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Brian Kelly:
So here's the big question. How are entrepreneurs like us who have been hustling and struggling to make it to success, who seem to make it one step forward, only to fall two steps back? Who are dedicated? Determined. And driven. We finally break through and win. That is the question. And this podcast will give you the. My name is Brian Kelly. And this is the mind body. Hello everyone and welcome, welcome, welcome to the Mind Body Business Show. We have a phenomenal guest lined up. Terry Duffy is with us here tonight. She is waiting in the wings. She's chomping at the bit she wants on and she's coming out very, very soon. Real quick, the mind body business show, it is a show that has been put together by entrepreneurs for entrepreneurs with the express purpose of helping you to gain success quicker. How many of you would like a shortcut to success and do it with all integrity and character? Yeah, I'm one too. And so what happens is we bring on very successful entrepreneurs from all over the world in various stages of their business as well, who come on and they share what their quote unquote secrets to their success. Ah, and the beautiful thing about that is, is you can take these secrets, implement them in your own business and achieve success faster. It's all about what I call modeling. I'm not the one that invented that word, and it's a fancy word for copying. And that's the beautiful thing. You have the express unwritten permission of myself and every guest that comes on the show to basically model what they have done to achieve their success. So just think of the Mind Body Business Show as your shortcut to success. It's like having a seminar for free every single week with one beautiful, amazing guest like Terry Duffy, who's coming on very soon. And so it's about what I call the three pillars of success. That's why it's mind, body and business mind means mindset. Successful people that I had studied over the course of, say, ten years, a little bit more than that, I noticed they all had these three traits and mine was they had very powerful, more importantly, a flexible mindset body.
Brian Kelly:
They each and every one that I studied that were successful, they also took care of their body. Yes, their physical body, through exercise and through nutrition. Oh, my gosh. We've got an expert on the show tonight. Hint, hint, wink, wink in that very area for taking care of oneself with your body. Terry Duffy is an expert and you're going to want to listen to what she has to say tonight. And then there's business. And business is multifaceted. There are many, many there are many skill sets that one must master in order to have a successful and thriving business. And in each and every show, we cover a little bit of some of the topics, and sometimes we cover all three. It's an organic flowing show, and every single time massive value ensues. And I know it will be no different with Terry Duffy. She's an amazing woman, was getting to get to know her a little bit right before the show started and she's an amazing, amazing woman. You're going to love her just like I love her. All right. And speaking of super successful people, one of the other common traits I found is that to a person, each and every one were very avid readers of books. And with that, I like to segue into a very short segment. I like to affectionately call Bookmarks.
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Brian Kelly:
There you see it rich epic library dot com. And a word of advice real quick is when you hear of these resources and websites and things of that nature, books could be books. Write them down, take notes during the show, especially when Terry comes on. Because here's the thing. I've seen this from stage while I'm speaking from stage, and I know I'm getting to the really juicy part, the part that's going to change lives. Sometimes a person or two will get up and they need to use a restroom, or they get that all important phone call or text message that they must go address. Well, they're just missing perhaps the most important thing that could have changed their life forever. I don't know for a fact, but it could have. And I would hate for that to happen to you because you took your attention away from what Terry is saying when she comes on tonight. So keep your attention with the show, take notes and then visit the resources and search for the resources after the show. That's my advice. I hope you eat it because. I've been there myself and come back and everyone's cheering. I'm like, What did I miss? So reach your peak library. That is a resource that I had built up with you in mind. And what it is, is a collection of books that I personally have read and that I personally vet. And so the reason I put it together is so that you have a higher likelihood of finding a book that will be something worthy of your time versus something that wouldn't might possibly waste your time. And so I picked only the books that had a profound impact on my life, either in business or personal or both. And those are in this website is a list. It is not this this website is not here to make money. So here's the thing. If you find a book on there that you that really you want to read and it jumps out at you, you can either click the button on the site or you can go off to Amazon and find it there. It doesn't matter. As long as you open the book, you get the book, you download it, you put it on audible, you you purchase a physical copy, whatever you like, and read the book.
Brian Kelly:
So that is my advice to you. And there's no rhyme or reason to the order of these books that are listed on this website as you see them flying by for those of you watching live. So just find the first book that really resonates with you that you have yet to read. Maybe you want to read it again and yet lost your copy. It doesn't matter. Just go get the next good read and absorb it and then come back and get the next one after that and find it wherever you want to find it and just take action and make it happen. That is my soapbox moment. And now that I'm getting off that soapbox, we're going to have even more fun because you know what it's time for? It is time to bring on the one and only. Terry Duffy So let's do that, shall we? Here we go.
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Brian Kelly:
And there she is, ladies and gentlemen. Yes, it is the one. The only. Terry Duffy. Yes.
Terry Duffy:
Thank you, Brian.
Brian Kelly:
You're very welcome. How are you doing tonight, Terry?
Terry Duffy:
I'm doing great. I'm very excited to talk to you and your fantastic show. It's so needed right now. So I really appreciate that you have this kind of a show.
Brian Kelly:
Oh, thank you so much. It's it's so fun to do this. I love what I get to do. And, yeah, I think I'm the biggest recipient of all the juice and the fun of anyone because I get to meet amazing individuals such as yourself who are here to help people, to serve people, to make them well, like in your case, specifically. My goodness, it's amazing. Hey, before we get into the real good stuff and I'm going to introduce you the way you deserve to be introduced for one, Terry and I won't forget to do that. But before I do that, I want to do a little housekeeping. And so for those of you watching or listening, you can see if you're watching above Terry's left shoulder, it's the right side of the screen of you watching straight on. There's a nice red and white logo up there. It looks like a stamp. It's the big insider secrets. They are the sponsors of the show. And that enables us to offer each and every show a five night stay at a five star luxury resort. And that is all because of Jason Nast and the big insider secrets. You do not want to miss the opportunity to win that. And so stick until the end and I'll give you the details on how you can enter to win every single show we give this away. I love the fact that Jason has given us this ability to do that. So do that. Make sure. And then a couple more. And we'll bring back Terry in just a second. I promise. I promise. So if you're struggling with putting a live show together and maybe it's overwhelming and maybe you want a lot of the processes done for you while still enabling you to put on a high quality show and connect with great people like Terry Duffy Hint, hint and grow your business all at the same time. Then head on over to carpet bomb marketing, carpet bomb marketing, saturate the marketplace with your message. And one of the key components that is contained in the carpet bomb marketing process is one that you'll learn how to absolutely master. It's the very service we use right now to stream our live shows right here on the Mind Body Business Show.
Brian Kelly:
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Terry Duffy:
Terry Duffy Thank you, Brian.
Brian Kelly:
You're very welcome. I love and something that people don't know and I'd like you to expand on it if you would in a little bit. But you have a history of being a teacher and so who better to put on courses for people to study and not just consume, but get results from then someone who's been doing it, who's an expert at it. And that's what really sets you apart from many who put together their own courses that you have the acumen, you have the experience in the background. So I love that about you. There's many things, including your wonderful mindset. So when you get up in the morning, this is something I love to open with because our success, or lack thereof, in my humble opinion, is 100% attributed to what's going on between those two ears in our respective noggins. And for you, Terry, when you get up in the morning, what I like to find out and what I like to know is, you know, that being an entrepreneur is not always simple. It's not straightforward. Not everything is told. You're not given a roadmap on how to do everything. You have kind of got to figure stuff out as you go. And it can get arduous at times when you get up in the morning knowing that you've got another day of that ahead of you. What keeps you positive? What keeps you motivated? What keeps you driven to keep going day in and day out?
Terry Duffy:
I have to start with walking outside or doing yoga, and I really make sure that three days a week I'll do yoga and three days a week I'll walk outside. I, I was once told when I was going through a really hard time that if you do yoga three times a week, it will change your life. And so I really put that intent that I was going to do that. And it did. It changed my life. It's it's because of the movement. It's because of the finding that balance. But it's also the breathwork. And that's the most important part of it. You can really not move and do breathwork and you're doing yoga. And so I have incorporated that and have established my own practice. And I love saying that because practice is something that you continually do. You know, you're always practicing and you're you're never quite there, you're constantly developing. And so my practice is specifically for me, it incorporates some stretching and some breathwork and a flow routine and some balance and things like that. But it is it is something that always makes me feel better afterwards. And then being out in nature is just, you know, you can't lose. You're just whether it's raining or whether it's snowing or whether whatever the weather is, when you are out in nature, it just it heals you. You know, we're interconnected and we need that experience of being outside. And that's if you're in a city country, wherever you are, we really need that. But also, I have a gratitude book and I am I'm not consistent enough. I will be very honest right up front, you know, days can go by and and some of them are pages are not filled out. But yet I really try to do it every day. And, you know, you can be you can be grateful for the fact that you can walk, that I can see, that I can smell. I mean, it's the little things. And some days when things are going bad and things are rough, you got to. With those little things. Right. And yet it works, you know. There was a speaker, Roger Gabriel, who said thinking of or complaining is like praying for all the things that you don't want to happen. So if you keep your mindset positive and you really are in that gratitude state of mind, it it's another game changer for sure.
Brian Kelly:
I love all of that. Yeah. And walking outside, I can I can relate to that. If I don't have enough time to go for any kind of walk, I'll just jump out in my back yard where I have a lawn, I take my shoes off, get grounded, get the sun at my face for as long as I can. Sip on my coffee, do some jumping jacks sometimes when I'm out there, get the heart pumping yoga. Oh my gosh. I've done yoga and I've never sweat so much doing so. Nothing in my entire life. Just holding positions. My goodness. But I can concur with what you're saying. I was just telling my son a couple of days ago, I said, I need to do some yoga again. It's been a long time. And it's just it stretches your body. Your body feels good. It it releases a lot of poisons. I can just tell you just feel it that you just feel better. All the stress is gone when you're done, you know, and be sure to have a mat or something that will absorb all the sweat that's going to happen.
Terry Duffy:
Yeah.
Brian Kelly:
Goodness. Oh, it's quite. I just. I watched it from afar and I thought, oh, it's just people putting in stances and twisting around like a pretzel. How hard can that be? He's like, Wow, I had no idea. It can be very difficult and there are certain things I cannot do this day. I'm just not.
Terry Duffy:
Oh yeah.
Brian Kelly:
Flexible and all that balanced. But if I kept at it, I'm sure I could. If I had a trainer like you, I bet I could do it.
Terry Duffy:
There's a lot that I can't do for sure. That's why I tailor my own practice to me.
Brian Kelly:
And that is an important point. I'm glad you brought that up again, because you have somewhat of a regimented morning system routine, and that's what I find of many, many successful people that I've interviewed on that show. That is one common denominator. The one thing I always tell folks is what you just said is customize it to you. You know, listen to what Terry just said. If you don't have a routine model, it do what she does. And then if it doesn't work exactly the way she described it for you, customize it, change it. So it does mix in something else that does work better for you. I interviewed a guy who starts out his day by jumping on a trampoline.
Terry Duffy:
Great.
Brian Kelly:
Yeah. And it's extra. It's really good. And it forces blood to move in your extremities that it normally wouldn't. Wow. I've been into fitness form, our personal certified personal trainer, and I was like, I never heard of this. This is it actually makes total sense. And he said it's changed his life and he does it every day and he's been doing it for years, every single morning. And so, yeah, the key is, is to have some kind of routine. I've noticed I'm a lot like you, Terry. I don't I'm not very good about staying disciplined in those. I've been asked that question on multiple shows that I'm not the host. And they say, what's your what's your routine every morning? I said, I don't have one. I don't have one. I just I continue to do things I know that are right for me. And I do different things. I like variety, so I don't just do the same thing and I, I don't write it all down and say, do this this day. I write down things that are necessary for appointments and things. But that's one of those areas that I don't have that kind of discipline when it comes to that. It just it's a weird thing, but I've never had what I've done. All right, so it's okay. So fantastic. So I want to dove into your business because this is mind body business. And we just covered a little bit of the mind. There's no particular order but body comes next in the title. And that's a perfect segue way to bring in what it is you do for your clients. What is your specialty? What is your genius? And I'll bring up your website if you'd like, and we'll just let it scroll down while you talk about what it is compatible alternatives is all about and who you serve, what kind of results you've gotten for your clients and that kind of thing. Is that cool?
