Special Guest Expert - Timothy McNeely

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Announcer:
Welcome to The MIND BODY BUSINESS Show. The three keys to your success is just moments away. Here's your host, Brian Kelly.

Brian Kelly:
Hello, everyone, and welcome, welcome, welcome to The MIND BODY BUSINESS Show. I am extremely excited tonight because of our special guest expert who's coming on. Mr. Timothy J. McNeely is coming on. He is in the house. He is in the wings, waiting anxiously to be brought on so he can spread his wonderful, amazing value and give you what you need to succeed in life. And we were just talking right before we went live. And he had some interesting things to share that I cannot wait to unveil and share him with you just before we bring him on The MIND BODY BUSINESS Show. What is that all about? It is about what I call the three pillars of success. And you might guess what those are, right? It's mind, body and business. Mind being mindset. And what happened is I began studying only successful people for about a decade. And I tried to figure out what it was that made them tick. What made successful people any different than those that were struggling, who had not achieved that level of success that they desired and many deserved? And what I found after working with mentors one on one, after reading books of experts, after attending seminars and everything in between, both living and not living, people who had great intellect in this area. And these were the three areas; mindset being one of very powerful and flexible, being the key word mindset to a person. Every successful person I studied had these traits of a powerful and flexible mindset. And for those of you that liked to do research, one area I would highly, highly recommend that you pour your energies into is the area of neurolinguistic programing; NLP for short. I learned this some time ago, seven, eight years ago, became a master NLP practitioner and not to be a practitioner, but to learn it at a deep level. And it literally changed my life. We're not gonna talk too much about that. I don't believe on this show, but I just want to throw that out there. So go ahead and do some research or reach out to me later. I can throw you some resources to go hunt down and get more great info on that. And then body, that literally means their body. Every one of these very successful individuals took care of their bodies. They they ingested food that was good for them and drink that was good for them. They also exercised and took care of that external shell, which is their body. And this doesn't mean that they became expert body builders like an Arnold Schwarzenegger or supermodels like Heidi Klum. Nothing like that. It just means that they took care of themselves at a much higher level than those who had not achieved that success they want and deserve. And then there's business. One of my favorite areas. They're all my favorite. Business is multi, multi multifaceted. These people had mastered various skillsets and these included things like marketing, sales, building teams, systemizing, leadership. And actually, it's that last one. That is the key because there are many, many more skillsets that are required to achieve success in a business and then to grow a business, even beyond its initial success. And to be honest, no one person, in my humble opinion, could achieve a mastery of all those skillsets in one lifetime by themselves. That's why leadership is key. And if you focus on leadership early on in your walk, if you're in that stage right now, if you're a solo partner, start learning and diving into all things about leadership because it's going to come. You will need to scale. You will need to get help. And when you do that, you'll bring in those people that have those skillsets that you currently do not. And that will save you a lot of time. And it will get you to the place of success you want and deserve. And that is what this show is all about. It's a show by entrepreneurs for entrepreneurs. And here's the thing. It's all about modeling, modeling, success. And one final thing that I'd like to touch on with successful people is that to a person, everyone I studied, they were all avid readers, readers of books. And with that, I'd like to segue real briefly into a segment I affectionately call Bookmarks.

Announcer:
Bookmarks. Born to read. Bookmarks. Ready, steady, read. Bookmarks. Brought to you by ReachYourPeakLibrary.com.

