove how do I take it to another level? And that might be pivoting to something entirely different, but just be open to it.
Speaker2:
And if you're someone like Don who's very, very experienced, it won't be as hard for people like him than it will for those just starting out. But just you've got to get going. You've got to do it. That's the only way to do it. Right. Take action. Take it. Same old thing every day. So don't don't confuse what he was saying about that with a success routine that a lot of entrepreneurs, they each have their own routine. I personally am not a routine guy. I try to I can't do it. I like variety. I'm like we were talking about this before the show when you said I was like you because a lot of people love routine. It keeps them going to keep some discipline. I do things not the same exact thing every day, but I kind of cycle different things every day. So, you know, I don't go crazy different every day, but I don't do the same exact thing. Yes. The sequential subsequent day. I will look back on that. Yeah. Got to have variety. I do need to do what works for you is the bottom line. So a routine like get up in the morning. I know when I started doing was go out and get in the grass barefoot and do jumping jacks with the sun on me.
Speaker2:
I'm in California so we can do that more often and then also come back in and drink water with lime like natural lime juice and a pinch of Himalayan sea salt. Oh, people, all your fitness guy. There's a lot of misnomers about the blood pressure myth. But anyway, there were certain things I attempted. I listen to other people doing them and then I thought, I'm going to try that and I've done that. And so that's what I encourage you to do. If you don't have a routine is model. Other people that have routines go back and look at almost every show I have. People have routines and see what works for you and then go with that. That's it. It's simple enough to make this too difficult. Yeah, so sweet. I did. I want to find out now that people understand what an amazing person you are and that you're a communication expert. What exactly is your target market? Who do you help and how do people get in touch with you? And then how does it go from there? What's their way of introducing themselves to you and what do you do for them, if you don't mind?
Speaker3:
Yes. So I love helping anybody who considers themselves an expert or that you are an author or you want to be an author or you want to be a speaker. So I have a show on Amazon Prime video season four right now. I'm actually casting this this time and I'm looking for speakers to be on the show. And it's a very, very high quality show. And we I curated twelve speakers for the season to come in and I teach you literally how to perform, to speak how to. I told you earlier the networking, how to make an impression in the first seven to thirty seconds. So I will help you with your elevator pitch. I will help you to really understand volume pace pauses how to choose the right vocabulary. How do you use them. Really, really, really put in the energy to deliver your speech. So I really am a speech speech expert. I can help you write your speech as well. I've done I've been told I'm a really great speech writer, but generally speaking, I have a program called Become a Speaker in 60 Days, which is an accelerated way of becoming a professional speaker. And then I put you on the platform of the Amazon Prime video. And then the other thing is I really help people with their businesses. How do you actually run a speaking business? The company people a lot of a lot of people coach. Right, like I do with the teach techniques. They teach how to deliver. But a lot of speaking coaches actually don't teach the business of speaking.
Speaker3:
How do you actually monetize as a speaker? So I teach that as well. So, yeah, my my demographics that come my way are generally experts, authors, people who want to be speakers. I want to be better speakers but want to be better business owners and finding investors because I'm an avid angel investor. So I come across a lot of people who have ideas, who don't know how to start their business, don't even know what entity they should be registering, that kind of people. I want you to get out of that paycheck to paycheck job, basically, and monetize. And be able to be have your freedom. One of the questions I get asked a lot is how what defines success for me is if you can be your own boss and you never have to ask for permission to go on vacation or do whatever you want with whomever you want, whenever you want. That is my ultimate reason for being an entrepreneur. I love my time freedom so much more than anything. I if I want to be on Brian so I can be at a five thirty in the evening if I want to be with my children and do nothing but suddenly go to Disneyland, I can do that because I have passive income coming in. I teach people how to start thinking about investing and be open minded about creating passive income for yourself. So I love them, but yeah, that's what I do. I love helping people when people.
Speaker2:
Fantastic, and then so for that speaker program that you have going on on Amazon Prime and the seasons, how do people reach out to what's what's the process for someone getting to you? I'm sure they have to meet certain qualifications for you to bring them on and be one of
Speaker3:
Your applause because it's simple. Just dog calm. You can email me at de de Waal dot com. I don't run a company that has a ton of people who you can get through before you get to me. I'm very personable that way. I actually believe in being able to be approached quite easily. You can find me at Walmart, so if you want to apply to be on the show, just email me or you can always follow me on Instagram at all. Official. So, yeah, easy peasy. Just find me a pretty much Google my name. You'll find a ton of stuff.
Speaker2:
Very cool. And so above and beyond the 12 speakers that you're looking forward to, it sounds like it's like a real time case study that you're doing with them, watching them transform from where they are today to where they will be in 60 days, if I
Speaker3:
Have the best, is an eight year course with a showcase so you can repurpose your showcase speech. And I teach you about PR, about marketing, about how do you monetize as a speaker the body language, delivery, storytelling and your message, your branding. All of that comes into play when you want to become a much more well known and above average speaker. I want to really train people to be advanced speakers. And oh, by the way, one thing this is a nugget. This is another take away last last probably last fall when you find a mentor to follow anybody that you want to hire as a coach or as a mentor. Right. Don't just hire them for their knowledge because you can really nowadays find a lot of all this on the Internet. But find someone who actually has a network, who actually has some resources, who actually is walking the walk and talking the talk and out there doing what they are preaching, doing what they're teaching. Because if you're finding someone who is just teaching, that's what they do. That's all they do. And they're not doing themselves, but they're not current. Right. I definitely am proud of myself as a coach. And I do I do have healthy confidence in saying that what I teach my clients and people to become speaker.
Speaker3:
So I actually have all the platforms where I wish you to speak in this and this summit and that summit. So I actually, after you take the course, is not like my mind. That's it. You go about your way. You are now in my network and you are now somebody that would put in my forefront of my mind and refer to. So you can ask any of the people who have taken my courses, I always reach out to them. Hey, I was always looking for you like yesterday's. I was looking for somebody neuroscience. I knew exactly who to. If so, I am walking the walk, talking the talk and constantly investing. I've been investing in nine companies in the last six months. I really am out and always improving myself. I have mentors in courses as well so that I'm in touch with what's going on and that's the kind of mentor you want. And actually, when you click with that philosophy and taking that energy, it's like finding a relationship where you're really going to be spending a lot of time with your mentor. So make sure you like them
Speaker1:
And that they have some
Speaker2:
Bombs of wisdom, I must say.
Speaker1:
Thank you.
Speaker2:
My goodness. So there were three primary areas for those of you that may have just joined us or maybe weren't paying attention, hopefully you were paying attention the whole way. But what we've been talking about, what has brought up and these are things that I've summarized into three key points that I found that she has spoken about tonight that I find to be the three keys to success. And that is No. One is. About evoking emotion from someone eliciting emotion and that it's not so much about your words, but it's more about the emotions, I should say, and it's more about your emotions. They both go together. And then along with that, the second key to success is really understanding and really mastering communication. And that takes on many different flavors. So it's also it's it can be the spoken word. It can be the written word. It's also definitely the body language, facial expressions. And then there's one big bombs you drop that no one else that I have heard has ever mentioned. I'm sure they have, but maybe not. And that was your energy level. So that all goes in to your communication, whether or not you are hitting the mark with the other person.
Speaker2:
And on that note, by the way, you're not going to hit that mark with every single person, even if you have all the right traits going right. Sometimes you're just not a fit. That's OK. And then the third that I found that that lift it up when you're talking, did was the level of your passion. Be happy with what you're doing. Be at ease, be excited about what you're doing, not just because the paycheck is coming in, but because it's truly what fulfills you, what fills your your being, what makes you happy. It gets you to smile, like when she wakes up. I don't think I smile that quickly. When I wake up, I'm going to wake up, but I'm going to work on that side. Yeah. There you go. Yeah. And I'm a I have been in my adult life. I became a very positive person. I wasn't always positive. And man, it's so much more fun to be a positive person. Oh my. I grew up in a I wouldn't say a negative environment, but the the attitudes and things that were present weren't always positive, not saying anything bad about any one of my family. I love everybody dearly, but that was just the influence that we had and shook that over time.
Speaker2:
Took me many years and finally broke through that that ceiling. And I just love life. I love people. I love meeting people, love talking to them. I love people like Dee Dee Wong that have achieved success, who are so open and willing to. She's she's opened up her closet of secrets to you. And you're probably thinking that was no big deal, those aren't secrets. Yeah, they are. If you put those all together in ways she said it, then you can achieve success. And here's the other thing. Yeah, you could put this together and achieve success, but do you know how to put them together? And if not, there is somebody who does right here. Her name is Dee Dee Wong. And look, just start the conversation. I have no idea what investment would be required. I never asked and it doesn't matter. Give her a call. Let her tell you what she can do and back and forth, set up an appointment, see if it's a fit. If you don't call, if you don't connect, then, you know, if you aim at nothing, you are sure to hit it. Is the scene right out of that.
Speaker3:
So that is true. Yeah.