Terry Duffy:
Sure.
Brian Kelly:
All right. Let's bring it on up and go ahead and take it away.
Terry Duffy:
Well, I have had this this tandem career for really for my whole life. I have studied alternative health in college and design. And so design kind of led the way throughout a lot of my career. And I was always teaching the alternative health on the side. But when it was interesting, I always say the amazing synchronicities of life because I studied these two at the same time. It was as if every client that came to me to do design was asking me to do design around some type of of teaching people about health. And so it was it was always this, like I said, this this tandem career. And I was able to work with a lot of really, really good healers over the years and have been curious about health and alternative modalities for my whole life. So I, you know, this art of digestion is, is one thing that I, I started because I was working for a client and they were a culinary school, LA Kitchens, and it was a class for people who are just getting out of prison and the foster care system. And so I read over their curriculum. They asked me to design their curriculum for them, and I read over their curriculum. And I said, The one thing you're missing is what the body does about the food that you're making. And so they asked me to write that part of their curriculum. And so I was able to come up with this class. And it's all about drawing your digestive system. And so I'm an artist, and the way I studied the body in school was that I would draw it. I would use the anatomy coloring book, and I would draw it. And it was always really successful for me because I'm a visual learner and it was using all of my senses. And so I was able to then put this class together and you stencil all the different organs within your digestive system. And I'm talking, you know, all the while that you're coloring. And it was interesting because a lot of people are as intimidated about art as they are intimidated about anatomy and physiology. And so the tandem course of learning not only about their digestive system and why it's so important, but also that art is really healing and brings you to the center and in the moment so that you can relax and enjoy yourself.
Terry Duffy:
So all of these things are going on at the same time. And really they're learning about this amazing body that we get to walk around in every single day, and it does something for us every single second of the day, you know who does that? And and so I just I love teaching that. And I really initiated it at the Boys and Girls Club for Kids. And I thought, oh, they're going to think it's too science to school. They're not going to like this. But I thought, Oh, I'll try it. And they really liked it. They loved learning about themselves. And so it started for kids. But then I learned that adults don't know anything about their body either. And so I use the same class for adults and it's very fun. And you learn a lot.
Brian Kelly:
That's a very unique style of teaching. I love that. I didn't realize it was when I saw the art of digestion. I was looking at your website earlier. It literally is the art of digestion. That's just genius. I love that.
Terry Duffy:
I'm coming up with a video now and adding to that, the vagus nerve and how the vagus nerve is attached to the whole digestive system and how that affects your brain. And we're doing a video of that. I'm really excited to show you that when it's done.
Brian Kelly:
Yeah, love. I love all these. This is the thing that grabbed my attention, this little animation. There it goes again. And I started I watched it like three or four times. I'm like to identify what I'm looking at. Okay. One of those is the liver. I think a kidney is in there and like, wow, I didn't know they were even in those positions. So this is already educational and I never have never talked to you before.
Terry Duffy:
Well, I'm so glad you're showing this because I love this and I do the same thing. I show this in my class and I say, Let's watch it one more time, okay? We're okay one more time. And that we're going to add the vagus nerve to this animation so that you can see how the brain is affected by your digestive system and and what you eat. So, yeah, good.
Brian Kelly:
Yes, I do. I love learning all kinds of stuff. And this is one of them I love. Yeah. Health especially, you know, as I get older, it becomes more and more prevalent in my mind. When I was younger, I was going to live forever. It didn't matter. I could eat anything, drink anything, and I was just not going to be impacted. And the cool thing is, you just reminded me of a lot here. What it's so important, what we put into our bodies and how we treat our bodies. I grew up in an environment where that was never thought of and it's nothing negative against my parents whatsoever. It's just wasn't in their wheelhouse to think that way. To this day, my dad, who's turning 86 May 5th, Cinco de Mayo, he drinks water from the tap and I just almost cringe every time. Back in the day that was okay. It used to be clean. At least we think it was. I used to drink water from a hose. I come from that that long back and it was not going to kill you still here. So it didn't. But it's just that mentality was it didn't matter what we put into our bodies, didn't know about health at all and just ate and and in his case, drank anything he wanted during their entire adult life. He's 86. So kudos. It didn't it didn't take him to an early demise. So at least that's good news. But at the same time, I'm thinking tap water. Yuck. You know, he's filling up his coffeemaker with tap water and I'm like, oh, that's got to be the nastiest coffee on the planet. But he's okay with it, so it's good to bring this to the forefront. So folks have an understanding that what you put in your body does matter. You know, you notice things within days or a week after changing your habit, you can notice the difference if you make a change for the better in your habits and where you get your food, where you get the things you put in your body, what you put on your body, all kinds of wonderful things that, you know. Luckily, I got older, old enough to be able to be interested to learn all this stuff.
Terry Duffy:
Definitely. Yeah. I mean, just the amount of sprays and and the air now and the pollutants and you know, we've got to be really careful about much more so than before about what we're putting in our body.
Brian Kelly:
Yeah. And yeah for lots of different reasons, you know, with the. Yeah. Insecticides and all kinds of poisons that are put on the food to preserve it. Genetic engineering of food. I mean, the list goes on and on and on. It's all all for nothing more than the mighty dollar, which is really, really sad that we are all put in this. I mean, more disease than ever, inflammation than ever before in the history of mankind because of all this crazy stuff that's happening in the food that's made available to us. And so when I get wind of someone like Terry Duffy, I get excited because we need a reset button and you'll be one catalyst toward that end. And so I appreciate that. And I like to say I want Terry, Terry, I want you to become exceedingly, exceedingly wealthy. And why would I want that for you? Because you're my best friend. Well, maybe soon. Yes, we just met, but I'm not going to take that out of the wheelhouse. But really, because I can tell you, you're here to help people. And when you become not if when you become extremely wealthy, I know you're going to do everything in your power to scale this this business and this outreach so you can help and serve more people. That is a beautiful thing. And then, by the way, go ahead and have fun with that massive wealth, Terry. Incredible wealth beyond what you have today. You know, splurge and give yourself some pats on the back. Go buy a boat. Go buy a car, whatever it is. But you deserve it. So you also get to reward yourself. People don't want to give themselves permission to do that. So yeah, I hope you really become just wonderfully, wildly wealthy if you're not already. I could be presumptuous here and thinking you're not yet, but you can always be more right.
Terry Duffy:
And always be more. And you know what? It's it's all about helping people, though, and that is what is so important. And that's why I've developed these classes, because the last two years, especially, let's face it, it's been it's been crazy. And a lot of people have been sick and and taking care of yourself is come to the forefront. And we really need to know how to do that more and more. And so that's why and I can't believe how many times I've said thank you, COVID 19, because because it's sequestered me and gave me the time to really focus on developing these classes. It it was the one reason why I've really put this out into the world. If you would have asked me a few years ago, Oh, would you like to teach these classes online? I would have said no way. There is no way I want to do that. I would much rather be in person with people and really get to know them in that way. But I'm so excited that I was able to do this because I can reach people that are in Europe. I can reach people who are on the East Coast and the Midwest and the West Coast, and that has been a very rewarding thing because I want to reach as many people as possible to get them to just just to know simple things. It's not rocket science. It's simple things. As long as you do them in the very beginning, preventatively and daily, add it to your routine. These are the ways that you can really help yourself out.
Brian Kelly:
And I love how you took a very horrible negative occurrence event and turned it around for the positive. More millionaires and successful people are made in downtimes than they are in other times. And why is that? Because the people like you, Terry, come up with solutions. They think out of the box. Well, there's there's something. There's a way around this or there is a solution to help with this that other people I remember thinking and I missed it. I should have pulled the trigger, but I thought toilet paper was not available, if you remember that. And I remembered. You know what? I remember that there is this thing called a portable body and you can get it on Amazon. I should invest in or buy a bunch of them and resell them on eBay or something. And it turned out those became quite a hot item. But, you know, there's always a solution. There's always a solution. Everyone's just like, Oh my God, there's no toilet paper. What am I going to do? It's like there's always something, you know, be careful if you use plant leaves from your backyard, though, some of those could be the wrong ones. But yeah, there's always a solution to every problem. And that's when entrepreneurs rise really in honesty. And that's what you did. And yeah, and it kind of in a way, I won't say forced your hand, but it guided your hand into that arena that is now blossoming for you. You're able to reach people, like you said, internationally as a result of doing something you never would have otherwise considered. So that's pretty amazing.
Terry Duffy:
Yeah, it was. It was it was really a wonderful opportunity. And I love the way you say that there's always a solution because, you know, we've been going through some dark times and, you know, 2022 started out I don't know about for you, but for me it was dark. And yet you can as many dark things that are going on. There's that many amazing people who are doing incredible things out there to balance it out. And we're all trying to find that balance. So you just have to focus yourself on the positive.
Brian Kelly:
That's it. Gosh, a great mentor of mine always said I don't think he coined the phrase, but it was fantastic as you get what you focus on. So if you focus on a bunch of and pardon the word crap, you're going to get more and more of it. If you focus on good things, you're going to get more of it. So you get what you focus on. So it always comes down to this. And I was just talking to a gentleman earlier today about this. We all have the same thing. It's called choice. We get to choose how we react to every situation. And that's what makes the successful. More successful than those who are not is simply what they choose in light of these situations that come up. You know, how do you react? Is it going to be a negative or woe is me. I was just dealt this hand of cards and that's just the way life is, I guess. Well, no.
Terry Duffy:
You're.
Brian Kelly:
Successful. And it kind of was. Huh? I was pulling out my inner ear. That was funny.
Terry Duffy:
Well, and that's the other thing. A sense of humor can go a long way, as I can tell you have. And you know that.
Brian Kelly:
It's funny you say that. I literally call my kids at a younger age because I was in a technical field. I was a software engineer working at a fence company, and it was very regimented and sometimes a little overbearing. Serious. And I've always been a light hearted guy. And I just I told my kids, I've taught them this. I said, there are times to be serious and there are times to just have fun. And rarely is it the former serious. Yes, there are times for it. You know, if you're at a funeral or if you're at a wedding, you don't want to be making noises in the back while the ceremony is going on, things like that, be respectful. But being serious, there's there's very few times I found in life where it's absolutely necessary. Why not have inject a little fun respectfully as much as you can, as long as your intent is is there? There should be no problem. I've done at times where my intent was pure and in fun loving, but they would take it the wrong way. I was like, No, no, I didn't mean it. I was just playing. But yeah, it's far more fun to have fun than it is to be serious all the time. And life is to be enjoyed, in my humble opinion. And if you're operating at a high level of performance due to proper nutrition intake, knowing how your body works like you teach Terry, then that kind of puts it all. Like you said, it's part it's part of the whole big equation, isn't it? The bigger picture?
Terry Duffy:
Absolutely. And and the mind body spirit component of it, because you have to look at all of it. It's not it's not just that particular ache that you have. It's what is causing that, what's the down deep cause of that? And so many problems are caused by stress. So many problems are caused by worrying and emotional things that you have to look at that aspect to in order to really get to the core of the problem that's going on.
Brian Kelly:
Yeah. And that's why you just. You said it so eloquently, and that's why mind and body is in there, because you can relieve stress through yoga. You can relieve stress through nutrition. You can do it through attitude and humor. Like you said, that's the mind. There are so many wonderful things that God has given us the ability to do. We are designed. We are wonderfully designed. It's just a matter of getting tapping back into who we are. I love that. I just keep going back to that image of all those pieces coming together of the body that, you know, I don't even know how my own body is put together until I saw that. Wow, I never took anatomy. I knew. I knew the organs are in there. I just don't know how they're layered. And that was pretty.