Brian Kelly:
There you see it on the screen, ReachYourPeakLibrary.com. That is a Web site I had built specifically with you. Yes. I'm not kidding. With you in mind. The entrepreneur, the business professional looking to get ahead. And real quick before I go any further. Do yourself a favor and take out a good old fashioned piece of paper and a pen, and take notes as we go along. Either that or open up a notepad or whatever that app is on Apple. I don't know, I'm sorry, but open something up and take notes rather than opening a new tab on your browser or venturing off on your phone to the websites and resources that we will be giving you during the course of this show, because I know Tim will have plenty as well. And so just write down, ReachYourPeakLibrary.com. And then come back to us, because here's the thing. I teach this from stage all the time. The magic happens in the room. And it would be a disservice to you if you were to take your attention elsewhere and missed that one golden nugget that would have made all the difference for you and your life when Tim comes on, because this guy is rich with golden nuggets. So you don't want to miss anything. Back to ReachYourPeakLibrary.com. It's basically a collection of books that I have personally read and I vet them. Not every book I've ever read is on this list. Only those that had a profound impact on my life, either through business and sometimes personally. You'll see a lot of Grant Cardone in here. Here's my mentor, Mel Cutler. He's an amazing young man. You should get that book, The Big Boom, when you want to learn about NLP and use it for business, that is an amazing resource. It just goes on and on and on. And you'll just grab the book that you haven't read, that jumps out at you. Don't worry about going in any kind of order. Just grab the book and start reading it or listening to it. I listened to him on Audible. I found that was my way. My mode for ingesting information after years of never reading any books because I've got fatigue. My eyes couldn't take it. I didn't realize that I could just listen to and get all the information I needed. So I was in heaven once I discovered this thing called Audible. And so that is it. ReachYourPeakLibrary.com. Reading is so vitally important and I, I would invite you to either read or listen to the story in the front and you'll learn why it is so important and how it became so profoundly important for me in my life. And it has changed my life very profoundly just by getting the habit of reading very good books, the right books, as you see there on the title and on the website. If you're watching here live or on the recording for losing the audio podcast, just go visit. ReachYourPeakLibrary.com. Write it down after you've finished listening to this amazing episode with our guest expert, who is going to come on right now. Here we go.

Announcer:
It's time for the guest expert spotlight. Savvy. Skillful. Professional. Adept. Trained. Big league. Qualified.

Brian Kelly:
And there he is, ladies and gentlemen, the one, the only Mr. Timothy J. McNeely. How are you doing, my friend?

Timothy McNeely:
I am excellent and excited to be here tonight with you and your audience.

Brian Kelly:
This is going to be such a kick in the rear. I cannot tell you. I am so excited because of what we discussed just before going live. You told me about something, I honestly have never heard of before. And I literally - I told you this. I got goosebumps. I was so excited to learn something new that sounded so intriguing. I can't wait. Before we jump in and I formally introduce you, Tim, real quick, I want to remind our live viewers that if you stay on to the very end, the very end of this show, we will show you, I will show you how you can win a five nights stay, at a five star luxury resort in Mexico. Compliments of our friends, you see on the upper left if you're watching the video, TheBigInsiderSecrets.com my good friends over there. We give away one of these every single show. And yes, the time is coming soon where you will all be free to move about the globe. And it's going to be amazing. You'll be one of those first ticket holders. I'm leaving. I'm out of here. I won on MIND BODY BUSINESS Show. All right. Let's bring this gentleman on with with the respect that he deserves. Tim McNeely is the CEO of The Lifestone Companies and consults with driven business leaders and select professionals. There. There's. Oh, my goodness. There are lessons right in that sentence. Oh, this is phenomenal. He can help you optimize your financial world so you can grow your wealth and confidentially, confidentially take care of the people you love, the causes you care about, and change the world for the better. I love it. However, what matters the most to Tim is meeting his wife, Dr. Dana Yeomen, in seeing the frustration she had running her dental practice. He set out to make things simple, and that is what got him going. Tim now formally and officially welcome my brother. Great to have you on.

Timothy McNeely:
So good to be here.

Brian Kelly:
This is gonna be like I said, I've said it twice already. I mean, it's gonna be so much fun. And for those of you watching live, go ahead and say hello. Give us some love and likes and actually ask some questions as we go along. I love interaction on this show. That makes it that much better. And Tim, what I like to do is, you know, the theme of the show is mind, body, business, as I opened up with. And what I like to open it with and then we'll just go organically from there. What I like to open up with is find out, you know. So we, I read your bio and it tells somewhat about your background, your accolades, your experience, your success. And what I like to do is dig deeper and really kind of peel away the onion, so to speak, of that big, beautiful brain of yours and find out what makes you personally tick. And it's not really personal, but it is. It's personal because it's unique to you. And what I'm wanted to ask you is when you get up in the morning, - you know, being an entrepreneur is a struggle a lot of times; it's about having that flexibility. So there are days that, you know, when you get up, you're gonna have struggles. You're facing them. For you, when you get up day in and day out, day in and day out, when you come to, you're out of bed and you're waking up, what is it that's going through your mind that motivates you to take on the day with passion and fervor going forward?