Speaker2:
Do yourself. I mean, this is a rarity where we have an individual. I shouldn't say it's a rarity not on this show, but in life. It is a rarity, unfortunately, that a lot of people are out there, are faking it till they make it. And sometimes in the very beginning, you almost feel like you have to you have to build yourself up. Well, is built herself up. She has the acumen. She has the experience. She has the success. She has the failures as well that she's learned from to help you to reach that level of success much faster than it took her to do organically and through her evolutionary process of getting to where she is now as what she's doing today as an entrepreneur. That kind of sum it up there.
Speaker3:
Absolutely. And yes, you may see me as the successful woman. And I talk about all these. I give you all these nuggets. But what's truly without me going through them myself and having spent so much money on wasting time and wasting money on people that who didn't help me and promised they would. And it's really when you find the right mentor, they already been through that. And you don't have to waste the money. They already wasted the money for you, if I say. Right, exactly. So I find that to be I have a kino called the power of Mentorship. And truly, my mentor has helped me so much. And I am so grateful every day to have found the right people, to surround myself with and continuously to learn from.
Speaker2:
Yeah, and that's another golden nugget, you know, get a mentor or a coach. Hey, I promised everyone that if they stuck on to the end because we're almost thirty two and oh there is another giveaway I believe. Is that still true. Disney. Did you still have something. All right. That's what is. So we'll get to those in just a moment. So don't go anywhere. And remember there's a five night stay at a five star luxury resort coming up. We're going to give that. Really, really soon, there's one final question I love to ask every guest that's been on this show, and it is an amazing question and it's I found it to be very profound, somewhat personal at times and very unique in the answers have been unique and powerful from everyone. And I cannot wait to hear yours. But before we do that, yes, it's time for
Speaker1:
The give away look at a five star or
Speaker2:
So. I'm going to put this up on the screen and look before I was saying, pay attention, take notes for this moment in time. I think Dee Dee would agree to give you permission to take out that cell phone of yours and open up your text messaging app. And here's why. Put it up on the screen for those you watching live. What you want to do is where you put in the name of the person you want to send that message to. Instead, typing this number three one four six six five one seven six seven. Guest experts are allowed to enter two three one four six six five one seven, six, seven as Didi reaches for her phone. I love it. And in the area where you would type in the message that goes out. So you're competing with Didi, but it's a random drawing. You type in peak dash vacation. That's OK. Dash vacation all together, no spaces. And then once you text that, keep your phone handy, you will get a response asking for your email address. We use an automated system and it will use your email address to announce the winner that chooses randomly. So do that now.
Speaker2:
Write this down if this is good until the end of tonight, till midnight on this evening. If you're watching live, you know what tonight is? I don't need to set the date and then I can't wait to announce the winner. We'll announce the winner up on Facebook and you'll get that five night stay. And this is an amazing, amazing giveaway because it's not one of those things where I'm going to bring on a screen. Didi is not one of those things where you go there and they take you to the basement and browbeat you with a time share pitch for four hours. That's not what happens. It's it's a legitimate trip. The sponsor, the owner of this of the company who sponsors this, Jason asked himself, has done it, has used this very thing three times and said it's been phenomenal. There's no hijinx of any kind. You just go in, it's your room and you get to have a good time. So that's that. And then the amazing Didi has something for you. And I believe it was like a four week elevator pitch program or something to that effect. Is that true?
Speaker3:
Yes, it is.
Speaker2:
All right. Let's see if I have that up on the screen here. I do have it, I promise it is right? Yeah, right. There it is. I found it. So go ahead and let people know what that is real quick and then we'll ask that incredible question of you to close out the show.
Speaker3:
It's really transformational for weeks, every single person in this world, even if you don't have a business, but of course, especially if you do have a business or you are a somebody who has a service or has if you are an actor, even singer, you have something to give to the world. You need to know how to pitch. And I'm not talking about just pitching to investors. I'm talking about whenever you get to open your mouth to introduce yourself to anybody, you should really learn how to do it in the right way and to be able to change it up depending on who you're speaking to. So I will give you a four week elevator pitch program that's worth five hundred ninety seven dollars to the special winner today. You get my time every week and one hour each week to really work on your allotted to pitch. So there you go.
Speaker2:
And how would that person enter to win, to send you an email with a certain subjects?
Speaker3:
Simple. Once they. Yeah. Once they win and add Welcome. Exactly right.
Speaker2:
They're cool. So as did did I at. Di di w o n g dot com, very straightforward, and again, that's look, it says valued at five ninety seven is probably three for ten times that based on the results.
Speaker3:
I am very generous.
Speaker1:
Yeah.
Speaker2:
And you know what, that's that's typically a one hour, not even that of someone of her caliber, of her time and you get four weeks and so it's valued much higher than that. And so I want to say that just so that people understand and know to give DEEDI the respect she deserves, when you reach out to her and just be professional in your in your communication practice, your communication skills by typing in something unique in the email, make you stand out and she'll say, I want to work with you and utilize what you've learned from her tonight. Maybe mention the three about that. I mentioned
Speaker1:
The three components
Speaker2:
To success. And I'll remind you what they are. It's these are mine. I brought, I thought these up, but they came from DEEDI emotion. So your emotion
Speaker3:
Evoked. You make them feel emotion.
Speaker2:
Is more important or just as it's actually more important than the words you use, communication, mastering that skill set and being passionate about what you do because that that that shines through. So, yeah, maybe you mentioned those three things in your email and try to impress her. All right. So what I like to do. Is. Get to that wonderful, amazing. Incredible and powerful question. It's a it's a great one. And so. Here's the thing when I ask you this question. The really good news is there's no such thing as a wrong answer. It doesn't exist, in fact, the exact opposite, the only correct answer is yours, and that is the only thing that makes it personal.
Speaker3:
So I find mystery.
Speaker2:
Yeah, kind of get your like, what the heck is this going to be? It's really intriguing and. Well, why don't we just do it? Are you ready?
Speaker3:
Yes, I am ready and go.
Speaker2:
Did one how do you define success?
Speaker1:
I said it earlier,
Speaker3:
I said, it is about time, freedom, my definition of success is when you don't have to ask permission with anybody in your life to do whatever you want, with whomever you want, whenever you want. And if you find that you can do that and not have to worry about money to do whatever you want with whoever you are, wherever you want, then you. That's my definition of absolute success, the freedom of time and doing whatever I want, whenever I want with whomever I want. There you go, symbol.
Speaker1:
No. Yes.
Speaker2:
Fantastic, Dee Dee Wong, thank you so very much. What a phenomenal show, you brought everything you had both barrels blazing, I like to say and appreciate you, appreciate you big time. And thanks everyone for coming on to watch the show.
Speaker3:
Oh, yes, everyone, thank you.
Speaker2:
Yeah, your time is so valuable as as is ours, so I like to respect everyone's time, especially Dee, who put up with all of these emails and hoops to jump through to prepare for the show. But here's the result. You know, an amazing woman, an amazing show because of her and because she put in the time enough that was requested, ever so, so appreciative of you for just sticking with it. And a little hint, the animation isn't done yet. You'll get another email tomorrow, but I'll tell you about that.
Speaker1:
Just when you thought it was
Speaker3:
Blocking your email.
Speaker1:
You won't want to listen.
Speaker2:
These are friendly. These are friendly. They're all friendly. They're all they're all friendly.
Speaker3:
No, I say if I can say that quickly on the show, I seriously, I've been on hundreds of podcasts and shows like this. Nobody has been more organized than Brian. Seriously, automation. It's fantastic. So that competent marketing dot com thing, like you said earlier, if you guys want to do this, I would totally invest in hiring you to help me if I want it to be a podcast for sure.
Speaker2:
Thank you so much. I appreciate the feedback
Speaker3:
They got a testimonial like that,
Speaker1:
And it
Speaker2:
Can start with that hundred dollar bill behind you on your wall and we'll go from there. So you've been so wonderful to had such a great time, I'm sure are all of our viewers and listeners have as well. But it's time to do that thing that I don't like to do. But that is to say goodbye. It's only temporary. But on behalf of this amazing, amazing young woman, Didi Wong, I am your host, Brian Kelly of the Mind Body Business Show. That's it for tonight. We'll see you again on the next episode coming up very, very soon. Until then, so long and be blessed. Good bye, everybody.
Speaker1:
Thank you. Thank you for tuning in to the mind body business
Show podcast at w w w dot the mind body business show.
Speaker1:
My name is.
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Didi Wong
Born in Hong Kong, raised in England and now residing in Los Angeles, Didi Wong is an Award-Winning International Keynote Speaker, Executive TV Producer, Speaking Coach, Business Mentor, Best-Selling Author, Angel Investor and a Mother of Four under the age of 9 including an identical set of twin girls. Her company, The Yes Academy, is a results-driven educational mentorship program for entrepreneurs. She has received numerous awards and recognitions all over the world but the one she is most excited about in the coming months is when she will be knighted "Lady Didi" where she will join the Royal Order of Constantine the Great and St. Helen of Spain to further the Royal initiatives both domestically and internationally.
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Narrator :
So, here's the big question. How are entrepreneurs like us, who have been hustling and struggling to make it to success, who seem to make it one step forward, only to fall two steps back. Who are dedicated, determined, and driven. How do we finally break through and win? That is the question, and this podcast will give you the answers. My name is Brian Kelly, and this is The MIND BODY BUSINESS Show.