Terry Duffy:
Of course, you didn't take anatomy. No one takes anatomy. You we're raised to be stupid about our own bodies. And why is that? You know, we know why it is there.
Brian Kelly:
What is that?
Terry Duffy:
There's a lot of people making money off of us being sick. That's just the truth. That's the elephant in the room. And so we have to make sure that that we learn about that and we should be learning about it when we're in first grade. There should be an anatomy and physiology class that goes on from first to eighth grade, and it's all taught by art. And it's all different, different things that you can drawing or painting or illustration or computer arts or whatever. And you should learn about every system in your body from first grade on up until you graduate from high school and you know what's going on inside of you. And that should be mandatory. And I really want to be able to do that, to compile something like that and then give it away to every school.
Brian Kelly:
Oh, I love it. I love it. And we were talking before we came on about this whole concept known as alternative medicine.
Terry Duffy:
Right.
Brian Kelly:
We're talking about the ancient Chinese remedies and essential oils and and all the natural remedies that, well, they used to work. And then all of a sudden, something else came in that was chemically based called pharma, big pharma. And now what used to work that was natural is now alternative when truly it was primary.
Terry Duffy:
Yes. Original.
Brian Kelly:
Yes.
Terry Duffy:
Yeah. Yeah. I mean, traditional Chinese medicine. It's been around for more than 4000 years. And why is that? Because it works. And you know, homeopathy has been around for hundreds of years. It works. And all these things are more original medicine or original healing, and they're all based on viewing nature and really looking at nature and how it works from season to season and how your body is interconnected with nature. And that's how they were developed thousands of years ago. So it's it's beautiful to be able to teach these things from a historical point of view, because I try to to dissipate the wound, right. To be able to say, no, this is the science of it. This is this is who invented it. This is how it works so that people will really see the validity.
Brian Kelly:
I like that term. Dissipate the woo woo. That should be a website. I love it. It's so true because it's thought of as woo woo. It's alternative. It's weird. It's different. It's it's what works. You know, I have this I have this theory that that we were designed by a creator. I call them God. And this creator gave us certain things on this planet for us to ingest that were made for us to maintain our health. And then then we as knucklehead humans, go in and invent all these chemically based, unnaturally mixed compounds and and shove those in our body so that the person that designed it can make a lot of money while all the people start suffering over the years that they're ingesting this junk. Interesting how this comes in. That money seems to be at the core of all ills of not of late, because that's have been happening forever. But there's a lot of things going on today that are all based on power and money that should never happen. That's my humble opinion.
Terry Duffy:
Yes. But as we had said before, and the reason that I call my business compatible alternatives is that we all need to work together the homeopath, the acupuncturists, the doctor, the Western medicine, all of it. Because when you're if you got into a car accident and you were on the side of the road in pieces, you want somebody to give you drugs, you want somebody to sew you up to use a hammer, a screwdriver, some nails, a stapler, and put you back together again. And they're really good at that. But and so that's why I, I want to always say that we all need to work together and play nice. Nice in the sandbox. Right.
Brian Kelly:
I love that we all need to work together. Yes.
Terry Duffy:
Yeah.
Brian Kelly:
Bombs. Knowledge. Bombs. Bombs of wisdom. That is Terry Duffy right there. That was profound because yeah, we should all play nice together and I'm with you. I'm not anti doctor, I'm not anti medicine per se. It's just the reversal of calling something that's primary alternative that just blows my mind a little bit.
Terry Duffy:
Yeah, yeah, definitely. They I mean, they're trying to take homeopathy off the shelves right now and I mean that that's ridiculous. It's ridiculous. One, because we'll just get it online. But why make it more inconvenient? Because it just shows you how narrow minded you are and that you're trying to manipulate something. It's such a it's so obvious. And so we we we need to have these alternative modalities in order to stay healthy.
Brian Kelly:
Yeah, totally, totally, totally, totally. I sound like I won't go into that. It's a California thing that you would recognize, but a lot of people would. So you've been a teacher now. Was this in a scholastic environment of some kind? It was. What, like levels or grade levels or ages of folks would you teach or vocation that you were teaching in?
Terry Duffy:
Well, I was really just teaching individual my own individual classes on the side and then doing my graphic design, book design, exhibit design primarily. But the teaching part of it through the graphic design came into, for instance, doing an exhibit for the American Heart Association that was eight different exhibits, 20,000 square feet, and it all about teaching kids how to take care of their heart. So it was so great because I, I, my husband designs the three dimensional and I design the two dimensional and work with scientists and teachers to develop the curriculum to then put on these panels and do it in a really fun and interactive way. So that is was really one of my pride and joy is because we got to do it on such a big level and it's all you know, it's again, it's the synchronicity of being able to teach people about the body, but do it through design. Because I'm a designer. I'm an artist.
Brian Kelly:
I love it. And so you've been an entrepreneur for a while, so I'm curious, what would you say is your absolute favorite aspect of being an entrepreneur?
Terry Duffy:
Well, of course it's the freedom.
Brian Kelly:
Yes.
Terry Duffy:
You know, I really appreciate the freedom of having my own business and always have have. But the reason that I created my own business is really because I was a working mom and I wanted to spend as much time with my kids as I could. And and yet I also wanted to get away with them. Get away from them on occasion, too, as every parent will totally get. I loved my clients when my kids were driving me crazy and vice versa, but I. I just really wanted to be able to pick them up from school. I want it because some of the most telltale conversations that I ever had with my kids was in the car after I picked them up from school. And I didn't want to lose that. I didn't want to miss that. And so I would always have offices that my kids could come in and rollerblade around on and bring their friends and have snacks in the refrigerator. And it was for a long time I had an office that was right across the street from a park, and it was all intentional so that I could incorporate our family into my business. And it is spinning many plates and sometimes those plates fall down and sometimes you're sweeping up a lot. But it is to me, it was so much more worth it to be able to do the two and really have them interact.
Brian Kelly:
I love that. And that that's the one word that always comes up. I use liberation freedom. It's freedom of choice, right? You get to you get to design your day and your night and everything in between. And if you design it incorrectly, then your business suffers or your family life suffers. Depends on which side of that is incorrect. But at least it's on you as the person not it's not being forced upon you by a corporation if you're an employee. That's why I think freedom is such a wonderful, powerful word in this sense, because I've been with I used to be in corporate and I would miss a lot of my kids life. I learned stuff, gosh, a couple of months ago that I didn't even realize they actually used the back yard when I was at work. I put a lot of work, time and effort to design the backyard. I laid the sod. I did all this manual labor to give them a great big place to play, and I never realized that even used it. I thought they didn't. And they're like, What? We were there every day. Are you kidding, Dad? Like you were. Oh, that's awesome. But I missed a lot as a result of being away and working that quote unquote 9 to 5 and commuting. And so I get that the whole freedom thing because it's like, you know, and then I have entrepreneur buddies who are just, Hey, I'm going to run off to this event. Why don't you come with me? And I'm like, I can't, man. I got a job. And I was like, This stinks. I don't like this at all. I'm in a cage, so I totally get that word. Freedom. So appreciate you saying that. I mean, that was your your word. It's a genuine. So if you were to look back on everything you've been through, what you're doing. And the things that have led to success. And this could be either business or personal. It doesn't matter. But if you could think of one person that you could point to, to say, that person has been my biggest inspiration to date for me. Who would that be and why?
Terry Duffy:
It definitely would be Dr. Hazel Parcells. And she was a woman that my husband and I met when we were in our late twenties. I'll back up a little bit. We were living in San Francisco and we were both working stressful jobs and we had a two year old and there was a lot going on and I had knee surgery. And the very same day my husband started bleeding internally. And so I had to I couldn't even drive him. I had a two year old and I was laid up with knee surgery and I couldn't even drive him. I had our aunt drive him to the hospital and they were they they pumped him full of blood, thank God. But they didn't know what it was. And they kind of said, well, let's just go in and see what's going on. And so I was like, just cut him open. And so you could kind of see what's going on. And I said, Well, let's just wait here. And so we were going to an acupuncture at the time. And the acupuncturist, we said to him, we're going to be moving back to New Mexico. And he said, If you're going to be moving back to New Mexico, you need to go and make an appointment with Dr. Hazel Parcells. And so we did that and he said, and you better be quick about it because she's 92. And so we got an appointment with her and she basically found out that my husband had parasites and so put him on a fast and got rid of the parasites. And within a month or two he was really eating and feeling fine and gaining weight and he was back to his old self. And at the time I had just bought a big industrial camera, you know, the kind that you put on top of your shoulder. Yeah. You can tell how how much has changed since then. But I was doing video work and I wanted to videotape artists. And so you can see how this is all like full circle. And so Dr. Parcells said, well, I need some videos. And so I would love it if you would videotape my classes and do a short videotape for me.
Terry Duffy:
And so because of that, I got to take all of her classes and become really good friends with her. Both my husband and I became very good friends, and she was this amazing woman who was totally tapped into the ground. I mean, she grew up on a ranch and had her feet in the earth, but her head in the Akashic Records, you know, she was just like way out there and knew how to channel and bring things in and bring amazing knowledge in. But she was funny and red headed and just had a great sense of spark and sense of humor. And so we became very good friends. And those are the classes that I have compiled to to put online in these last couple of years that I've taught for 30 years. But I learned it all from her, and she was supposed to die at 46 and she lived to be 106. And it was all because of what she found out and how to treat the body.
Brian Kelly:
Fantastic. Yeah. And you mention classes. I just put those up on the screen for those watching. Are these indicative of her work that you've implemented or is this something.
Terry Duffy:
Yes, very much so. Level one for sure. And level two, as well as the more advanced. And then level three is introducing homeopathy and traditional Chinese medicine and essential oils and breathwork yoga and how to balance your body with all of these alternative modalities. And like I always say, I'm kind of the gatekeeper. I open the gate and I introduce you historically and and give you the basics of what these are all about, so that then you can go and take it further. You can do more research, you can go to a professional, you can experience the treatment and what it's like. And, and so that is that's why we can do this level one, two and three in three classes for an hour and a half for each class and really give you a ton of information. But do it quickly.
Brian Kelly:
I love that and compatible alternatives. For those of you listening on podcasts, I can't see the the visuals going on here. Again, it's compatible alternatives and you can get. You just go into there's a classes link at the very top to understand what we're talking about. There's level one understanding energy to enhance immunity. Level two is measuring wellness, mind, body and spirit, and level three is activating compatible alternatives for healthy living. Just for those of you listening to help you understand what's being talked about, I always like to bring in our audio listeners. Always, always, always. Because we love them every bit as much as those who are watching either live or recorded video as well. And my goodness, I'm looking at the clock and I cannot believe what's going on. And I got to tell you, Terry, one of the measuring sticks I have for a guest that has an impact on me personally is how much I take notes. And I've been taking notes pretty, pretty voraciously. I actually even went into a second page. I only have one line there, but I never I try to never recommend that folks do something that I am not either willing to do or always doing. And that was in the onset take notes. And it, it really makes a big difference and especially when there's someone as impactful as. Terry Duffy You want to take notes and I hope everyone is taking notes, and if you didn't go back and either rewatch or re listen and take notes and write this down and go back to compatible alternatives, what would be a great way we're not done yet, but what would be a great way for folks to reach out and get a hold of you, Terry, if they have questions, if they want to learn more about what you do and all of this alternative stuff that we're talking about, what would be the best way for folks to get in touch with you?
Terry Duffy:
I think email me at Terry at deadline.com or info at compatible alternatives dot com. And you can you can see those on both of my websites and then then yeah. And then we can set up a time to talk or do a zoom or I, I always love to get to know who's out there, what they're interested in. And all of my students become my friends. And so at the end, the last class, I'm always like, Oh, God, you know, I love you guys, but I want you to go. Please take it again.