Timothy McNeely:
One word; impact. That's whats gets me up every single day is wanting to make an impact on on the people I love and the causes I care about, so that I can change the world for the better. And, you know, I saw your booklist there and you and I share so much in common. I love studying other successful people. And when I started my life out. Right. I was a very ordinary advisor. I thought my job was to to manage investments, and met and fell in love with my wife, who's a dentist. And it didn't matter how well I could manage your portfolio. It didn't make a difference for her. So I found myself in a job I hated, couldn't take care of the person I loved the most. So I had to figure out how to make an impact for her. And that's what gets me up every single day, is having an impact.

Brian Kelly:
I love it. And notice it's an impact on others. I'm talking to others, others out there, Tim, not you directly that you know, he's talking about how an impact with others. That's what I find as another common denominator of successful entrepreneurs, is they love serving and helping. And in Tim's words, impacting others in a positive way. And that's why I love what I get to do is this show. I meet amazing people. Tim and I have never met. We've never spoken before half an hour prior to the show going live. And the interesting thing is that's quite often the case with most guests I have on the show. And it's like he's my long lost buddy. He could've been my brother, a brother by another mother. Who knows. Maybe we'll have to look at ancestry.com to figure that one out. See if there's something to that. But it's really cool, the commonality. And I just love, love interviewing folks like you, Tim. And this is going to be quite a ride. And so. You know, a lot of people go into a business once they figured out what they want to do. And a lot of people in the beginning especially are in it to make a quick kill; you know, money. A lot of money. And that's a common trait. And it's not necessarily a negative or a bad trait, because let's face it, when you first start out, you've got to survive. Right. Entrepreneurs have to survive. And to do that, they need to make money so they can then build up to that next stage. And, you know, we get that we probably all been there before. But what it really comes down to, though, is planning for long term success, for, you know, getting that strategy in place. That's going to take you through the long haul. The ups and downs, there are many downs. So for you, Tim, what would you say, for you, has been the best way to achieve that long term success versus the quick kill mentality?

Timothy McNeely:
You know, I love what you just shared about right. So many people get started in businesses. They want to make money. Right. My story was no different. Right. I got started, wanted to make money and started making some money. But like I told you, right. I couldn't solve the problems for the person I loved the most. And so much like you, I started studying, what do the best of the best do. And how do they move the needle on their most important goals? And by studying that, by all of a sudden having that impact on my wife and being able to rearrange things so much so that she got to a point where we got back on top of the world, things were going good again. But she got to a point where she couldn't hold forceps anymore to do extractions. And. And she's a dentist. And if you're a dentist or any professional, your hands or everything. And I'll never forget the days sitting in the doctor's office with my wife. Right. Imagine being there with the person you love the most and you're waiting for the doctor to come in and tell that person if they have a future in their chosen career. And the reason I won't ever forget that day, Brian, is it didn't matter what that doctor was going to tell us when he walked in the room, because we had done the planning, we had implemented lessons from the super rich. We had caught some errors in our plans and we knew we were going to be okay. And so what keeps me going all day long, it's having that impact and serving others. And that's such a common trait. Right? The more you focus on solving other people's problems and serving your your customers, your staff, your suppliers, and in finding out how to help them get what they want, the more you're going to get what you want. The more you can help everyone win, the more everyone wins.

Brian Kelly:
I love that and totally relate to that. And that is so true. You know, and there are books and books about that very topic. And it just, it works that way. When you are coming from a place of serving without expectation of receiving anything in return, that is when the biggest things happen. And that's the trick, though, is to do it without the intent of getting anything in return. And when you just trust it and go forward and just repeat that process over and over and over. And I believe I mean, trust me, if you're if your intent is true, the return will come back many fold. It may not come right away. It may not come when you're ready for it or when you're expecting it, when you want it. But it does come. I mean, do you ever find that to be true, Tim?