Brian Kelly:
Hello, everyone, and welcome, welcome, welcome to The MIND BODY BUSINESS Show. Super excited for tonight's show. We have not just one, not two, not three, but four, four amazing guest experts who are joining me tonight right here on this very stage.
Brian Kelly:
They are waiting in the wings at this moment. So let's get busy. Shall we? The MIND BODY BUSINESS Show, that is a show about what I call the three pillars of success, and that came about as a result of my study of only successful people in the last decade or so. And these patterns kept bubbling to the top and those patterns being mine, which is mindset set. Each and every successful person, to a person, had a very powerful and flexible mindset. So I learned that and said," I need to implement that". Then body: body is about literally taking care of yourself. Through nutrition and through exercise, exercising on a regular basis, and again that was another pattern of very successful people and in business. These successful people had mastered the skill-sets that were necessary to create, maintain, and grow a thriving business. They're wide and varied. It's like marketing, sales, team-building, systematizing. It goes on and on and on, leadership. There's no one person, in my humble opinion, that could master every single one of these. All you have to do is master just one, and I actually mentioned one of those. It was in that list. I don't know if anyone caught that, but if you master just one of those skill sets then you're good to go. That skill set is leadership. When you've mastered the skill set of leadership, you can then delegate those skills off to people who have those skill sets. See where I'm going? Good. That's what successful people do; the ones that I studied, anyway, over the course of about 10 years. That's what this show's about. It's a show for entrepreneurs by entrepreneurs. I got four guests waiting, and I'm not going to wait any longer. So, I think we should just bring them on. What do you think? Let's do it.
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Brian Kelly:
And there they all are. These amazing, beautiful guests on The MIND BODY BUSINESS Show. How are you all doing? Altogether, too. That was phenomenal, I love that. So real quick. All of you, I hope you don't mind for just a moment. I want to do some housekeeping? I wanted to mention to everyone watching here live. If you stay with us till the end, you can win a five night stay at a five star luxury resort. All compliments of our friends at The big insider secrets dotcom. You see them flying by on the bottom of the screen right now. It's an amazing, amazing vacation stay. Stay until the end, and you'll learn how you can enter to win that wonderful prize. We also have this. If you're struggling with putting on a live show, and it's overwhelming and you want a lot of the processes done for you while still enabling you to put on a high-quality show. And connect with great people like the ones we have tonight, and to grow your business all at the same time, then head on over to carpet bomb marketing dotcom. Carpet bomb marketing, saturate the marketplace with your message. One of the key components that is contained in the carpet bomb marketing courses, and this is one that you'll learn how to absolutely master, is the very service we use to stream our live shows right here on The MIND BODY BUSINESS Show. Over the course of the past, now it's over nine years, we have tried many of these, "TV studio solutions" for live streaming. I'll tell you right now, Stream Yard is the best of the best. It combines supreme ease of use along with unmatched functionality. So, go ahead. You can start streaming high-quality, professional live shows for free. Yes, I said it. For free, with Stream Yard right now. Visit this website, and do this after the show over. Take notes while the show is going. So write this down R-Y-P dot I-M forward-slash stream live. R-Y-P dot I-M forward-slash stream live. Fantastic. Now let's get to the real fun, and the fun is these amazing people. Dylan, Julie, Tim, Christian. How are you all doing tonight? Thank you for being on this amazing show. Yes. So, what I'd like to do is open it up. Let the folks get to know you just a little bit now. Ok, guys. We're talking sixty seconds or less. All right. Just lay it low here, but we'll just go and order. I usually go ladies first, but let's just go around the circle. It's easier for me who's running the show. So. That's what's important. Right? So, let's start with Dylan Shinholser. Go ahead. Take it away. Give us a little brief background about you, what you do, and your business.
Dylan Shinholser:
Yeah, absolutely. So like I said, my name is Dylan Shinhoser. I own a couple of different businesses. I'm owner of a company called, "Experience Events", which is event management. I'm also a director of business development at a virtual event, event ticketing, and virtual event platform called, "ViewStub". As well as a co-host of another show called, "Event Masters", where I just ramble all day, every day about how to produce better experiences. It's really all I know and love to do is events. That is my less than 60-second pitch about myself.
Brian Kelly:
That's a good one, too. I'll tell everybody I've spoken with you in person. We had a call some time ago, and this gentleman, Dylan, is made of integrity and great character. So, reach out to him if you need any assistance in any of the areas he talked about, or if you just want to say hi to a really great guy. Then get in contact with him, and at the end of the show, we'll go through that. Please. Somebody remind me if I forget how to contact each of you. Because that's very important to me. This is the reason I bring this show to the forefront. (It) is to bring people like you into the lives of those who may not know who you are yet, and even those that do, to experience even more of your brilliance, your experience, your knowledge, and your value. It's not about me. This is about you. Always, always. Every time. I have one guest, usually. I just feel like I'm in this big family right now. But let's keep moving. Julie Riley, amazing young woman. Take it away.
Julie Riley:
Yes. So, I am Julie Riley. I am the social media manager at StreamYard. The platform we're using right now. Prior to my time with StreamYard, I owned my own marketing agency. I've been in digital marketing since two thousand and seven. So the very, very early days of the start of it is when I jumped in(to) digital marketing, and I love just being able to help others succeed in their business.
Brian Kelly:
Fantastic, and I will also say that I have spoken with Julie in the past. Both through a typewritten chat form and verbally. I think it was Clubhouse first time, which was phenomenal. Yet another phenomenal person, incredible integrity, and character. And yes, you're going to notice there's a pattern about this with the remaining two. It's the same thing. Hopefully, we can get the last one to talk a little bit. That will be nice. I'm just having fun because we were having fun before the show started. The one smiling. The biggest down there with the green hood; not pointing anyone out or anything. Thank you, Julie, for coming on. Yes. These people, Julie and Christian specifically, I know Christians coming up here in second. They're non-stop. They don't stop working. It's evident because of the very software research we're using right now. It's of grand quality for a reason. It's because of people like Julian Christian who keep everything rolling smoothly on the back end. Dylan's there nodding his head emphatically because he gets it. It's a lot of work, and they're doing it masterfully and we appreciate you. All right. Enough of the favoritism here that felt like favoritism. Julie's our favorite. Timothy McNeely! My buddy, my friend from just a little north of where I reside. I believe. If I remember.
Timothy McNeely:
Central California, baby. Bakersfield. Yeah, my name is Tim McNeely. Today, so many dentists and driven entrepreneurs are just not sure if they're getting advice that really makes a difference for them. They may have a financial adviser who is giving them some advice on their investment portfolio, but they're not really sure that they're on the right track to really maximize their net worth outside of their business. That's what I help them do. Maximize your net worth so that you can keep taking care of the people you love, support the causes you care about, really make that difference in the world, and build an amazing life of significance. I love doing streaming because I get to talk to some of the best of the best out there and share the knowledge with the beautiful entrepreneurial community.
Brian Kelly:
I'll tell you something on a personal note as well. Literally, we talked earlier today, Tim and I, on a Zoom call. He just reached out to me and said, "let's catch up." I had him on the show some time ago as a single, solo guest, and he was phenomenal. We've just kind of maintained a relationship, a friendship ever since. He just wanted to reach out and say, "Hi" and "What's up? What do you want to talk about?" We just started talking about business and things. He gave me resources that will help me in my business, and hopefully, I reciprocated it somehow. I don't know if I did, but it is the people like Tim, like Julie, like Dylan, like Christian. That is the cloth that they are all cut from. They are here to help people. That's why I love entrepreneurs. I love all of you. I mean it. I do. I love you. You guys are amazing. I didn't even get a crack at a Christian on that one. Jeez, I mean... there we go. That's a little better, but I'm telling you, he's working on StreamYard our stuff right now as we're on the show. I mean, I'm.
Christian Karasiewicz:
I'm really trying not to, seriously.
Brian Kelly:
The founder Geige Vandentop. If you ever watch this, there's a message to you. Ease up on your people. Alright? Just having fun. Alright, Timothy, you're an amazing guy. Thank you for spending your valuable time and coming on here. As well as Dylan, Julie, and the ever so talkative one, Christian. I'm not going to attempt to say your last name. I'll let you take care of that one. Welcome to the show, Christian. Let's hear all about your brilliance.
Christian Karasiewicz:
Sure. Thanks a lot for having me. My name is Christian Kerasiewicz. I'm the content marketing manager at StreamYard. So, pretty much anything you see on our blog that we're going to soon be launching. I'm the mastermind behind that. So, I do that. In addition to that, I also host live stream reviews, a YouTube show. We also do on the StreamYard YouTube channel where we invite people on to talk about their live streams and help them work through some of their problems, some of their challenges that they might be having with getting community or building a show. Thanks a lot for having me. I appreciate it.
Brian Kelly:
Oh, my gosh. Thank you again, Christian, for your time and being here. I mean, he's literally building a blog while on a live show. I mean, that's a great thing. I'm not even kidding with this one. That is phenomenal. That is showing such dedication. So, it's more than that. It's passion. It's love. You know? What time is that where you are, Christian?