Brian Kelly:
Yeah. Separation anxiety, right?
Terry Duffy:
Yeah, exactly.
Brian Kelly:
I know what you mean. It's like I don't want this to be over. No. Well, one of the things I love to do, and I haven't forgotten everyone that's watching life to the end that I will show you how to win that five night stay at a five star luxury resort. That's coming up. Don't go anywhere. One of the things I love to close every show out with Terry is this one impactful, powerful. An interesting question, and I ask this of every guest. Allison Stillman, your predecessor, had this same question as well, and she answered it masterfully as you will. It's going to be a profound and amazing question and answer. I know it already. I just know I've been doing this a long time. It's never, never a dull moment on that one. And so before we do that and close the show out and so people stick around, but I'm going to give you the information you need to enter to win a five night stay. There's the five at a five star luxury resort, again, compliments of the big insider secrets. And I'm going to bring that up on the screen. Right, this URL down, it's our WIP. I am forward slash vacation report. I am for vacation all lowercase and write it down. As soon as this show is over. After Terry answers this very profound question, then head on over. We'll give you plenty of time to enter. And so go ahead and write that down and then enter. And I can't wait to see who that lucky winner is. And just as a side note, guest experts are allowed to enter as well.
Terry Duffy:
Terry Okay. I was hoping so.
Brian Kelly:
I've actually had several win. It's pretty neat and it's random, completely random. So no, there's no favorites being played for those of you watching right now. Nope, nope. It doesn't work that way. It's completely random. All right. So, Terry, the big question, so I wanted to add a couple more things before I bring it upon you. One of them is there is no such thing as a wrong answer to this question. It doesn't exist. And the reason is, is because the exact opposite is true, is that the only correct answer is yours. And that's because it will be unique to you. It's impossible to answer it incorrectly. And if it takes you a moment to ponder, to get the answer. If it takes you an instant, either way, it's just perfect. Why? Again, because it's your answer. It's unique to you. So with that. Are you ready? For the big question now.
Terry Duffy:
Now I'm nervous. With all that lead up, I'm going to go. I don't know.
Brian Kelly:
Now you'll get it. Quick or not. It's okay. Again, it doesn't matter, but it will be the correct answer no matter what. The outcome is always a success every single time guarantee. All right. Are you ready?
Terry Duffy:
I'm ready.
Brian Kelly:
All right. I knew you would be. Terry Duffy How do you define success?
Terry Duffy:
That's that's a good question. I define success by my happiness. I definitely know that. Money often times or sometimes does not make you happy. And there is this feeling inside of you're always searching for security. And what I realized through going through some tough times was that security is within you. And you have to know in your heart of hearts that you're always taking care of. And when you get to that place, you can just be genuinely in the moment and success will come to you. You will be able to just feel it, and everybody else does too. They feel a genuineness of you being in the moment and then are allowed to to feel good with you. You spread it, you spread it all around. And that is success.
Brian Kelly:
I love it. You know what's coming? You know it. Oh my goodness, you've been an absolute delight. Terry Duffy. I have thoroughly enjoyed our chat here today. Appreciate you and let's stay in touch long after this. Like we were talking earlier. You're now my friend, and there's nothing you can do about it.
Terry Duffy:
Absolutely. Yes.
Brian Kelly:
I appreciate you and so appreciate, Alison, for recommending you to come on the show. Say oh, say hi to her, too, as well if she watches this. And that is it for the show, ladies and gentlemen. It's been a good full hour of fun and value, and I hope you do reach out to Terry and just have a chat with her and say, Hey, how can this help me? I want to learn more about my my body, how it functions, my digestion. I want to get go through your classes. Perhaps they're all live so far. You want to go to it now before they're all recorded. So jump on that right away. So one last time, I'll put that up. We want you to go to compatible alternatives dot com. And that is where you can find the classes that were referenced here today on the Mind Body Business Show. I love to say that. It's pretty fun. All right. With that. On behalf of the amazing Terry Duffy, I am your host Brian Kelly of The Mind Body Business Show, and that is it for tonight. We will see you again on the next episode next week. Until then, everyone, so long and be blessed.
Terry Duffy:
Take care. Thank you, Brian.
Brian Kelly:
Very welcome. Thank you for tuning in to the Mind Body Business Show podcast at www.TheMindBodyBusinessShow.com my name is Brian Kelly.
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Terry Duffy
Terry Duffy has always studied alternative health and design and always will. With her design and health education, experience and the many mentors she has studied with, Terry has been able to merge them into museum exhibit design, book and magazine design with a focus on preventative health. This has enabled her to formulate a course of study about alternative health that is concise and fun as well as incredibly informative. To see some of her design work, please visit www.glyphicsdesign.com and go to www.compatiblealternatives.com
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Narrator :
So, here's the big question. How are entrepreneurs like us, who have been hustling and struggling to make it to success, who seem to make it one step forward, only to fall two steps back. Who are dedicated, determined, and driven. How do we finally break through and win? That is the question, and this podcast will give you the answers. My name is Brian Kelly, and this is The MIND BODY BUSINESS Show.
Brian Kelly:
Hello, everyone, and welcome, welcome, welcome to The MIND BODY BUSINESS Show. Super excited for tonight's show. We have not just one, not two, not three, but four, four amazing guest experts who are joining me tonight right here on this very stage.
Brian Kelly:
They are waiting in the wings at this moment. So let's get busy. Shall we? The MIND BODY BUSINESS Show, that is a show about what I call the three pillars of success, and that came about as a result of my study of only successful people in the last decade or so. And these patterns kept bubbling to the top and those patterns being mine, which is mindset set. Each and every successful person, to a person, had a very powerful and flexible mindset. So I learned that and said," I need to implement that". Then body: body is about literally taking care of yourself. Through nutrition and through exercise, exercising on a regular basis, and again that was another pattern of very successful people and in business. These successful people had mastered the skill-sets that were necessary to create, maintain, and grow a thriving business. They're wide and varied. It's like marketing, sales, team-building, systematizing. It goes on and on and on, leadership. There's no one person, in my humble opinion, that could master every single one of these. All you have to do is master just one, and I actually mentioned one of those. It was in that list. I don't know if anyone caught that, but if you master just one of those skill sets then you're good to go. That skill set is leadership. When you've mastered the skill set of leadership, you can then delegate those skills off to people who have those skill sets. See where I'm going? Good. That's what successful people do; the ones that I studied, anyway, over the course of about 10 years. That's what this show's about. It's a show for entrepreneurs by entrepreneurs. I got four guests waiting, and I'm not going to wait any longer. So, I think we should just bring them on. What do you think? Let's do it.
Narrator :
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Brian Kelly:
And there they all are. These amazing, beautiful guests on The MIND BODY BUSINESS Show. How are you all doing? Altogether, too. That was phenomenal, I love that. So real quick. All of you, I hope you don't mind for just a moment. I want to do some housekeeping? I wanted to mention to everyone watching here live. If you stay with us till the end, you can win a five night stay at a five star luxury resort. All compliments of our friends at The big insider secrets dotcom. You see them flying by on the bottom of the screen right now. It's an amazing, amazing vacation stay. Stay until the end, and you'll learn how you can enter to win that wonderful prize. We also have this. If you're struggling with putting on a live show, and it's overwhelming and you want a lot of the processes done for you while still enabling you to put on a high-quality show. And connect with great people like the ones we have tonight, and to grow your business all at the same time, then head on over to carpet bomb marketing dotcom. Carpet bomb marketing, saturate the marketplace with your message. One of the key components that is contained in the carpet bomb marketing courses, and this is one that you'll learn how to absolutely master, is the very service we use to stream our live shows right here on The MIND BODY BUSINESS Show. Over the course of the past, now it's over nine years, we have tried many of these, "TV studio solutions" for live streaming. I'll tell you right now, Stream Yard is the best of the best. It combines supreme ease of use along with unmatched functionality. So, go ahead. You can start streaming high-quality, professional live shows for free. Yes, I said it. For free, with Stream Yard right now. Visit this website, and do this after the show over. Take notes while the show is going. So write this down R-Y-P dot I-M forward-slash stream live. R-Y-P dot I-M forward-slash stream live. Fantastic. Now let's get to the real fun, and the fun is these amazing people. Dylan, Julie, Tim, Christian. How are you all doing tonight? Thank you for being on this amazing show. Yes. So, what I'd like to do is open it up. Let the folks get to know you just a little bit now. Ok, guys. We're talking sixty seconds or less. All right. Just lay it low here, but we'll just go and order. I usually go ladies first, but let's just go around the circle. It's easier for me who's running the show. So. That's what's important. Right? So, let's start with Dylan Shinholser. Go ahead. Take it away. Give us a little brief background about you, what you do, and your business.
Dylan Shinholser:
Yeah, absolutely. So like I said, my name is Dylan Shinhoser. I own a couple of different businesses. I'm owner of a company called, "Experience Events", which is event management. I'm also a director of business development at a virtual event, event ticketing, and virtual event platform called, "ViewStub". As well as a co-host of another show called, "Event Masters", where I just ramble all day, every day about how to produce better experiences. It's really all I know and love to do is events. That is my less than 60-second pitch about myself.
Brian Kelly:
That's a good one, too. I'll tell everybody I've spoken with you in person. We had a call some time ago, and this gentleman, Dylan, is made of integrity and great character. So, reach out to him if you need any assistance in any of the areas he talked about, or if you just want to say hi to a really great guy. Then get in contact with him, and at the end of the show, we'll go through that. Please. Somebody remind me if I forget how to contact each of you. Because that's very important to me. This is the reason I bring this show to the forefront. (It) is to bring people like you into the lives of those who may not know who you are yet, and even those that do, to experience even more of your brilliance, your experience, your knowledge, and your value. It's not about me. This is about you. Always, always. Every time. I have one guest, usually. I just feel like I'm in this big family right now. But let's keep moving. Julie Riley, amazing young woman. Take it away.
Julie Riley:
Yes. So, I am Julie Riley. I am the social media manager at StreamYard. The platform we're using right now. Prior to my time with StreamYard, I owned my own marketing agency. I've been in digital marketing since two thousand and seven. So the very, very early days of the start of it is when I jumped in(to) digital marketing, and I love just being able to help others succeed in their business.
Brian Kelly:
Fantastic, and I will also say that I have spoken with Julie in the past. Both through a typewritten chat form and verbally. I think it was Clubhouse first time, which was phenomenal. Yet another phenomenal person, incredible integrity, and character. And yes, you're going to notice there's a pattern about this with the remaining two. It's the same thing. Hopefully, we can get the last one to talk a little bit. That will be nice. I'm just having fun because we were having fun before the show started. The one smiling. The biggest down there with the green hood; not pointing anyone out or anything. Thank you, Julie, for coming on. Yes. These people, Julie and Christian specifically, I know Christians coming up here in second. They're non-stop. They don't stop working. It's evident because of the very software research we're using right now. It's of grand quality for a reason. It's because of people like Julian Christian who keep everything rolling smoothly on the back end. Dylan's there nodding his head emphatically because he gets it. It's a lot of work, and they're doing it masterfully and we appreciate you. All right. Enough of the favoritism here that felt like favoritism. Julie's our favorite. Timothy McNeely! My buddy, my friend from just a little north of where I reside. I believe. If I remember.
Timothy McNeely:
Central California, baby. Bakersfield. Yeah, my name is Tim McNeely. Today, so many dentists and driven entrepreneurs are just not sure if they're getting advice that really makes a difference for them. They may have a financial adviser who is giving them some advice on their investment portfolio, but they're not really sure that they're on the right track to really maximize their net worth outside of their business. That's what I help them do. Maximize your net worth so that you can keep taking care of the people you love, support the causes you care about, really make that difference in the world, and build an amazing life of significance. I love doing streaming because I get to talk to some of the best of the best out there and share the knowledge with the beautiful entrepreneurial community.