Timothy McNeely:
Oh, yeah, absolutely. But, right. Kind of coming back to that, right. How do you maintain your mindset? How do you stay productive? Right. How do you stay focused on the things that matter? Right. And looking at your booklist, right. Start with why. It's so simple, right. Find out your why. And I really had to go on that soul searching journey to figure out what gets me up, right. I had to work with coaches and my friends. And do the exercises saying, "Why does this matter?" And you talk about peeling the onion. You've got to keep going deeper and deeper and deeper. And as I kept doing that, it always came back to, you know what? I want to help people. I want to serve people. I want them to be able to take care of the people they love, the causes they care about, and change the world for the better. And I want to find like minded individuals to do that with. But the struggle sometimes gets a little frustrating in especially as you give. You give. You start thinking, when is it going to come back? But you have to trust the process.

Brian Kelly:
Yeah. And that's when that why comes into play. You know, when things are going the way you had anticipated and there's struggles and you're not getting the results you're looking for. If you don't have that very strong, impactful, why? And what is that why? It's what is it you would do? What what would you crawl over a mile of broken glass to? What would be at the end of that? Who or what would you crawl a mile of broken glass to go to and endure all that pain and suffering? Is your wife strong enough? In other words, mine. Everyone's different. It's very personal. In my case, it's my wife. My wife is my why. She's everything to me. And everything I do is to help us live a better, more joyful life, if that's even possible. But that's my why, and it's very strong for me and for every individual is different. And so you have the why is what pulls you through those times? Does that resonate with you, Tim?

Timothy McNeely:
Yeah, you need that deep sense of passion and purpose for what you do and what gets you up, and if it's just I want to make a lot of money, that really isn't a strong enough motivation. In fact, that that's a motivation that will often cause you to cut corners and do things unethically and the wrong way because your motivation is actually wrong.

Brian Kelly:
And I would agree with that opinion. Yes. I would say that, you know, again, it's o-. So here's the thing. Is it okay to want more money?

Timothy McNeely:
Oh, absolutely. You kidding? That's one of the traits we see time and time again. And I've helped underwrite the research on driven entrepreneurs. Thousands upon thousands of them. And these are already very wealthy people. We ask him a simple question. Do you want more money? And you know what a resounding majority of them say, Bryan? Yes. We'll dive a little deeper and we say, well, why is this three primary things come out. They want to take care of the people they love, support the causes they care about, change the world for the better. It has nothing to do with greed. It has everything to do with impact.

Brian Kelly:
Yeah, and that's a thing. There's this phrase that has been as re been repeated in incorrectly and out of context for as long as I've been alive. I've heard it that and that phrase is, "money is the root of all evil." And it's an excerpt from the Bible, but completely, incorrectly translated.

Timothy McNeely:
It's a missing word there.

Brian Kelly:
You're right. The love of money is the root of all evil, which means if you love money more than you love your maker, then you have a problem. And that's what it means. Not money itself being the root of all evil. It's just a comparison frame. Like, if you love something else more than you love Jesus Christ, then that's the root of all evil, right? And money can definitely is for many people that one thing. And the thing is, here's the thing. If Tim doesn't make a boatload of cash, then Tim can't help a boatload of people. And so I wish upon Tim many boatloads of cash so he can help and serve many boatloads of people. It depends on the person. Money just accentuates and magnifies who you already are.

Timothy McNeely:
Well said.

Brian Kelly:
So if you're already there serving and helping others. I want him to be incredibly ungodly wealthy because I know he will take that and build more businesses. Maybe he'll help others, nurture them along to do what he does to help and serve and scale and and grow. And that's when I come, when it comes to be an entrepreneur, you must be okay with making a lot of money. It's your responsibility to make more money. Really. If you're going to serve more people, you have to make the money. Just do it in an integrity based way. I'm on my soapbox, but what do you think about that, Tim?

Timothy McNeely:
Oh, I'm about to get up there with you. And I would argue that if you've got products, if you've got services, if you have things that change people's lives and you are not an advocate for it, you are not behaving in a moral and ethical way. You have a duty to get out there and sell as much of what you have as possible, because if you've got something that impacts people and you're keeping it to yourself, that is selfish.