Christian Karasiewicz:
About 9 o'clock, or yeah... about 9 o'clock.
Brian Kelly:
(Nine o'clock) PM. Ladies and gentlemen, in case you're watching this recording. Yes. By the way, I'm going to be on twenty-five different platforms after this is over. So no pressure, but don't mess up. I'm just kidding. So, this is a phenomenal group of people, and I can't wait to dig in. Christian, just what you just said, what you do is right down the alley of what I was hoping to talk about tonight. It'll go organically, but I wanted to talk about... I mean, look at Julie, and look at Christian, and look at their images. Look at their video. It is gorgeous. Here, we'll start with a really gorgeous one first. Look at that. I mean. If there were nose hairs that weren't in place, we'd see them. That's phenomenal, and there is Julie. Wow. Very beautiful. Even more beautiful. I should just have her up like this all the time, and we can just talk in the background. Because, you know, maybe more people would come on. So, you guys have phenomenal camera setups, and here's one thing I always like to preach to those who are getting into the live streaming game. Does it take money? Yes, it does. It takes resources. It takes cameras, microphones, (a) computer, internet, good internet, fast internet, lighting, doesn't have to be fancy. What I always say though, is, do the best you can with the resources you currently have. OK, I wanted to start it off that way because what we're about to talk about with Julie and Christian is their cameras. They are top of the line. We're not talking a one-hundred or two-hundred-dollar webcam here. I like to let ladies go first. So, Julie, do you have a story when you first turned on your new camera versus when you had the webcam and what that looked like and felt like.
Julie Riley:
Oh, my gosh, I turned that camera on, and it was immediately noticeable (the difference). I actually did a live on my personal Facebook page where I logged myself in as a second user into StreamYard. I had my Logitech camera that I had been using up as a camera and then had my new one. So, I could do back and forth and show everybody the difference between the two. What an upgrade that was. The Logitech served me great for years. It didn't stop me from going live, but that upgrade was immediately like, "oh, I can never go back down now".
Brian Kelly:
So, that so that is one thing. Let's say you're on the road, and I can imagine at some point both you and Christian, maybe, you'll be sent on the road to maybe support conventions and things that are on the road. Now, you want to stream live, what are you going to do then?
Julie Riley:
Well, you know, the great thing about the Sony is (that) it's a small camera. Tripods, portable ones, are small. I can take it with me. If all else fails, and I'm either on my phone or I'm on my little webcam or even my built in webcam, it's not going to stop me from going live. Is it going to be exactly what I want? No, but more than likely I'll have the Sony with me.
Brian Kelly:
Thank you for saying that. I mean, that spoke such volumes. I hope people are taking notes that are watching. Definitely take notes on this. Because, look, the show must go on. That's what I say, and this show tonight is the result of a guest who unfortunately was ill and could not make it on. So, I scrambled and found these four wonderful people to say, "I'll come on and do a panel with you." And that's it. The show must go on, and I'm going to either do it with people or I'll do it solo. It doesn't matter. Consistency is key, and we can talk more about that, too. I love how you're just talking about, Julie. Where, look, I don't care where I'm at. If I've got something and it's my time to go live, and I don't have my gear. I'm doing it.
Julie Riley:
Right.
Brian Kelly:
I love that commitment. So, thank you for that. For everyone listening, that's important. Yes, quality is important. Like I said, do the best you can with what resources you currently have. That includes, wherever you are. You may have a DSL camera that Julie paid five-hundred thousand dollars for. Oh, sorry, it wasnt that much.
Julie Riley:
Thank God it wasnt that much!
Brian Kelly:
What was the model of that again?
Julie Riley:
A6000.
Brian Kelly:
What does it run about?
Julie Riley:
It was about seven hundred.
Brian Kelly:
OK, not too bad. A little bit less than five-hundred thousand. Not much but yeah.
Julie Riley:
Yeah.
It's a phenomenal thing, and I love that that's your attitude toward commitment. I'll tell you. You have a similar attitude...anytime I go and ask for support through the back side of StreamYard community. I mean, like through messaging. When I say the backside, that's sounded weird. When I ask for support, you're always there. I mean, you don't sleep, and I appreciate that. So, keep not sleeping for everybody's sake. Christian, you do the same. So, Christian, what about you? When you made that initial change from whatever camera you had before to this unbelievably clear one year look you're working with right now. What did that feel like the moment you saw a difference?
Christian Karasiewicz:
So, it's very interesting actually. So, this is actually what I was using before. I've been using this for quite a number of years. This is a Logitech Brio. It does do 4K. I invested in this one and eventually came out, and the quality was fantastic. The only thing was, though. I wanted to scale. So this was great for traveling, for example. This is what I took around with me. Super portable. It's got the ability to put it on a tripod. Fantastic, but it did not allow me to scale, so I had to always take up another USB port and all that sort of thing. When I moved to the Sony, the Sony looked very good. I will say the one thing you have to do, though, is you need to go through the settings. There are a few adjustments you want to change. That's what's going to actually enhance your picture quality of it. It's a fantastic camera. It's a Sony 6400. Then, really, the other side to it is also the lens. So I'm using a Sigma lens. So, that I think is the real big difference. I mean you have the kit lenses it comes with. I did make the investment in the the additional lens, which I think that's actually what's contributing to why it looks so good. I will say from a quality standpoint, again, start with what you have. You know, the key things for live streaming. Audio is going to be your most important part. Then also, if you, for example, are using one of these webcams, make sure you have enough light. These things look great with a lot of light. When you don't have a lot of light, you're going to see pixelation. You're going to see distortion and things like that. So, turn it back to you.
Brian Kelly:
Especially with light, if you turn on the green screen feature, you really need to have good lighting then. That's the biggest time. I'm so glad to be liberated from that. Even though I loved it. This is actually a natural well behind me. I painted the entire studio. I actually occupy my daughter's former bedroom. I've been here for four or five years now, and I finally got rid of the cartoon drawings and the yellow paint. I'm a real boy now. I have a real studio. This is awesome.
Christian Karasiewicz:
That looks really good by the way. I was very surprised (by) your background because that looks like one of the standard backgrounds people would normally bring up during a live stream. One that has, you know, the gradient going around the outside. So, whoever did the painting on that fantastic job.
Brian Kelly:
Why, thank you very much. My wife did most of the work to be honest, but I feel like that helps with that. Yeah.
Timothy McNeely:
If you want that comparison between cameras. Right. Christine was just talking about the Logitech Brio. That's what I'm on, and you can see the massive quality difference between Kristen and Julie versus the webcam. So. Right. (A) huge step up.
Brian Kelly:
Yeah, we'll point that out in glowing detail right now.
Christian Karasiewicz:
You're using a green screen. Right?
Timothy McNeely:
Yeah.
Brian Kelly:
Your sound, Christian, is smooth. I mean, you have a great radio voice. Having that microphone, I think will pivot to that too. Dylan, what are your thoughts on cameras? Yours looks actually really decent right now? You're on (a) green screen, correct?
Dylan Shinholser:
Correct. Yeah.
Brian Kelly:
It looks really clean. You've done a good job with all the lighting. It's almost like you've done this before, and you know what you're doing.
Dylan Shinholser:
I try. Yeah. So, I actually when I first started doing it, I started listening back on my phone. When this whole pandemic hit, I was using the one inside your laptop and realized very quickly (that) I'm on calls all day, live streaming shows and stuff. I was like, "I got to set my game up." So, I haven't made that leap yet to the DSLR, but I will. I'm on a Logitech, one of the models. I won't even lie because I'm not that tech-savvy. It was expensive for Logitech, so I bought it. I was like, "it's got to work." So, yeah. So, that's where I'm at. I agree heavily. I think it comes down to, because we get asked it and I know you guys get asked, it comes down to what you can afford at the moment. Then always trying to push the limits of production value. Right? My background was a wall. It was just like random yellow wall, and now I have a giant green screen wallpaper now. So, now, I can be wherever I want which is a concert. That's where I want to be, and that's where I'm going to be.
Brian Kelly:
You're the one on the stage, brother. Not the audience.
Dylan Shinholser:
No, I'm actually the guy behind the stage. I never want to be this. It's actually weird for me to be in front of people. I'm the guy behind the stage telling people to get on the stage.
Brian Kelly:
Pushing them forward. Well, you do a good job, Dylan. I wouldn't know any different. Maybe your calling is to step out from behind and be on front more often.
Dylan Shinholser:
We will see. Twenty twenty-one has a lot of stuff, and I've got a long way to go. I got super bored in twenty-twenty so I might as well talk.
Brian Kelly:
I've gotten to know you a little bit over time, and you've got a great personality. I think you need to shine in front of more people. That's my humble opinion.
Dylan Shinholser:
I appreciate that.
In the front, not behind the scenes. It's okay to be behind the scenes on occasion, but someone like you with your personality and your integrity, your character...get out there, buddy. It's a disservice if we don't get to see you. Let me put it that way.