Brian Kelly:
I'll tell you something on a personal note as well. Literally, we talked earlier today, Tim and I, on a Zoom call. He just reached out to me and said, "let's catch up." I had him on the show some time ago as a single, solo guest, and he was phenomenal. We've just kind of maintained a relationship, a friendship ever since. He just wanted to reach out and say, "Hi" and "What's up? What do you want to talk about?" We just started talking about business and things. He gave me resources that will help me in my business, and hopefully, I reciprocated it somehow. I don't know if I did, but it is the people like Tim, like Julie, like Dylan, like Christian. That is the cloth that they are all cut from. They are here to help people. That's why I love entrepreneurs. I love all of you. I mean it. I do. I love you. You guys are amazing. I didn't even get a crack at a Christian on that one. Jeez, I mean... there we go. That's a little better, but I'm telling you, he's working on StreamYard our stuff right now as we're on the show. I mean, I'm.
Christian Karasiewicz:
I'm really trying not to, seriously.
Brian Kelly:
The founder Geige Vandentop. If you ever watch this, there's a message to you. Ease up on your people. Alright? Just having fun. Alright, Timothy, you're an amazing guy. Thank you for spending your valuable time and coming on here. As well as Dylan, Julie, and the ever so talkative one, Christian. I'm not going to attempt to say your last name. I'll let you take care of that one. Welcome to the show, Christian. Let's hear all about your brilliance.
Christian Karasiewicz:
Sure. Thanks a lot for having me. My name is Christian Kerasiewicz. I'm the content marketing manager at StreamYard. So, pretty much anything you see on our blog that we're going to soon be launching. I'm the mastermind behind that. So, I do that. In addition to that, I also host live stream reviews, a YouTube show. We also do on the StreamYard YouTube channel where we invite people on to talk about their live streams and help them work through some of their problems, some of their challenges that they might be having with getting community or building a show. Thanks a lot for having me. I appreciate it.
Brian Kelly:
Oh, my gosh. Thank you again, Christian, for your time and being here. I mean, he's literally building a blog while on a live show. I mean, that's a great thing. I'm not even kidding with this one. That is phenomenal. That is showing such dedication. So, it's more than that. It's passion. It's love. You know? What time is that where you are, Christian?
Christian Karasiewicz:
About 9 o'clock, or yeah... about 9 o'clock.
Brian Kelly:
(Nine o'clock) PM. Ladies and gentlemen, in case you're watching this recording. Yes. By the way, I'm going to be on twenty-five different platforms after this is over. So no pressure, but don't mess up. I'm just kidding. So, this is a phenomenal group of people, and I can't wait to dig in. Christian, just what you just said, what you do is right down the alley of what I was hoping to talk about tonight. It'll go organically, but I wanted to talk about... I mean, look at Julie, and look at Christian, and look at their images. Look at their video. It is gorgeous. Here, we'll start with a really gorgeous one first. Look at that. I mean. If there were nose hairs that weren't in place, we'd see them. That's phenomenal, and there is Julie. Wow. Very beautiful. Even more beautiful. I should just have her up like this all the time, and we can just talk in the background. Because, you know, maybe more people would come on. So, you guys have phenomenal camera setups, and here's one thing I always like to preach to those who are getting into the live streaming game. Does it take money? Yes, it does. It takes resources. It takes cameras, microphones, (a) computer, internet, good internet, fast internet, lighting, doesn't have to be fancy. What I always say though, is, do the best you can with the resources you currently have. OK, I wanted to start it off that way because what we're about to talk about with Julie and Christian is their cameras. They are top of the line. We're not talking a one-hundred or two-hundred-dollar webcam here. I like to let ladies go first. So, Julie, do you have a story when you first turned on your new camera versus when you had the webcam and what that looked like and felt like.
Julie Riley:
Oh, my gosh, I turned that camera on, and it was immediately noticeable (the difference). I actually did a live on my personal Facebook page where I logged myself in as a second user into StreamYard. I had my Logitech camera that I had been using up as a camera and then had my new one. So, I could do back and forth and show everybody the difference between the two. What an upgrade that was. The Logitech served me great for years. It didn't stop me from going live, but that upgrade was immediately like, "oh, I can never go back down now".
Brian Kelly:
So, that so that is one thing. Let's say you're on the road, and I can imagine at some point both you and Christian, maybe, you'll be sent on the road to maybe support conventions and things that are on the road. Now, you want to stream live, what are you going to do then?
Julie Riley:
Well, you know, the great thing about the Sony is (that) it's a small camera. Tripods, portable ones, are small. I can take it with me. If all else fails, and I'm either on my phone or I'm on my little webcam or even my built in webcam, it's not going to stop me from going live. Is it going to be exactly what I want? No, but more than likely I'll have the Sony with me.
Brian Kelly:
Thank you for saying that. I mean, that spoke such volumes. I hope people are taking notes that are watching. Definitely take notes on this. Because, look, the show must go on. That's what I say, and this show tonight is the result of a guest who unfortunately was ill and could not make it on. So, I scrambled and found these four wonderful people to say, "I'll come on and do a panel with you." And that's it. The show must go on, and I'm going to either do it with people or I'll do it solo. It doesn't matter. Consistency is key, and we can talk more about that, too. I love how you're just talking about, Julie. Where, look, I don't care where I'm at. If I've got something and it's my time to go live, and I don't have my gear. I'm doing it.
Julie Riley:
Right.
Brian Kelly:
I love that commitment. So, thank you for that. For everyone listening, that's important. Yes, quality is important. Like I said, do the best you can with what resources you currently have. That includes, wherever you are. You may have a DSL camera that Julie paid five-hundred thousand dollars for. Oh, sorry, it wasnt that much.
Julie Riley:
Thank God it wasnt that much!
Brian Kelly:
What was the model of that again?
Julie Riley:
A6000.
Brian Kelly:
What does it run about?
Julie Riley:
It was about seven hundred.
Brian Kelly:
OK, not too bad. A little bit less than five-hundred thousand. Not much but yeah.
Julie Riley:
Yeah.
It's a phenomenal thing, and I love that that's your attitude toward commitment. I'll tell you. You have a similar attitude...anytime I go and ask for support through the back side of StreamYard community. I mean, like through messaging. When I say the backside, that's sounded weird. When I ask for support, you're always there. I mean, you don't sleep, and I appreciate that. So, keep not sleeping for everybody's sake. Christian, you do the same. So, Christian, what about you? When you made that initial change from whatever camera you had before to this unbelievably clear one year look you're working with right now. What did that feel like the moment you saw a difference?
Christian Karasiewicz:
So, it's very interesting actually. So, this is actually what I was using before. I've been using this for quite a number of years. This is a Logitech Brio. It does do 4K. I invested in this one and eventually came out, and the quality was fantastic. The only thing was, though. I wanted to scale. So this was great for traveling, for example. This is what I took around with me. Super portable. It's got the ability to put it on a tripod. Fantastic, but it did not allow me to scale, so I had to always take up another USB port and all that sort of thing. When I moved to the Sony, the Sony looked very good. I will say the one thing you have to do, though, is you need to go through the settings. There are a few adjustments you want to change. That's what's going to actually enhance your picture quality of it. It's a fantastic camera. It's a Sony 6400. Then, really, the other side to it is also the lens. So I'm using a Sigma lens. So, that I think is the real big difference. I mean you have the kit lenses it comes with. I did make the investment in the the additional lens, which I think that's actually what's contributing to why it looks so good. I will say from a quality standpoint, again, start with what you have. You know, the key things for live streaming. Audio is going to be your most important part. Then also, if you, for example, are using one of these webcams, make sure you have enough light. These things look great with a lot of light. When you don't have a lot of light, you're going to see pixelation. You're going to see distortion and things like that. So, turn it back to you.
Brian Kelly:
Especially with light, if you turn on the green screen feature, you really need to have good lighting then. That's the biggest time. I'm so glad to be liberated from that. Even though I loved it. This is actually a natural well behind me. I painted the entire studio. I actually occupy my daughter's former bedroom. I've been here for four or five years now, and I finally got rid of the cartoon drawings and the yellow paint. I'm a real boy now. I have a real studio. This is awesome.
Christian Karasiewicz:
That looks really good by the way. I was very surprised (by) your background because that looks like one of the standard backgrounds people would normally bring up during a live stream. One that has, you know, the gradient going around the outside. So, whoever did the painting on that fantastic job.
Brian Kelly:
Why, thank you very much. My wife did most of the work to be honest, but I feel like that helps with that. Yeah.
Timothy McNeely:
If you want that comparison between cameras. Right. Christine was just talking about the Logitech Brio. That's what I'm on, and you can see the massive quality difference between Kristen and Julie versus the webcam. So. Right. (A) huge step up.
Brian Kelly:
Yeah, we'll point that out in glowing detail right now.
Christian Karasiewicz:
You're using a green screen. Right?
Timothy McNeely:
Yeah.
Brian Kelly:
Your sound, Christian, is smooth. I mean, you have a great radio voice. Having that microphone, I think will pivot to that too. Dylan, what are your thoughts on cameras? Yours looks actually really decent right now? You're on (a) green screen, correct?
Dylan Shinholser:
Correct. Yeah.
Brian Kelly:
It looks really clean. You've done a good job with all the lighting. It's almost like you've done this before, and you know what you're doing.
Dylan Shinholser:
I try. Yeah. So, I actually when I first started doing it, I started listening back on my phone. When this whole pandemic hit, I was using the one inside your laptop and realized very quickly (that) I'm on calls all day, live streaming shows and stuff. I was like, "I got to set my game up." So, I haven't made that leap yet to the DSLR, but I will. I'm on a Logitech, one of the models. I won't even lie because I'm not that tech-savvy. It was expensive for Logitech, so I bought it. I was like, "it's got to work." So, yeah. So, that's where I'm at. I agree heavily. I think it comes down to, because we get asked it and I know you guys get asked, it comes down to what you can afford at the moment. Then always trying to push the limits of production value. Right? My background was a wall. It was just like random yellow wall, and now I have a giant green screen wallpaper now. So, now, I can be wherever I want which is a concert. That's where I want to be, and that's where I'm going to be.
Brian Kelly:
You're the one on the stage, brother. Not the audience.
Dylan Shinholser:
No, I'm actually the guy behind the stage. I never want to be this. It's actually weird for me to be in front of people. I'm the guy behind the stage telling people to get on the stage.
Brian Kelly:
Pushing them forward. Well, you do a good job, Dylan. I wouldn't know any different. Maybe your calling is to step out from behind and be on front more often.
Dylan Shinholser:
We will see. Twenty twenty-one has a lot of stuff, and I've got a long way to go. I got super bored in twenty-twenty so I might as well talk.
Brian Kelly:
I've gotten to know you a little bit over time, and you've got a great personality. I think you need to shine in front of more people. That's my humble opinion.
Dylan Shinholser:
I appreciate that.
In the front, not behind the scenes. It's okay to be behind the scenes on occasion, but someone like you with your personality and your integrity, your character...get out there, buddy. It's a disservice if we don't get to see you. Let me put it that way.
That's what a mentor of mine said. He was like, "dude, you're actually being selfish by not talking more and getting it out." Because like I said at the beginning, I only want to help more people create better experiences and events. Make them flow better and make them more money as humanly possible. At the end of the day, I just want to travel the world with cool people and do cool things. I've learned a lot, and a lot of people need some of that experience. So, I got a stern talking to by one of my mentors. He was like, "dude..." I was like, "alright, it's alright. I promise." I started live streaming then had to get better cameras, better lights going on. It's crazy up here in my little command center of all these different lights, webcams, and monitors. Everything you need to do to pull these shows off.
Brian Kelly:
Yeah, I love it. Christian, go ahead.