Brian Kelly:
Absolutely.

Timothy McNeely:
Am I on the soapbox with you, brother?

Brian Kelly:
Brother, I love it. I love it, man. I'm going to. I'm going to attach another box next to mine so we can fit both together at all times.

Timothy McNeely:
You need a little soapbox icon in years. You go. Love it. Wanda Reynolds, thank you so much. We agree service is the key. Appreciate that. Yeah. More comments and questions. Bring them in so we can take this to the next level. And speaking of that, I want to drive in to a concept you started telling me about before the show came on. If that's okay with you.

Timothy McNeely:
Yeah, let's do it.

You came up with this term. I personally never heard of maybe I've lived under a rock for a long time. But you called it a virtual family office, if I recall correctly. And you started to explain it to me. And I was still trying to kind of get my bearings and understand it. Can you concisely define what that means? And then and then we'll move into the next step, which, you know, I think what's coming on there.

Timothy McNeely:
Yeah. Absolutely. So I want you and everyone listening. I want you to imagine that you have just created a massively successful company. And you've just sold out. And you are now a billionaire. Right. You've got all the money you could ever want. Ever need. And you've got to find some people to manage your money. Right. And manage your wealth. Help you achieve everything that's important to you. Well, when you've got that kind of serious money, what you usually do, is you go to a top five accounting firm, you find that the person in the corner office, you pluck them out and you hire them and you say, "Go build me a team of people. And I want some real estate people and I want a good attorney. Oh, and I want a private aviation specialist and a concierge doctor for my family." And you're going to take all these people and you're going to sit him down on a piece of real estate that you own. And the job of that team is to manage your wealth. And the reason you do that is you want control and you want to work with people who really get and understand you. You want people working in your best interest. Well, there's a little problem with that. It's kind of expensive to run those family offices. But the beautiful thing about today's world, with a lot of the technology and regulatory changes, we've been able to bring those family offices, which is a structure that the super rich use to manage their wealth. We've been able to bring that way down the scale to driven entrepreneurs without having a nine figure net worth.

Brian Kelly:
And so, okay, let's dive into that a little bit. So typically, this is for the very, very wealthy, correct?

Timothy McNeely:
Correct.

Brian Kelly:
What you just described. And what are we talking about? Networth of half a million?

Timothy McNeely:
North of half a billion.

Brian Kelly:
Billion?

Timothy McNeely:
Billion. Yeah. No, no. At half a million you can't even afford the payroll for a couple months.

Brian Kelly:
That would make sense. So fantastic. So what is it that you specifically do to bridge that gap?

Timothy McNeely:
Well, what I do is really build those bespoke custom virtual family offices for driven entrepreneurs. So an entrepreneur may have a really successful company and they're saying, "you know what, I really want to increase my valuation over the next four years and then I want to plan on an exit strategy so that I can go do philanthropy." So I help them get clear on their goals. Then what we do is we bring in the best of the best players to help them achieve that. So we're going to bring in business valuation specialists, business growth specialists. We're going to make sure they retain key employees. And we're really assembling that team around them so they can help accelerate their success even more.

Brian Kelly:
Oh this is fantastic. Is there a - are there - what are the guidelines? What are the qualif- what are the qualifiers for an individual to be, I guess, qualified to work with you like? Do they have to make a certain amount of money? Do they need to be at a certain level in their business? Those kind of things.

Timothy McNeely:
Yeah. I mean, really, it's you know, the best way to answer that is to figure out what kind of professional you need because there's so many good professionals out there. And I'll share with you how we we think about this.

Brian Kelly:
Okay.

Timothy McNeely:
And, you know, once again, we've done a lot of research and I've had the privilege of underwriting the research on driven entrepreneurs. And when we study them, we've come up with what I call the success equation. And this will help you understand the different professionals that are out there and who to work with. And I hope my screen is popped up.

Brian Kelly:
There we go.

Timothy McNeely:
See that there.

Brian Kelly:
Yes, sir.