That's what a mentor of mine said. He was like, "dude, you're actually being selfish by not talking more and getting it out." Because like I said at the beginning, I only want to help more people create better experiences and events. Make them flow better and make them more money as humanly possible. At the end of the day, I just want to travel the world with cool people and do cool things. I've learned a lot, and a lot of people need some of that experience. So, I got a stern talking to by one of my mentors. He was like, "dude..." I was like, "alright, it's alright. I promise." I started live streaming then had to get better cameras, better lights going on. It's crazy up here in my little command center of all these different lights, webcams, and monitors. Everything you need to do to pull these shows off.
Brian Kelly:
Yeah, I love it. Christian, go ahead.
Christian Karasiewicz:
So, I want to throw something in there real quick. We talked about various types of cameras. If you're just getting started, use that built-in laptop, the webcam. So then you can take it up a notch. You can go to the Logitech. The C922. That's about, I think, a 60 to 70 dollar webcam. So, don't overpay by the way. It's about 60 to 70 dollars. Get it from Logitec, probably. If you find an astronomical price on Amazon, move up to like the Brio, for example. If your budget allows it, that's about one hundred fifty dollar camera. Then move up to a DSLR. For example, Julie's got that, the Sony 6000. I would also say if you happen to have a smartphone, this can be used as a webcam. Essentially, if you think about it, this is a thousand dollar camera. Because you paid a thousand dollars for this device of sorts, and this will give you some phenomenal picture quality. If you already have a smartphone and you don't have to have the latest iPhone, it could be pretty much any iPhone and Android phone. You just need an app such as one called,"Camo." There's one called,"Erion." So, there are lots of apps out there. Don't think like, "hey, I have to now go drop a bunch of money." Look at the phones you have lying around. Those are going to be great ways to fix your picture quality.
Julie Riley:
I've been going live since 2015, and I only had this camera last year.
Brian Kelly:
That's it. You keep reinvesting. I had a good friend of mine who were business partners. He said, I'll never forget it,"sales drive service". When you're making money, you're able to invest. You're able to up your game, and I love that. So many great points. You can just set a phone on a tripod and your camera will look better than many people's webcams. For sure. One of the things that I would recommend, this isn't just a plug StreamYard, is to get at least get the free plan. Do they need any more than the free plan to be part of the community, Julie?
Julie Riley:
No. They can come to join the community even if they're just getting started into streaming. We do like everybody to have the free plan so they have an understanding, but we'll still let you in. Agree to the rules. That's the big thing. Yeah, come join the StreamYard community. It's really a "stream yard" community.
Brian Kelly:
It's a very valuable place because questions like what Christian just addressed are often asked (What do I need?). I'm just starting. I'm a newbie. I see that so much in there. What can you do to help with a camera or microphone or computer? You can go there if you have those questions and ask, and the community will fill in the blanks wonderfully well because they're a great bunch of people. Just like Tim down there who's gotten pushed to the side for a while. So, Tim, is this your first camera that you've been using for live streaming so far? Did you have one before it?
Timothy McNeely:
Yeah, right. I started with just an HD one. Right. Logitech and then jumped up to the Brio. Been happy with that so far. But, you know, it's interesting how the game keeps growing again. That's the thing, right? Just get started! Just do this. I started with just using zoom and recording those for my interviews, and then I realized (that) I need a better platform. I need a way to kind of do that live production. Now I'm doing Stream Yard and got intros. Just get started with whatever you've got and kind of build that proof of concept. You know, I recently just upgraded my lights because I bought the cheapest lights I could at first. I just wanted to do something, and done is better than not done a lot of times.
Brian Kelly:
I totally agree with everything you just said and like what Christian was saying. If you're going to put money into anything, make it the audio side of things first when you upgrade. I was fortunate. I started over nine years ago streaming live. This is a DSLR. Not a DSLR. Good grief, XLR microphone. It's old school. It's not even USB. So I plug it into a mixer board, and from there into my computer. I've used it for years. It's been just amazing. I've never had to do anything with my sound as a result. For you, there are great USB alternatives now. Oh my gosh, there are so many out there. Someone like Christian could probably point you in the right way. Someone like the StreamYard community could push you in the right way and tell you,"these are the ones". I have a connection with the guy who is a sound expert. I've never heard of this before. He has a studio that does 4D sound. I don't even know what that means. Four dementional?
Christian Karasiewicz:
Sweet.
I don't know what that means, audibly. He was telling me about speakers in the ceiling. I'm like, holy moly,. You don't need that obviously for a talk show like this, but think about the possibilities and have fun with it. The bottom line is, when you go on and go live. Enjoy yourself. I'm trying to do that a little bit with these fine people tonight. Thankfully, they're still here with me. I haven't upset them too great, especially Christian. I keep picking on him. Poor guy. I appreciate you all, and it's okay to have fun on your show. Would you guys agree with that? Is it okay to have a little bit of fun?
Julie Riley:
One hundred percent. If you're having fun, your audience is going to be having fun with you.
If you're not having fun... I don't believe in doing anything that I don't find fun. It's a life motto of mine. If I don't want to do it, I don't want to do it. Yeah. Like you said, Julie. If you're not having fun with it, then how in the world do you expect the viewers to want to have fun or engage or interact? It starts with you.
Brian Kelly:
Absolutely, absolutely. One of the things I wanted to pivot to is something I'm deeply interested in because the product that came up earlier when I did the quick ads spot. I like to solve the pain points that people are having in their live streaming experiences. I'm curious. I'll bet, Julie and Christian, you guys have seen and heard a lot about that. I actually had a team member of mine from my company put a poll up in the form of a meme, a graphic. What's the right word? I am having trouble with words these days. It's an infograph. That's it. Simple. I was a little bit shocked by the result, but I was just curious what you guys think. What are the biggest pain points you're seeing? (Either) that you're having individually. Tim, if you have that as well. Dylan as well. Dylan, you probably hear about a bunch of it as well. What are the pain points you are seeing come back over and over and over again? I'm having a horrible time trying to find another guest on my show if they're interview style, or the tech is just blowing my mind. Even though StreamYard is so simple. I'm having trouble with x, y, z. Let's just go around the horn. Dylan, if you don't mind, I put you on the spot. Can you think of any of those pain points that keep coming up over and over again?
Dylan Shinholser:
Yeah, absolutely. The biggest thing I see is they underestimate what it does take. I totally agree. Why I promote StreamYard to our clients and everyone I possibly can is because of the ease of use. People go into it and think shows are just like setting up the webcam, and they can be. Setting up the webcam and just talking. Right? There's a lot of back end stuff to this. These shows and I'm learning that as doing my own now. I'm like, holy cow, I'm about to hire fifteen people because this is absurd. But, yeah. I think that's the biggest thing that I see is underestimating it, but also at the same time, they overcomplicate it. They have to think (that) they have to have all these bells and whistles and seventeen thousand cameras and two million dollar microphones. It goes back to our first point of "just do it". It doesn't need to be overcomplicated, but understand going into it, there is some work that takes and understand that you do have to respect what it takes to put these on. At the same time, don't overcomplicate it. It's funny how people work. They overestimate or underestimate it, but then heavily overcomplicate it at the same time. I think that's the biggest one I see.
Brian Kelly:
I'm so glad you brought that up. I've said this so many times, people don't realize what goes on behind the scenes before the show even comes on live for that episode. The amount of time and effort. If you want to do a live show that's of quality and represent yourself and your brand in a way that you want it to be represented professionally. It takes a good amount of work for every single show. That's why I automated nearly every process (that) I use now. It took time to get there, but you can use a team. You can get a team. Like you said, Dylan, to also help out. For me, it's all about quality, and more time is spent before the show by far than the show itself. After the show is over, another good deal of time is spent. That is in the minor edits, the repurposing, the marketing, and everything else that goes beyond. The live show is this tiny window of time, and it's the fun is part of it by the way. When you have everything automated, the rest is not "not fun" because you're not doing it. It's all automated, but definitely great. Thank you for that. Julie, what has been some of the big p.. sorry to wake you up there. What have been some of the big pain points? You are wide awake. I just starttled you. You've seen over and over, I bet you've seen a bunch of them.
Julie Riley:
Oh, my gosh. So many, you know, especially because I'm approving all of the comments that are coming into the group. I think one of the huge ones is that the hesitation of people who believe that they have to have everything perfect. That they have to have all of the backdrops, the overlays, the banners, the super expensive microphone, and the super expensive camera. That they have it. The room behind them is messy. They haven't thought about turning to just a blank wall because they're like, "well, then I don't have a fancy studio set up." They get to this point where they're trying to create perfection, and perfection is a fairy tale. It doesn't exist. There is no such thing as perfection. There is, again, where Dylan said the overcomplicating it. They've got to really just slow down and go, "what do I need to get this process going?" What is the minimum to make it happen? From there, then I can then build on it, and build on it each week. Go, "okay, I got live. I got the first one out. I got the jitters out. I hate the way I sound." When I had my agency, I would tell my clients. They'd be like, "I can't stand the way I sound." I'm like, nobody likes the way (that) they sound. There's actually, and I say this all the time, there's a term for it that is a term for not liking the sound of your own voice. I tell people, you have to get over that fear. They're like,"I don't look good on camera, I don't know how to be on camera." The other thing I tell people is to set up a fake Facebook group with nobody else in it but you. Go live in there a bunch of times and just get those jitters out. Get that feeling of pressing the button and going live. Then invite your husband in, your sister, your mother, or whoever. Somebody so that you're talking to somebody. From there, build up each time. As we said with the cameras, again, you can you can slowly build. You can slowly add in the overlays. You can slowly add in the backgrounds.