Christian Karasiewicz:
So, I want to throw something in there real quick. We talked about various types of cameras. If you're just getting started, use that built-in laptop, the webcam. So then you can take it up a notch. You can go to the Logitech. The C922. That's about, I think, a 60 to 70 dollar webcam. So, don't overpay by the way. It's about 60 to 70 dollars. Get it from Logitec, probably. If you find an astronomical price on Amazon, move up to like the Brio, for example. If your budget allows it, that's about one hundred fifty dollar camera. Then move up to a DSLR. For example, Julie's got that, the Sony 6000. I would also say if you happen to have a smartphone, this can be used as a webcam. Essentially, if you think about it, this is a thousand dollar camera. Because you paid a thousand dollars for this device of sorts, and this will give you some phenomenal picture quality. If you already have a smartphone and you don't have to have the latest iPhone, it could be pretty much any iPhone and Android phone. You just need an app such as one called,"Camo." There's one called,"Erion." So, there are lots of apps out there. Don't think like, "hey, I have to now go drop a bunch of money." Look at the phones you have lying around. Those are going to be great ways to fix your picture quality.
Julie Riley:
I've been going live since 2015, and I only had this camera last year.
Brian Kelly:
That's it. You keep reinvesting. I had a good friend of mine who were business partners. He said, I'll never forget it,"sales drive service". When you're making money, you're able to invest. You're able to up your game, and I love that. So many great points. You can just set a phone on a tripod and your camera will look better than many people's webcams. For sure. One of the things that I would recommend, this isn't just a plug StreamYard, is to get at least get the free plan. Do they need any more than the free plan to be part of the community, Julie?
Julie Riley:
No. They can come to join the community even if they're just getting started into streaming. We do like everybody to have the free plan so they have an understanding, but we'll still let you in. Agree to the rules. That's the big thing. Yeah, come join the StreamYard community. It's really a "stream yard" community.
Brian Kelly:
It's a very valuable place because questions like what Christian just addressed are often asked (What do I need?). I'm just starting. I'm a newbie. I see that so much in there. What can you do to help with a camera or microphone or computer? You can go there if you have those questions and ask, and the community will fill in the blanks wonderfully well because they're a great bunch of people. Just like Tim down there who's gotten pushed to the side for a while. So, Tim, is this your first camera that you've been using for live streaming so far? Did you have one before it?
Timothy McNeely:
Yeah, right. I started with just an HD one. Right. Logitech and then jumped up to the Brio. Been happy with that so far. But, you know, it's interesting how the game keeps growing again. That's the thing, right? Just get started! Just do this. I started with just using zoom and recording those for my interviews, and then I realized (that) I need a better platform. I need a way to kind of do that live production. Now I'm doing Stream Yard and got intros. Just get started with whatever you've got and kind of build that proof of concept. You know, I recently just upgraded my lights because I bought the cheapest lights I could at first. I just wanted to do something, and done is better than not done a lot of times.
Brian Kelly:
I totally agree with everything you just said and like what Christian was saying. If you're going to put money into anything, make it the audio side of things first when you upgrade. I was fortunate. I started over nine years ago streaming live. This is a DSLR. Not a DSLR. Good grief, XLR microphone. It's old school. It's not even USB. So I plug it into a mixer board, and from there into my computer. I've used it for years. It's been just amazing. I've never had to do anything with my sound as a result. For you, there are great USB alternatives now. Oh my gosh, there are so many out there. Someone like Christian could probably point you in the right way. Someone like the StreamYard community could push you in the right way and tell you,"these are the ones". I have a connection with the guy who is a sound expert. I've never heard of this before. He has a studio that does 4D sound. I don't even know what that means. Four dementional?
Christian Karasiewicz:
Sweet.
I don't know what that means, audibly. He was telling me about speakers in the ceiling. I'm like, holy moly,. You don't need that obviously for a talk show like this, but think about the possibilities and have fun with it. The bottom line is, when you go on and go live. Enjoy yourself. I'm trying to do that a little bit with these fine people tonight. Thankfully, they're still here with me. I haven't upset them too great, especially Christian. I keep picking on him. Poor guy. I appreciate you all, and it's okay to have fun on your show. Would you guys agree with that? Is it okay to have a little bit of fun?
Julie Riley:
One hundred percent. If you're having fun, your audience is going to be having fun with you.
If you're not having fun... I don't believe in doing anything that I don't find fun. It's a life motto of mine. If I don't want to do it, I don't want to do it. Yeah. Like you said, Julie. If you're not having fun with it, then how in the world do you expect the viewers to want to have fun or engage or interact? It starts with you.
Brian Kelly:
Absolutely, absolutely. One of the things I wanted to pivot to is something I'm deeply interested in because the product that came up earlier when I did the quick ads spot. I like to solve the pain points that people are having in their live streaming experiences. I'm curious. I'll bet, Julie and Christian, you guys have seen and heard a lot about that. I actually had a team member of mine from my company put a poll up in the form of a meme, a graphic. What's the right word? I am having trouble with words these days. It's an infograph. That's it. Simple. I was a little bit shocked by the result, but I was just curious what you guys think. What are the biggest pain points you're seeing? (Either) that you're having individually. Tim, if you have that as well. Dylan as well. Dylan, you probably hear about a bunch of it as well. What are the pain points you are seeing come back over and over and over again? I'm having a horrible time trying to find another guest on my show if they're interview style, or the tech is just blowing my mind. Even though StreamYard is so simple. I'm having trouble with x, y, z. Let's just go around the horn. Dylan, if you don't mind, I put you on the spot. Can you think of any of those pain points that keep coming up over and over again?
Dylan Shinholser:
Yeah, absolutely. The biggest thing I see is they underestimate what it does take. I totally agree. Why I promote StreamYard to our clients and everyone I possibly can is because of the ease of use. People go into it and think shows are just like setting up the webcam, and they can be. Setting up the webcam and just talking. Right? There's a lot of back end stuff to this. These shows and I'm learning that as doing my own now. I'm like, holy cow, I'm about to hire fifteen people because this is absurd. But, yeah. I think that's the biggest thing that I see is underestimating it, but also at the same time, they overcomplicate it. They have to think (that) they have to have all these bells and whistles and seventeen thousand cameras and two million dollar microphones. It goes back to our first point of "just do it". It doesn't need to be overcomplicated, but understand going into it, there is some work that takes and understand that you do have to respect what it takes to put these on. At the same time, don't overcomplicate it. It's funny how people work. They overestimate or underestimate it, but then heavily overcomplicate it at the same time. I think that's the biggest one I see.
Brian Kelly:
I'm so glad you brought that up. I've said this so many times, people don't realize what goes on behind the scenes before the show even comes on live for that episode. The amount of time and effort. If you want to do a live show that's of quality and represent yourself and your brand in a way that you want it to be represented professionally. It takes a good amount of work for every single show. That's why I automated nearly every process (that) I use now. It took time to get there, but you can use a team. You can get a team. Like you said, Dylan, to also help out. For me, it's all about quality, and more time is spent before the show by far than the show itself. After the show is over, another good deal of time is spent. That is in the minor edits, the repurposing, the marketing, and everything else that goes beyond. The live show is this tiny window of time, and it's the fun is part of it by the way. When you have everything automated, the rest is not "not fun" because you're not doing it. It's all automated, but definitely great. Thank you for that. Julie, what has been some of the big p.. sorry to wake you up there. What have been some of the big pain points? You are wide awake. I just starttled you. You've seen over and over, I bet you've seen a bunch of them.
Julie Riley:
Oh, my gosh. So many, you know, especially because I'm approving all of the comments that are coming into the group. I think one of the huge ones is that the hesitation of people who believe that they have to have everything perfect. That they have to have all of the backdrops, the overlays, the banners, the super expensive microphone, and the super expensive camera. That they have it. The room behind them is messy. They haven't thought about turning to just a blank wall because they're like, "well, then I don't have a fancy studio set up." They get to this point where they're trying to create perfection, and perfection is a fairy tale. It doesn't exist. There is no such thing as perfection. There is, again, where Dylan said the overcomplicating it. They've got to really just slow down and go, "what do I need to get this process going?" What is the minimum to make it happen? From there, then I can then build on it, and build on it each week. Go, "okay, I got live. I got the first one out. I got the jitters out. I hate the way I sound." When I had my agency, I would tell my clients. They'd be like, "I can't stand the way I sound." I'm like, nobody likes the way (that) they sound. There's actually, and I say this all the time, there's a term for it that is a term for not liking the sound of your own voice. I tell people, you have to get over that fear. They're like,"I don't look good on camera, I don't know how to be on camera." The other thing I tell people is to set up a fake Facebook group with nobody else in it but you. Go live in there a bunch of times and just get those jitters out. Get that feeling of pressing the button and going live. Then invite your husband in, your sister, your mother, or whoever. Somebody so that you're talking to somebody. From there, build up each time. As we said with the cameras, again, you can you can slowly build. You can slowly add in the overlays. You can slowly add in the backgrounds.
Brian Kelly:
My goodness! I absolutely love it. I have my own Facebook group that I use just for that. Nothing more. I go in there, and I test things for StreamYard and other things in there. I go live in there because there's no substitute for going live. We've got more buttons to click, and things kind of change their arrangement just a little bit in the window. If you practiced it 20 times without going live, then you go live you're going to go, "what the heck just happened?" I don't know what I'm supposed to do now. That was perfect. Perfect advice. I love that. We've got a comment coming in or two or three. Yeah. Kelly, crucial. Kruschel. Sorry if I got that wrong.
Dylan Shinholser:
Kelly Kruschel. It's Kruschel. She said she's on my team. She's a friend. Hey, we've got a supporter.
Brian Kelly:
Love it. Love it. Then Fran Jesse, I know her. I'm getting ready to make my first video essentially input. Yeah. Reach out, Fran. We're friends. I will give you assistance in any way you want because this is the greatest this is the greatest avenue for media on the planet, in my humble opinion, for so many reasons. One is people get to see you. I love clubhouse. It's also phenomenal in different ways, but people get to see you. They get to interact with you. They can engage with you, and they get to see your essence. It doesn't cost you, the studio owner, studio time. If you do this in the old days when you have to go to a television studio and you want to do a show, it would cost you thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars just to use the studio. Let alone get the media time to put it up on a television station. We're living in wonderful times. It's the greatest time to be alive, in my humble opinion. I'm a tech geek. I'm not young anymore. I'm fifty six, but I can't wait for the rest of what my life has to hold. Yes. You're welcome, Fran. Any time. Wonderful. Wonderful. Alright. Where were we? I got all messed up and loving myself there. We're going to have fun. I'm being real. This is like... I don't know. I'm the most relaxed (that) I've been in a long time with everything that went on today. It was one of those weird, everything-going crazy days. I feel like I'm at home with you guys. That's why.
Dylan Shinholser:
It's been one of those years.
Brian Kelly:
Thank God that last one is over.
Dylan Shinholser:
Yeah, yeah. Sure.
Brian Kelly:
So, okay. Pain point. Let's go back around one more. Tim, what do you have?
Timothy McNeely:
Yeah. When I first started doing this, my whole goal was to get out there and to talk to the different experts in the different areas of the challenges that my my clients face. I started off as an interview show and just using Zoom to record the video. Then all of a sudden I had the video. Now I had to put an intro in. I had to put an exit in. I had to extract the audio so I could do the podcast. My team members and myself were spinning our wheels. Just trying to really kind of create a workflow around the creation of this content so we could get the message out and help people with their challenges. For me, all of a sudden, the revelation was (that) I can do this live. I can have people type in (and) ask comments as I'm doing the show. Not only that, from start to finish, I can produce the whole thing going live. Right? You go live. You can play an intro now. You can throw in little commercial breaks. You can throw in the outro, and then it's done. Download the audio. You throw it up, and now you've got your podcast. You don't have to upload video to YouTube and Facebook and LinkedIn. It's done for you now, automatically. So really my biggest pain point was just the production side of things and putting everything together so that I could keep talking to people and doing the fun part. Right? I don't want to get caught up in all the details of making this. I want to talk to people, learn, and share that knowledge. Really, a lot of the pain point, just using StreamYard has really been absolved because it's a turn-key easy to use platform.
Brian Kelly:
Amen to all of that brother. Here's the key for everyone that's ever going to do a live show or has done one. The most important part is that you show up and you be the talent. That means you need to be dedicated mentally toward what the task is at hand. If I have too many things going on, like production-wise, which I used to when I didn't automate things. That's in the back of my mind. Did I dot every "i"? Did I cross every "t"? What's going to screw up on this show? Versus showing up fully for my guest. Being there for them. Getting out of myself and my own business and being present for the other person, that's what I'm about. Lifting up the other people, that's what my show's about. It's important to me.
Timothy McNeely:
Actually, if I can touch on that talent piece, Brian? I think he brought something up so important for everyone listening to this. If you're doing any kind of a show where you're interviewing people, chances are (that) the person you're talking to (is) a little bit uncomfortable. Your job, as the talent, is to spend some time before the show really crafting what it's going to look like. What direction are you going to go in? You want to make that person you're talking to look like a star. The more you can rehearse with them and put them at ease, you're going to end up with a much, much better show. Because you've taken a little bit of time to make sure that (the) other person is going to shine just as bright as you do. So, take that time to work with your guests beforehand through interview guides, through little questionnaires. So that you can help prep them, to keep them on a thread, and you can really help them deliver their message. Most people are not trained professional speakers. They just aren't. I've hired some of the best speaking coaches to help me develop messages, stay on topic, and learn how to tell stories. People don't invest time, energy, and effort to do that. You can help them do that through a briefing before you start your live with them.
Brian Kelly:
Yeah. That's why I was saying before, I do a thirty-minute preshow. All of us were on here for 30 minutes getting to know each other, making sure all the tech was good, doing some checkout. You were talking about people being nervous and stuff. That's why I'm riding Christian so hard with all these jokes and stuff because it broke his nervousness. You can see his sweating. I am so kidding. This guy's raw. He's a rock. He's awesome. He's a pro. I love this guy, man. I always pick on the quiet ones. I don't know why that is. Christian, man, you're bringing massive value. All kidding aside, you're very experienced. You're matched for what you do. You've said already so many amazing things. What about you, brother?
Christian Karasiewicz:
I'd say this. I think a couple of the pain points. I think one is people want to ask, "how do I get better at my live stream?" I think (that) the first thing is practice. To Julie's point, I think you mentioned having overlays, backgrounds, and all this other stuff. Look at it like this. You want to show your audience as well while you're helping them. You're doing this with them. You have everything at the same time, and you're trying to make everything perfect. Your audience is going to be like, "I'm not going to stick around this person because they've done such a good job already. I won't ever get to that point". They start having that self-doubt. The key thing is going to be practice. You don't have to have every single one of the overlays. Maybe start with the the intro or the thumbnail, and maybe you have an outro for example. (Those are) the first two things you do. As you build the show, then you can add segment graphics. You can add videos. So, you can scale it, but you don't have to have so much at one time because then it's just too overwhelming. That's point number one. Pain point number two is that people, for some reason, think that they're going to immediately be able to monetize their live stream. I say pain point because everybody's like, "oh, I bought all that equipment." Now, you've got to figure out how to pay for all that equipment, you know? If you're struggling already with your business and growing it, then you're not going to immediately monetize live stream. You have to have an audience. You know, you have to build that community. When you go live, they're tuning in because (of) the social platforms. They want to see that you're bringing viewers, they want to see engagement. So, point number two is monetizing your live stream. There are ways to do that, but don't always set out with monetization being number one. It could take a couple of years to monetize. So, get started. Build on it, then make those investments as your business is growing. Yes, mic drop. Yes.
Dylan Shinholser:
Do you have that mic? Just a mic drop? Because I might need to get one.
Brian Kelly:
It's actually super.
Dylan Shinholser:
Yeah, super real.
Christian Karasiewicz:
That's pretty cool, actually.
Julie Riley:
I like that.
Brian Kelly:
It's actually part of a magic trick that you put in a paper bag. It's a long story, but I found one more affordable that would not break my keyboard because that's what it landed on. You didn't hear it. Oh, my gosh. Golden nuggets there, as usual, from Christian who I give a lot of hard time to. I'm going to stop because you're amazing dude, and I don't want to get mad at me. I want you to be my friend. So many great things. So, you said two years. I was like, wow. I was watching an interview. How many of you have heard of Lewis Howes? Former professional football player and turned incredible entrepreneur. He's all over the place. He was being interviewed, and the guy interviewing him asked him a question. He said, "so, Lewis, if someone came to you, and they were talking about the fact they wanted to start a podcast. Now, we're talking just the audio version. That's what a podcast really is for everyone that may not know it's audio-only. Not video, even though they're going that way." He said, "well, here's what I'd tell them. First, you got to actually be consistent. Whenever you decide to do it, do it at that same day and that same time every week or multiple times a week. Whatever that happens to be. Number two, more importantly. You must commit yourself to doing that for at least, the magic number, two years. If they are not willing to do that, I would tell them, don't even get started." We didn't talk about monetization. None of that was discussed during this Q&A. That was telling. Who was I talking about this earlier with earlier today? It's not necessarily about monetizing. It's about building your platform, and I wanted to add to that. It took me in two years. I was just hitting that moment in time of my live show. That's when the momentum started. He was spot on, and so are you, Christian, about the two years. Then using a certain strategy (that) I use, I continually ask for referrals in a certain way. I eventually landed the one and only Les Brown. Some of you know who that is. Some of you don't. I've noticed some don't and Im like,"what rock are you living under?" He's amazing, and he's been on my show. Because of that, the two-year commitment is my point. Not talking about monetization. Then what I found after doing this for two years and striving for excellence all the time in every facet, I'm talking about the preshow communication with upcoming guests and the setup and the prep that they all go through and my system makes sure they do. The show itself and then after the show, all the post-production, everything that goes into it. Once you have that, people notice and my show, without my intending it to be, became an incredible, powerful lead magnet for my business. Focus, just as Christian was stating so properly, does definitely, positively impact your business. If you do it right. You do it high quality, and again, within reason within the resources you have. Go ahead, Christian.
Christian Karasiewicz:
I was going to say. That's another point that people look at, and they want to generate revenue off of it. That revenue may not be actual money upfront. It may end up being (help) (to) drive more leads to my website. It's not necessarily driving more people to my social channels. You're following is... It's OK. That's not going to necessarily grow your business because you had five more followers on Instagram or something like that. It's potentially getting them back to your website, which can be an opportunity for them to schedule a coaching call with you, maybe buy a product from you, learn from you for example. You're not going to get every single person to become a customer, but you're going to be able to use it to generate more leads.
Brian Kelly:
Totally, totally true.
Dylan Shinholser:
That's why I do it.
Brian Kelly:
You see on the top of this screen "streaming live on" and then five. We're doing it to eight right now or seven right now. "Listen-on" down below. On the bottom, there's actually twenty five of those like us could fit them all. Roku now was on Fire TV. Look, you're not making money from those, but here's what happened. How many of you have heard of Kevin Harrington? Shark Tank? Original Shark Tank? He has a partner named, "Seth Green", and they do a podcast together. They've been doing it for years now. They have five-hundred plus episodes. We got introduced, Seth and I. I met Kevin. We shared the stage once. I'm not name-dropping, but yes, I am. It was awesome, and it was fun. Seth reached out. We were connected by someone else. We were introduced, and Seth did his own homework. He came back, we literally talked on Zoom, and he says, "wow, I did some research. I looked you up and, my God, you're everywhere." I just wanted to say, "yeah, that's right." So, you want to get out there. That's why, shameless plug, I call it, "carpet bomb marketing". You saturate with everything you've got within reason. Right? If you can automate it, it can be near or completely free. So just do it. Why not add it to your arsenal? So, it works. Just be consistent to a minimum of two years. Get in touch with people like Julie, Christian, Tim, and Dylan. You might make that even quicker than two years. I'll direct you to the shortcuts that many of us did by trial and error.
Timothy McNeely:
Touching on the monetization piece, a good friend of mine runs one of the top coaching consultancies out there. Right. Very, very successful. Runs a great podcast, great show. I ask him one day. I said, "have you need any money doing your podcast?" He thought for a second. He says, "naw, I've actually lost money doing it. The relationships that I've made...I've made millions off (of) that." If you approach it from that standpoint... There's different goals, but I always approach, you know, what's the end result? What are you looking for out of your show? Why are you doing it? That's how you can measure the success of it. Is it helping you achieve whatever goals you set for yourself?
Brian Kelly:
Totally agree. It's very similar. Isn't it? To writing a book? I'm holding up another namedrop. Yes, it's very similar to writing your own book. Because a lot of people want to write a book and make a living off of the sales of the book. I'm sorry, ladies and gentlemen, most of the time it just doesn't happen that way. If anyone comes up to you and you're talking to them... During the course of conversation, maybe you ask them what they've been up to? Or, hey, I've authored a book. The moment they say that, in your eyes, do they not lift up in an influence in your mind? Right then and there? Instantly. It builds authority. That's exactly what this live show, and live shows like it, are doing. When you're giving evidence of it by spitting it out to all of these platforms, there's no way people can't find you and know that you're serious. You know, it's showing that you have a commitment level. It's showing that you have a quality level of professionalism. It's not about the show itself. It's like, well, if I do business with that person, or will I... Will I want to do business that person? If they're professional. Yes. If they put on a shoddy show, they might give me shoddy service. If I do business with them. Does that make sense? People want to (be) representing yourself in the best. Do it the best you can, but do it. Please, don't delay. Don't try to be perfect. You heard everybody talk. Go ahead, Dylan. You had something?
Dylan Shinholser:
Well, yeah. There's indirect ways to make money with shows, live streams, and of course direct (ways). Right. Direct is selling sponsorships, ad-space, all that good stuff. The indirect monetization is so much more powerful. When I do shows or when I hop on shows or anything, it's literally just to build a top-down awareness of myself. I just want people to know what Dylan Shinholser is. Then that way, because I do multiple things, I'm never trying to sell one product at any given time. I'm trying to sell myself, and what it does is it gives me that outlet to do it. Then if you're hosting a show. Right? This maybe goes into some other topics around how to market and things like that. It's a powerful relationship tool because when you can open your platform to other people that you're looking to connect with. I'm in the business of working with influencers and throwing their events. Well, the best way to connect was get them on my show. It gave me a reason to reach out that wasn't pitchy or sales. It was more or less. Hey, man, I just want to give you an outlet, because I think what you talk about is cool. Tell my people about it. After the show, I was like, "hey, man, what are you doing next Tuesday? I need a speaker." Or "hey, man. I have some ideas (that) I want to pitch you or (some) things. They're more receptive. So, I always do shows and things not about the direct money I get, but the indirect thing. It's the indirect impact that I get from relationships, or people sharing my stuff out and people go, oh man, he sounds semi-intelligent unless they're watching this. Then then they'll go, okay, great. Let me go over to this platform that he runs with this business that he does or whatever because he sounded halfway intelligent on that show. Right? So, I think the indirect monetization is what most people don't... They don't get that the instant gratification of like that five thousand dollars sponsorship check. When I forgo that and go on to bring on much more money on the backend with the people I connect with, in the top influence that I get.
Brian Kelly:
The magic word there was "relationship".
Dylan Shinholser:
Relationships all day, every day. That's all I do- is build relationships, and how can I do it? Do more shows like this. Can I get it out? You're on like forty-two different podcast or outlets here, right? Every one of those. Every time you put a show on it, you're building a relationship with someone on that platform. Even if it's just you talking, and they're listening. You're building that relationship. Everything (that) I do, is built on: how can I develop relationships? Live streams is just an amazing way to do so.