Brian Kelly:
My goodness! I absolutely love it. I have my own Facebook group that I use just for that. Nothing more. I go in there, and I test things for StreamYard and other things in there. I go live in there because there's no substitute for going live. We've got more buttons to click, and things kind of change their arrangement just a little bit in the window. If you practiced it 20 times without going live, then you go live you're going to go, "what the heck just happened?" I don't know what I'm supposed to do now. That was perfect. Perfect advice. I love that. We've got a comment coming in or two or three. Yeah. Kelly, crucial. Kruschel. Sorry if I got that wrong.
Dylan Shinholser:
Kelly Kruschel. It's Kruschel. She said she's on my team. She's a friend. Hey, we've got a supporter.
Brian Kelly:
Love it. Love it. Then Fran Jesse, I know her. I'm getting ready to make my first video essentially input. Yeah. Reach out, Fran. We're friends. I will give you assistance in any way you want because this is the greatest this is the greatest avenue for media on the planet, in my humble opinion, for so many reasons. One is people get to see you. I love clubhouse. It's also phenomenal in different ways, but people get to see you. They get to interact with you. They can engage with you, and they get to see your essence. It doesn't cost you, the studio owner, studio time. If you do this in the old days when you have to go to a television studio and you want to do a show, it would cost you thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars just to use the studio. Let alone get the media time to put it up on a television station. We're living in wonderful times. It's the greatest time to be alive, in my humble opinion. I'm a tech geek. I'm not young anymore. I'm fifty six, but I can't wait for the rest of what my life has to hold. Yes. You're welcome, Fran. Any time. Wonderful. Wonderful. Alright. Where were we? I got all messed up and loving myself there. We're going to have fun. I'm being real. This is like... I don't know. I'm the most relaxed (that) I've been in a long time with everything that went on today. It was one of those weird, everything-going crazy days. I feel like I'm at home with you guys. That's why.
Dylan Shinholser:
It's been one of those years.
Brian Kelly:
Thank God that last one is over.
Dylan Shinholser:
Yeah, yeah. Sure.
Brian Kelly:
So, okay. Pain point. Let's go back around one more. Tim, what do you have?
Timothy McNeely:
Yeah. When I first started doing this, my whole goal was to get out there and to talk to the different experts in the different areas of the challenges that my my clients face. I started off as an interview show and just using Zoom to record the video. Then all of a sudden I had the video. Now I had to put an intro in. I had to put an exit in. I had to extract the audio so I could do the podcast. My team members and myself were spinning our wheels. Just trying to really kind of create a workflow around the creation of this content so we could get the message out and help people with their challenges. For me, all of a sudden, the revelation was (that) I can do this live. I can have people type in (and) ask comments as I'm doing the show. Not only that, from start to finish, I can produce the whole thing going live. Right? You go live. You can play an intro now. You can throw in little commercial breaks. You can throw in the outro, and then it's done. Download the audio. You throw it up, and now you've got your podcast. You don't have to upload video to YouTube and Facebook and LinkedIn. It's done for you now, automatically. So really my biggest pain point was just the production side of things and putting everything together so that I could keep talking to people and doing the fun part. Right? I don't want to get caught up in all the details of making this. I want to talk to people, learn, and share that knowledge. Really, a lot of the pain point, just using StreamYard has really been absolved because it's a turn-key easy to use platform.
Brian Kelly:
Amen to all of that brother. Here's the key for everyone that's ever going to do a live show or has done one. The most important part is that you show up and you be the talent. That means you need to be dedicated mentally toward what the task is at hand. If I have too many things going on, like production-wise, which I used to when I didn't automate things. That's in the back of my mind. Did I dot every "i"? Did I cross every "t"? What's going to screw up on this show? Versus showing up fully for my guest. Being there for them. Getting out of myself and my own business and being present for the other person, that's what I'm about. Lifting up the other people, that's what my show's about. It's important to me.
Timothy McNeely:
Actually, if I can touch on that talent piece, Brian? I think he brought something up so important for everyone listening to this. If you're doing any kind of a show where you're interviewing people, chances are (that) the person you're talking to (is) a little bit uncomfortable. Your job, as the talent, is to spend some time before the show really crafting what it's going to look like. What direction are you going to go in? You want to make that person you're talking to look like a star. The more you can rehearse with them and put them at ease, you're going to end up with a much, much better show. Because you've taken a little bit of time to make sure that (the) other person is going to shine just as bright as you do. So, take that time to work with your guests beforehand through interview guides, through little questionnaires. So that you can help prep them, to keep them on a thread, and you can really help them deliver their message. Most people are not trained professional speakers. They just aren't. I've hired some of the best speaking coaches to help me develop messages, stay on topic, and learn how to tell stories. People don't invest time, energy, and effort to do that. You can help them do that through a briefing before you start your live with them.
Brian Kelly:
Yeah. That's why I was saying before, I do a thirty-minute preshow. All of us were on here for 30 minutes getting to know each other, making sure all the tech was good, doing some checkout. You were talking about people being nervous and stuff. That's why I'm riding Christian so hard with all these jokes and stuff because it broke his nervousness. You can see his sweating. I am so kidding. This guy's raw. He's a rock. He's awesome. He's a pro. I love this guy, man. I always pick on the quiet ones. I don't know why that is. Christian, man, you're bringing massive value. All kidding aside, you're very experienced. You're matched for what you do. You've said already so many amazing things. What about you, brother?
Christian Karasiewicz:
I'd say this. I think a couple of the pain points. I think one is people want to ask, "how do I get better at my live stream?" I think (that) the first thing is practice. To Julie's point, I think you mentioned having overlays, backgrounds, and all this other stuff. Look at it like this. You want to show your audience as well while you're helping them. You're doing this with them. You have everything at the same time, and you're trying to make everything perfect. Your audience is going to be like, "I'm not going to stick around this person because they've done such a good job already. I won't ever get to that point". They start having that self-doubt. The key thing is going to be practice. You don't have to have every single one of the overlays. Maybe start with the the intro or the thumbnail, and maybe you have an outro for example. (Those are) the first two things you do. As you build the show, then you can add segment graphics. You can add videos. So, you can scale it, but you don't have to have so much at one time because then it's just too overwhelming. That's point number one. Pain point number two is that people, for some reason, think that they're going to immediately be able to monetize their live stream. I say pain point because everybody's like, "oh, I bought all that equipment." Now, you've got to figure out how to pay for all that equipment, you know? If you're struggling already with your business and growing it, then you're not going to immediately monetize live stream. You have to have an audience. You know, you have to build that community. When you go live, they're tuning in because (of) the social platforms. They want to see that you're bringing viewers, they want to see engagement. So, point number two is monetizing your live stream. There are ways to do that, but don't always set out with monetization being number one. It could take a couple of years to monetize. So, get started. Build on it, then make those investments as your business is growing. Yes, mic drop. Yes.
Dylan Shinholser:
Do you have that mic? Just a mic drop? Because I might need to get one.
Brian Kelly:
It's actually super.
Dylan Shinholser:
Yeah, super real.
Christian Karasiewicz:
That's pretty cool, actually.
Julie Riley:
I like that.
Brian Kelly:
It's actually part of a magic trick that you put in a paper bag. It's a long story, but I found one more affordable that would not break my keyboard because that's what it landed on. You didn't hear it. Oh, my gosh. Golden nuggets there, as usual, from Christian who I give a lot of hard time to. I'm going to stop because you're amazing dude, and I don't want to get mad at me. I want you to be my friend. So many great things. So, you said two years. I was like, wow. I was watching an interview. How many of you have heard of Lewis Howes? Former professional football player and turned incredible entrepreneur. He's all over the place. He was being interviewed, and the guy interviewing him asked him a question. He said, "so, Lewis, if someone came to you, and they were talking about the fact they wanted to start a podcast. Now, we're talking just the audio version. That's what a podcast really is for everyone that may not know it's audio-only. Not video, even though they're going that way." He said, "well, here's what I'd tell them. First, you got to actually be consistent. Whenever you decide to do it, do it at that same day and that same time every week or multiple times a week. Whatever that happens to be. Number two, more importantly. You must commit yourself to doing that for at least, the magic number, two years. If they are not willing to do that, I would tell them, don't even get started." We didn't talk about monetization. None of that was discussed during this Q&A. That was telling. Who was I talking about this earlier with earlier today? It's not necessarily about monetizing. It's about building your platform, and I wanted to add to that. It took me in two years. I was just hitting that moment in time of my live show. That's when the momentum started. He was spot on, and so are you, Christian, about the two years. Then using a certain strategy (that) I use, I continually ask for referrals in a certain way. I eventually landed the one and only Les Brown. Some of you know who that is. Some of you don't. I've noticed some don't and Im like,"what rock are you living under?" He's amazing, and he's been on my show. Because of that, the two-year commitment is my point. Not talking about monetization. Then what I found after doing this for two years and striving for excellence all the time in every facet, I'm talking about the preshow communication with upcoming guests and the setup and the prep that they all go through and my system makes sure they do. The show itself and then after the show, all the post-production, everything that goes into it. Once you have that, people notice and my show, without my intending it to be, became an incredible, powerful lead magnet for my business. Focus, just as Christian was stating so properly, does definitely, positively impact your business. If you do it right. You do it high quality, and again, within reason within the resources you have. Go ahead, Christian.
Christian Karasiewicz:
I was going to say. That's another point that people look at, and they want to generate revenue off of it. That revenue may not be actual money upfront. It may end up being (help) (to) drive more leads to my website. It's not necessarily driving more people to my social channels. You're following is... It's OK. That's not going to necessarily grow your business because you had five more followers on Instagram or something like that. It's potentially getting them back to your website, which can be an opportunity for them to schedule a coaching call with you, maybe buy a product from you, learn from you for example. You're not going to get every single person to become a customer, but you're going to be able to use it to generate more leads.
Brian Kelly:
Totally, totally true.
Dylan Shinholser:
That's why I do it.
Brian Kelly:
You see on the top of this screen "streaming live on" and then five. We're doing it to eight right now or seven right now. "Listen-on" down below. On the bottom, there's actually twenty five of those like us could fit them all. Roku now was on Fire TV. Look, you're not making money from those, but here's what happened. How many of you have heard of Kevin Harrington? Shark Tank? Original Shark Tank? He has a partner named, "Seth Green", and they do a podcast together. They've been doing it for years now. They have five-hundred plus episodes. We got introduced, Seth and I. I met Kevin. We shared the stage once. I'm not name-dropping, but yes, I am. It was awesome, and it was fun. Seth reached out. We were connected by someone else. We were introduced, and Seth did his own homework. He came back, we literally talked on Zoom, and he says, "wow, I did some research. I looked you up and, my God, you're everywhere." I just wanted to say, "yeah, that's right." So, you want to get out there. That's why, shameless plug, I call it, "carpet bomb marketing". You saturate with everything you've got within reason. Right? If you can automate it, it can be near or completely free. So just do it. Why not add it to your arsenal? So, it works. Just be consistent to a minimum of two years. Get in touch with people like Julie, Christian, Tim, and Dylan. You might make that even quicker than two years. I'll direct you to the shortcuts that many of us did by trial and error.
Timothy McNeely:
Touching on the monetization piece, a good friend of mine runs one of the top coaching consultancies out there. Right. Very, very successful. Runs a great podcast, great show. I ask him one day. I said, "have you need any money doing your podcast?" He thought for a second. He says, "naw, I've actually lost money doing it. The relationships that I've made...I've made millions off (of) that." If you approach it from that standpoint... There's different goals, but I always approach, you know, what's the end result? What are you looking for out of your show? Why are you doing it? That's how you can measure the success of it. Is it helping you achieve whatever goals you set for yourself?
Brian Kelly:
Totally agree. It's very similar. Isn't it? To writing a book? I'm holding up another namedrop. Yes, it's very similar to writing your own book. Because a lot of people want to write a book and make a living off of the sales of the book. I'm sorry, ladies and gentlemen, most of the time it just doesn't happen that way. If anyone comes up to you and you're talking to them... During the course of conversation, maybe you ask them what they've been up to? Or, hey, I've authored a book. The moment they say that, in your eyes, do they not lift up in an influence in your mind? Right then and there? Instantly. It builds authority. That's exactly what this live show, and live shows like it, are doing. When you're giving evidence of it by spitting it out to all of these platforms, there's no way people can't find you and know that you're serious. You know, it's showing that you have a commitment level. It's showing that you have a quality level of professionalism. It's not about the show itself. It's like, well, if I do business with that person, or will I... Will I want to do business that person? If they're professional. Yes. If they put on a shoddy show, they might give me shoddy service. If I do business with them. Does that make sense? People want to (be) representing yourself in the best. Do it the best you can, but do it. Please, don't delay. Don't try to be perfect. You heard everybody talk. Go ahead, Dylan. You had something?
Dylan Shinholser:
Well, yeah. There's indirect ways to make money with shows, live streams, and of course direct (ways). Right. Direct is selling sponsorships, ad-space, all that good stuff. The indirect monetization is so much more powerful. When I do shows or when I hop on shows or anything, it's literally just to build a top-down awareness of myself. I just want people to know what Dylan Shinholser is. Then that way, because I do multiple things, I'm never trying to sell one product at any given time. I'm trying to sell myself, and what it does is it gives me that outlet to do it. Then if you're hosting a show. Right? This maybe goes into some other topics around how to market and things like that. It's a powerful relationship tool because when you can open your platform to other people that you're looking to connect with. I'm in the business of working with influencers and throwing their events. Well, the best way to connect was get them on my show. It gave me a reason to reach out that wasn't pitchy or sales. It was more or less. Hey, man, I just want to give you an outlet, because I think what you talk about is cool. Tell my people about it. After the show, I was like, "hey, man, what are you doing next Tuesday? I need a speaker." Or "hey, man. I have some ideas (that) I want to pitch you or (some) things. They're more receptive. So, I always do shows and things not about the direct money I get, but the indirect thing. It's the indirect impact that I get from relationships, or people sharing my stuff out and people go, oh man, he sounds semi-intelligent unless they're watching this. Then then they'll go, okay, great. Let me go over to this platform that he runs with this business that he does or whatever because he sounded halfway intelligent on that show. Right? So, I think the indirect monetization is what most people don't... They don't get that the instant gratification of like that five thousand dollars sponsorship check. When I forgo that and go on to bring on much more money on the backend with the people I connect with, in the top influence that I get.
Brian Kelly:
The magic word there was "relationship".
Dylan Shinholser:
Relationships all day, every day. That's all I do- is build relationships, and how can I do it? Do more shows like this. Can I get it out? You're on like forty-two different podcast or outlets here, right? Every one of those. Every time you put a show on it, you're building a relationship with someone on that platform. Even if it's just you talking, and they're listening. You're building that relationship. Everything (that) I do, is built on: how can I develop relationships? Live streams is just an amazing way to do so.
Brian Kelly:
Posting them is one thing. Right? That's a great thing. What I learned through a podcasting expert friend of mine is the maybe not as equally important, but possibly greater importance, is getting on other people's shows. That includes audio podcasts only. He explained how his business skyrocketed when he did what he called, "podcast guest marathons". He would have someone get him booked in his team. He would carve out three days and just say get as many as you can for me. He'd do that. Then when they ask him about how to get in contact with him... This is the gold right here... It's not go to my Facebook page and look up my name and message me. He would tell them to go to his podcast website and from there to subscribe. Now he's building a following. It's genius. It's so genius. I just want to impart that. The cool thing, though, is when you're hosting a high-quality live show that opens the door for you to be a guest on many more.
Dylan Shinholser:
Oh, yeah. Yeah, absolutely. Being a guest is what goes back to the authority building. Right? If I can build my authority, I build my influence. If I do have something to sell... If I'm trying to build my brand or whatever it is or I'm just trying to get to as many people as possible to talk about events with them... That authority I call it, "authority hacking", being able to get them on your show. That'll get your show in front of their audience, and then going on to other shows helps you develop your authority. It's like writing a book. I was I'm a guest on this show, this show, this show. It's like writing a book. Your authority starts to become a little bit more when you're leveraging their influence. Right? When you're a guest on the show, if that show has a following, you becoming a guest on that show gives you authority because now you have the validation of the host that everyone is following and love. So, I can authority hack by getting on other people's shows.
Brian Kelly:
It leverges. You have a whole new tribe watching and interacting with you as well. I mean, this is one of the most powerful things people can use. If they just get out of that rut of trying to find a way to make money with it directly, that's when they'll see the real value come through. It's about building relationships. It's long-term. Not short, quick kill. I got to make a commission and run. It's build a relationship. Establish it. If you go into this with the mindset of it not being for directly making money, I personally think you have greater success. The long-term plays always work better than the short-term. Short-term works can work, but they're temporary. The long-term is a lot more permanent and lasting. Just think of all the wonderful bread crumbs you're leaving throughout the world. Through all the venues and platforms we've been talking about. In speaking terms, if you're on stage, that's what we call a "stage swap". Where you would be a guest on someone else's stage in return for them saying, "okay, but I'm going to do the opposite." We'll have you on our as well. The same thing with podcasts and live video. It works really great. Just make sure they're a fit.
Dylan Shinholser:
They've got to fit. (It's) got to makes sense.
Brian Kelly:
Both ways. Yeah.