Brian Kelly:
Posting them is one thing. Right? That's a great thing. What I learned through a podcasting expert friend of mine is the maybe not as equally important, but possibly greater importance, is getting on other people's shows. That includes audio podcasts only. He explained how his business skyrocketed when he did what he called, "podcast guest marathons". He would have someone get him booked in his team. He would carve out three days and just say get as many as you can for me. He'd do that. Then when they ask him about how to get in contact with him... This is the gold right here... It's not go to my Facebook page and look up my name and message me. He would tell them to go to his podcast website and from there to subscribe. Now he's building a following. It's genius. It's so genius. I just want to impart that. The cool thing, though, is when you're hosting a high-quality live show that opens the door for you to be a guest on many more.
Dylan Shinholser:
Oh, yeah. Yeah, absolutely. Being a guest is what goes back to the authority building. Right? If I can build my authority, I build my influence. If I do have something to sell... If I'm trying to build my brand or whatever it is or I'm just trying to get to as many people as possible to talk about events with them... That authority I call it, "authority hacking", being able to get them on your show. That'll get your show in front of their audience, and then going on to other shows helps you develop your authority. It's like writing a book. I was I'm a guest on this show, this show, this show. It's like writing a book. Your authority starts to become a little bit more when you're leveraging their influence. Right? When you're a guest on the show, if that show has a following, you becoming a guest on that show gives you authority because now you have the validation of the host that everyone is following and love. So, I can authority hack by getting on other people's shows.
Brian Kelly:
It leverges. You have a whole new tribe watching and interacting with you as well. I mean, this is one of the most powerful things people can use. If they just get out of that rut of trying to find a way to make money with it directly, that's when they'll see the real value come through. It's about building relationships. It's long-term. Not short, quick kill. I got to make a commission and run. It's build a relationship. Establish it. If you go into this with the mindset of it not being for directly making money, I personally think you have greater success. The long-term plays always work better than the short-term. Short-term works can work, but they're temporary. The long-term is a lot more permanent and lasting. Just think of all the wonderful bread crumbs you're leaving throughout the world. Through all the venues and platforms we've been talking about. In speaking terms, if you're on stage, that's what we call a "stage swap". Where you would be a guest on someone else's stage in return for them saying, "okay, but I'm going to do the opposite." We'll have you on our as well. The same thing with podcasts and live video. It works really great. Just make sure they're a fit.
Dylan Shinholser:
They've got to fit. (It's) got to makes sense.
Brian Kelly:
Both ways. Yeah.
Christian Karasiewicz:
I want to add something real quick to that. If you are consistently going live, so it's great to be consistent, go live on a regular basis, but also think about the long game. It's a couple of years, for example. Also, don't be afraid to be making changes and adjustments as things are moving along. It's not about substituting equipment. It's about looking at your process. For example, you mentioned Brian, that you have automation on some of the things. Think of smarter ways to take bigger jumps ahead. If I have to send someone an email, and I'm like, "hey, do you want to be on my show?" Then I have to deal with the whole back and forth. Well, okay. Yeah. What time? Then I have to send everything back. There are tools out there like Calendly, Harmonizely. You can send a calendar link to somebody and they can only book a certain slot for example and vice versa. This takes out the guesswork out of having to do all that back and forth. That's a way to work smarter because now you want to book people for your show. You send them one link. The person then doesn't have to send you a message back, and you can even use it to collect feedback for your show questions. There's not a lot of back-and-forth and downtime.
Brian Kelly:
Yeah, absolutely. I do that as well, and it's a godsend. I could not do what I'm doing. I would not do what I'm doing without the automation part of it. I have an onboarding form. You guys all... Most, not all of you went through it, but that was a mini version. Julie, you went through the big version. I then changed it right after I saw that. Like you said, make adjustments. That's what I did. I'm constantly doing that. Improving. I have a document automatically generated in Google Docs with your bio. The answer you had to why you think you would bring value to the show. Also, all the questions you chose to be asked for the show. Some of you didn't see that. So everything's done. The Q&A part used to take hours and hours doing manually. Now I just give them thirty-eight questions. Choose ten, and we're good. You tick the box. You choose what I'm going to ask you. (I) just made it a system, and it has worked beautifully. I don't even use the ten questions hardly. I use maybe the first three. Then we go organically like we've been doing tonight. My God, it's six twenty-nine! Are you kidding me? I'm having too much fun. Real quick. I know everyone that came on in the beginning. You heard this thing about a prize. We're going to do that real quick, and we'll come back and wrap it up. For those of you watching, remember in the beginning I said, "take notes and don't go clicking away and stuff like that"? Now I think Dylan, Julie, Tim, and Christian will also give you permission to do what I'm saying, and that is take out your phone. Take your gaze away from us for just a moment, but you'll still have to look back. Yes, yes. You can do this too. Please, do. What I want you to do....
Dylan Shinholser:
I need a vacation.
This is how you can enter to win a five-night stay at a five-star luxury resort of your choosing. Here's what you do. Take out your message app on your phone. Fire that up- your text message app. Where you would type in the name of the person normally that you're going to text. Instead, put in this number: three, one, four, six, six five-they're all doing it behind the scenes- one, seven, six, seven. I love this. Three, one, four, six, six, five, one, seven, six, seven. If you're watching this and you're not a guest, go ahead and write this down because I gonna take the screen down. I want you to get it. This will be open until the end of the evening. Where you actually put in the message... Where you might put emojis, those kinds of things, not emojis, just two words separated by a dash or a hyphen. Those words are peak (P-E-A-K) dash Vacation (V-A-C-A-T-I-O-N). All together. No spaces. Peak vacation. Send it off, then monitor your phone. You're going to get an automated response back asking you for your email address, and that will then officially enter you into the contest. Compliments of The Big Insider Secrets. Our buddies, Jason Nash, the owner. Dear friend of mine who lets us give this away every single week. Every show, actually. We do more than one a week now on average. So go ahead, get that entered. I can't wait to see who's going to win that. You're going to be asked later, you don't have to if you're the winner, to provide your Facebook information. Just your profile so we can say congrats and give you a high-five online and get others to come watch the show. To be honest, that's another strategy. We're just rolling back the curtain. That's why we do it this way. You can offer incentives like that. My friend has offered that to anyone who is my friend. If you're not my friend, you don't get it. If you're on as part of the panel here, they're all my friends. Christian may differ on that opinion, but I think he's my friend.
Christian Karasiewicz:
I'm your friend. Yes.
Brian Kelly:
Ok, good. I picked on you so hard. I apologize, but you're just you're a fun guy. I appreciate you for putting up with it. I definitely do stuff like that. Implement it and announce it in the beginning. That helps retention. I'm just pulling back the curtain for everybody. You can do different things like that. Having multiple people, I noticed, is also a little better than just one every single time. So, mix it up now and then. Alright. I know we're a little bit over, but I want to give you each another chance for a final parting tip. Anything you want on live streaming. It could be hardware, software, how you smile, what bling you wear, don't wear, your makeup. I'm wearing some, by the way, just so the guys know. Yeah, I don't know what they call it. It's not like guy up.. guy-liner, but it's like makeup. I know. That was bad.
Dylan Shinholser:
I haven't heard of that one.
Brian Kelly:
I just did that. I'm not a young fart anymore. Anyway. So, Dylan, we'll do the same thing. Go around the horn. What would be one final quick tip, or parting words of advice, you can give our wonderful viewing and listening audience?
Dylan Shinholser:
Keep it simple stupid. Don't overcomplicate it. There's things that you need to do and standards you need to meet. At the end of the day, keep it simple stupid will allow you to not overcomplicated it (and) get overwhelmed. Once you get overwhelmed, it's a wash. I would just say as a life advice, event advice, live stream advice, just keep it simple stupid and keep it moving.
Brian Kelly:
Real quick, I got to interject on that. Just so people know that that comes from an acronym K.I.S.S. So we're not calling everybody stupid, for one.
Dylan Shinholser:
Well...
Brian Kelly:
That was great. I have a friend who is Sicilian in nature, and he did this from the stage. He talked about it, and he brought up the whole thing. We're talking about doing it without complicating it. He goes, "It's like K.I.S.S. Who knows what K.I.S.S means?" Someone raised their hands. They said, "keep it simple, stupid". He goes,"Oh, no, no. It's keep it simple Sicilian." He lighten the load of the stupid part. I thought that was cool. Sorry, Julie, what is your parting tip?
Julie Riley:
You know, you're going to have to get started at some point. In order to do that, you're going to have to get over your fear. Go practice. Get those done, but also go watch and find other people that you resonate with their live shows. Start to take pieces from each of those. Now, obviously, you cannot go copy their live show and recreate it. You can pull little things from multiple different people's live shows that you like and that resonate with you. If you're comfortable and things are resonating with you, you're going to exude that comfort and that confidence out to the rest of the world.
Brian Kelly:
I love it. I love it. Alright. The man, the myth, the legend, Timothy J. McNeely. What is your final parting word of advice?
Timothy McNeely:
I'm going to close with a story. The purpose of this story is to illustrate the power of doing a show. July 20th, 1969, the first man walked on the moon. He left his footprints up there. On the moon, there's no wind. There's no rain. There's no weather, and those footprints today in twenty twenty-one look exactly like they did in nineteen sixty-nine. They're going to be exactly the same a million years from now. You too. You leave footprints on the hearts and the minds of everyone that you come in contact with. In streaming and having a platform, that's your opportunity to leave your footprints and to have an impact on people. Get clear about what your message is. What's the impact you want to have? If you do that, all of the other puzzle pieces are going to fall in place for you.
Brian Kelly:
Oh, baby. Okay, I've got to do it. I've got to do it. That was amazing.
Dylan Shinholser:
You have to get one of the little lower third animation gifts that are possible here on StreamYard. It's just a mic drop every time someone does one.
Brian Kelly:
Not nearly as much fun though, bro.
Christian Karasiewicz:
That's true. Fair. Very fair. I'll give it to you. I've got to get me one of those little squishy microphones.
Brian Kelly:
A little sound effect like I just broke my desk or something. That would be good. Alright, Christian, you've had a long time to think about it now. No pressure, but this better be a good one. I'm kidding. What do you have?
Christian Karasiewicz:
Let's see. The best piece of advice, I think, would be don't have gas or gear acquisition syndrome. You're going to watch people doing their live streams, and they're going to go and be like, "hey, I got to get that mic because this person upgraded." Oh, they got a new webcam. Remember? If you develop a plan, the whole thing is work the plan.. work the system. It's great (that) somebody else got some equipment, but it doesn't mean that you need to go out and get that yourself as well. Remember, work your plan. When you get to the certain points, maybe set that as a milestone. If I get to a certain number of viewers, for example, or a certain number of subscribers on a channel, then I might need to upgrade something. Don't be buying stuff just because someone else is doing so.
Brian Kelly:
Sales drive service. I love it. You guys are amazing. Thank you so much for coming on. Everyone who watched live. Thank you for coming on. Those of you that watched on the recording. Thank you for spending your valuable time with us, and those listening on the podcast. The same goes for you. Definitely. I hope you took a lot of notes because these are experts in the field. They are giving their value, their heart, their experience. They only charged me two-hundred thousand dollars for it. It's really been a deal. I'm kidding. They charged me nothing. You got incredible value from these amazing, amazing professionals. I can't thank you all enough. I appreciate you Dylan, Julie, Tim, Christian. Thank you from the bottom of my heart with all seriousness. I know we had some fun tonight. Thank you, Christian, so much for letting me pick on you so hard. You've been a great guy. I look forward to getting to know each and every one of you at a deeper level. If you're open to that after tonight. Appreciate you all. On behalf of these amazing people, that's it. We're out. My name is Brian Kelly. I'm the host of The MIND BODY BUSINESS Show. Until next time we will see you. Be blessed. So long for now.
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