Christian Karasiewicz:
I want to add something real quick to that. If you are consistently going live, so it's great to be consistent, go live on a regular basis, but also think about the long game. It's a couple of years, for example. Also, don't be afraid to be making changes and adjustments as things are moving along. It's not about substituting equipment. It's about looking at your process. For example, you mentioned Brian, that you have automation on some of the things. Think of smarter ways to take bigger jumps ahead. If I have to send someone an email, and I'm like, "hey, do you want to be on my show?" Then I have to deal with the whole back and forth. Well, okay. Yeah. What time? Then I have to send everything back. There are tools out there like Calendly, Harmonizely. You can send a calendar link to somebody and they can only book a certain slot for example and vice versa. This takes out the guesswork out of having to do all that back and forth. That's a way to work smarter because now you want to book people for your show. You send them one link. The person then doesn't have to send you a message back, and you can even use it to collect feedback for your show questions. There's not a lot of back-and-forth and downtime.
Brian Kelly:
Yeah, absolutely. I do that as well, and it's a godsend. I could not do what I'm doing. I would not do what I'm doing without the automation part of it. I have an onboarding form. You guys all... Most, not all of you went through it, but that was a mini version. Julie, you went through the big version. I then changed it right after I saw that. Like you said, make adjustments. That's what I did. I'm constantly doing that. Improving. I have a document automatically generated in Google Docs with your bio. The answer you had to why you think you would bring value to the show. Also, all the questions you chose to be asked for the show. Some of you didn't see that. So everything's done. The Q&A part used to take hours and hours doing manually. Now I just give them thirty-eight questions. Choose ten, and we're good. You tick the box. You choose what I'm going to ask you. (I) just made it a system, and it has worked beautifully. I don't even use the ten questions hardly. I use maybe the first three. Then we go organically like we've been doing tonight. My God, it's six twenty-nine! Are you kidding me? I'm having too much fun. Real quick. I know everyone that came on in the beginning. You heard this thing about a prize. We're going to do that real quick, and we'll come back and wrap it up. For those of you watching, remember in the beginning I said, "take notes and don't go clicking away and stuff like that"? Now I think Dylan, Julie, Tim, and Christian will also give you permission to do what I'm saying, and that is take out your phone. Take your gaze away from us for just a moment, but you'll still have to look back. Yes, yes. You can do this too. Please, do. What I want you to do....
Dylan Shinholser:
I need a vacation.
This is how you can enter to win a five-night stay at a five-star luxury resort of your choosing. Here's what you do. Take out your message app on your phone. Fire that up- your text message app. Where you would type in the name of the person normally that you're going to text. Instead, put in this number: three, one, four, six, six five-they're all doing it behind the scenes- one, seven, six, seven. I love this. Three, one, four, six, six, five, one, seven, six, seven. If you're watching this and you're not a guest, go ahead and write this down because I gonna take the screen down. I want you to get it. This will be open until the end of the evening. Where you actually put in the message... Where you might put emojis, those kinds of things, not emojis, just two words separated by a dash or a hyphen. Those words are peak (P-E-A-K) dash Vacation (V-A-C-A-T-I-O-N). All together. No spaces. Peak vacation. Send it off, then monitor your phone. You're going to get an automated response back asking you for your email address, and that will then officially enter you into the contest. Compliments of The Big Insider Secrets. Our buddies, Jason Nash, the owner. Dear friend of mine who lets us give this away every single week. Every show, actually. We do more than one a week now on average. So go ahead, get that entered. I can't wait to see who's going to win that. You're going to be asked later, you don't have to if you're the winner, to provide your Facebook information. Just your profile so we can say congrats and give you a high-five online and get others to come watch the show. To be honest, that's another strategy. We're just rolling back the curtain. That's why we do it this way. You can offer incentives like that. My friend has offered that to anyone who is my friend. If you're not my friend, you don't get it. If you're on as part of the panel here, they're all my friends. Christian may differ on that opinion, but I think he's my friend.
Christian Karasiewicz:
I'm your friend. Yes.
Brian Kelly:
Ok, good. I picked on you so hard. I apologize, but you're just you're a fun guy. I appreciate you for putting up with it. I definitely do stuff like that. Implement it and announce it in the beginning. That helps retention. I'm just pulling back the curtain for everybody. You can do different things like that. Having multiple people, I noticed, is also a little better than just one every single time. So, mix it up now and then. Alright. I know we're a little bit over, but I want to give you each another chance for a final parting tip. Anything you want on live streaming. It could be hardware, software, how you smile, what bling you wear, don't wear, your makeup. I'm wearing some, by the way, just so the guys know. Yeah, I don't know what they call it. It's not like guy up.. guy-liner, but it's like makeup. I know. That was bad.
Dylan Shinholser:
I haven't heard of that one.
Brian Kelly:
I just did that. I'm not a young fart anymore. Anyway. So, Dylan, we'll do the same thing. Go around the horn. What would be one final quick tip, or parting words of advice, you can give our wonderful viewing and listening audience?
Dylan Shinholser:
Keep it simple stupid. Don't overcomplicate it. There's things that you need to do and standards you need to meet. At the end of the day, keep it simple stupid will allow you to not overcomplicated it (and) get overwhelmed. Once you get overwhelmed, it's a wash. I would just say as a life advice, event advice, live stream advice, just keep it simple stupid and keep it moving.
Brian Kelly:
Real quick, I got to interject on that. Just so people know that that comes from an acronym K.I.S.S. So we're not calling everybody stupid, for one.
Dylan Shinholser:
Well...
Brian Kelly:
That was great. I have a friend who is Sicilian in nature, and he did this from the stage. He talked about it, and he brought up the whole thing. We're talking about doing it without complicating it. He goes, "It's like K.I.S.S. Who knows what K.I.S.S means?" Someone raised their hands. They said, "keep it simple, stupid". He goes,"Oh, no, no. It's keep it simple Sicilian." He lighten the load of the stupid part. I thought that was cool. Sorry, Julie, what is your parting tip?
Julie Riley:
You know, you're going to have to get started at some point. In order to do that, you're going to have to get over your fear. Go practice. Get those done, but also go watch and find other people that you resonate with their live shows. Start to take pieces from each of those. Now, obviously, you cannot go copy their live show and recreate it. You can pull little things from multiple different people's live shows that you like and that resonate with you. If you're comfortable and things are resonating with you, you're going to exude that comfort and that confidence out to the rest of the world.
Brian Kelly:
I love it. I love it. Alright. The man, the myth, the legend, Timothy J. McNeely. What is your final parting word of advice?
Timothy McNeely:
I'm going to close with a story. The purpose of this story is to illustrate the power of doing a show. July 20th, 1969, the first man walked on the moon. He left his footprints up there. On the moon, there's no wind. There's no rain. There's no weather, and those footprints today in twenty twenty-one look exactly like they did in nineteen sixty-nine. They're going to be exactly the same a million years from now. You too. You leave footprints on the hearts and the minds of everyone that you come in contact with. In streaming and having a platform, that's your opportunity to leave your footprints and to have an impact on people. Get clear about what your message is. What's the impact you want to have? If you do that, all of the other puzzle pieces are going to fall in place for you.
Brian Kelly:
Oh, baby. Okay, I've got to do it. I've got to do it. That was amazing.
Dylan Shinholser:
You have to get one of the little lower third animation gifts that are possible here on StreamYard. It's just a mic drop every time someone does one.
Brian Kelly:
Not nearly as much fun though, bro.
Christian Karasiewicz:
That's true. Fair. Very fair. I'll give it to you. I've got to get me one of those little squishy microphones.
Brian Kelly:
A little sound effect like I just broke my desk or something. That would be good. Alright, Christian, you've had a long time to think about it now. No pressure, but this better be a good one. I'm kidding. What do you have?
Christian Karasiewicz:
Let's see. The best piece of advice, I think, would be don't have gas or gear acquisition syndrome. You're going to watch people doing their live streams, and they're going to go and be like, "hey, I got to get that mic because this person upgraded." Oh, they got a new webcam. Remember? If you develop a plan, the whole thing is work the plan.. work the system. It's great (that) somebody else got some equipment, but it doesn't mean that you need to go out and get that yourself as well. Remember, work your plan. When you get to the certain points, maybe set that as a milestone. If I get to a certain number of viewers, for example, or a certain number of subscribers on a channel, then I might need to upgrade something. Don't be buying stuff just because someone else is doing so.
Brian Kelly:
Sales drive service. I love it. You guys are amazing. Thank you so much for coming on. Everyone who watched live. Thank you for coming on. Those of you that watched on the recording. Thank you for spending your valuable time with us, and those listening on the podcast. The same goes for you. Definitely. I hope you took a lot of notes because these are experts in the field. They are giving their value, their heart, their experience. They only charged me two-hundred thousand dollars for it. It's really been a deal. I'm kidding. They charged me nothing. You got incredible value from these amazing, amazing professionals. I can't thank you all enough. I appreciate you Dylan, Julie, Tim, Christian. Thank you from the bottom of my heart with all seriousness. I know we had some fun tonight. Thank you, Christian, so much for letting me pick on you so hard. You've been a great guy. I look forward to getting to know each and every one of you at a deeper level. If you're open to that after tonight. Appreciate you all. On behalf of these amazing people, that's it. We're out. My name is Brian Kelly. I'm the host of The MIND BODY BUSINESS Show. Until next time we will see you. Be blessed. So long for now.
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