Timothy McNeely:
And so in working with driven entrepreneurs and specifically, I love work with dentists who happen to be entrepreneurs. We define success as the following. It's precision times implementation, times access. What are those means? Well, precision is that degree of certainty that you're going to obtain and reach your financial goals. Right. Are you going to actually reach, right. How certain are you, you're going to reach your goals? Then there's implementation. Right. Are you actually going to be able to achieve those desired results? And lastly, is access. How confident are you that you're going to get those outcomes that you want and need for your business? So so to summarize. Right. Precision that's your goals. Implementation is what gives you the results. And access, it was what gives you the confidence that you want to achieve. So what kind of professional do driven entrepreneurs. Right. Who do you need to work with? Right. You certainly want to work with the best of the best. And to share how my industry is structured.It really makes a lot of sense to break it down into hierarchy. And the very bottom of the period, I'm going to assume no one is working with unqualified advisors. I'm going to assume everyone out there - you're getting some good advice. But at the bottom of the pyramid, unqualified advice. Once again, I'm going to assume you're getting some good advice out there. And the first level is an investment advisor. And coming back to that success equation, right? Your results are singular, right? One single area. It's your investments, your goals. They're gonna be limited. One single area, your investments, your confidence, going to be very, very limited. And your results. You're going to get it in a single area of your life. And so often, as driven entrepreneurs, you hit a ceiling and you reach this lack of time, lack of focus. And the myth that you believe at this level is I'll get to it later. And you're smiling, Brian. Because because. Because what's the truth about it?

Brian Kelly:
They'll never get to it. Right. And usually something happens and later is too late. Right. By the time you need to do something, it's too by the time you need to buy fire insurance, it's too late. So as we move up, then you reach a financial adviser. But you're going to get some limited results. And maybe that financial advisor will be responsive to some needs if you come to them. But their practice is usually built on that investment advisory business. So your goals are really going to be bounded by what you know, by what you're approaching that adviser and asking help for.

Timothy McNeely:
You may say, "oh, you know, I need some help with that estate planning or I need to work on valuing my business." But they're not proactively looking at that. That means you're going to have incomplete confidence as you move forward towards optimizing your financial world and you're gonna get restricted results. As we continue to move up the hierarchy, some people may be working with wealth managers. And now you're getting extensive results because wealth managers are typically focused on five key areas. One, they help you make smart decisions with your money. That's the investment part. But they move beyond that to wealth enhancement, which is the mitigation of your taxes. Never met anyone who says, Tim, can you help me pay more than my fair share? It's usually I want to pay my fair share and less if I can. Then there's wealth protection. How do you wrap your arms around everything that you've worked so hard to build and make sure it's not unjustly taken either from lawsuit, divorce or some other unjust meets. Most of us have people we really care about, so fourth; we want to transfer our assets to the next generation and the people we care about. And then lastly, many people are charitably inclined. They want to magnify those charitable gifts. And so that wealth manager is going to help you focus on those five key areas. Your goals. They're going to be extensive, your goals. Your access.

Timothy McNeely:
You're going to have quiet confidence knowing that you are on track to reach your most important goals and you're gonna get wide ranging results in all areas of your financial life. But once again, we hit a ceiling and we think, well good enough is good enough. And that's the myth we believe, is okay is good enough. But the truth is, with the changes in technology today, it's possible to have the best in and driven entrepreneurs can benefit from a family off a structure. They can have a virtual family office. And when you reach this level, now you're not just doing the wealth management piece, but it's also lifestyle services. And it's things that really matter to you. And so you're gonna get comprehensive results. All areas of your life, your goals absolutely maximized. You're going to have authentic confidence that you're going to reach your most important goals and you're gonna get those comprehensive results in all areas of your life. Now, what kind of professional do you want or need? It's going to depend on you and your goals and what you are trying to achieve. You may be very, very well served with just an investment advisor, and that may be all you need. But to answer your question. Right. Do you need a high performing virtual family office? Entrepreneurs have lives of complexity. If you've got a complex financial life, not just on the business, but personal side, a virtual family office can make a lot of sense for you.

Brian Kelly:
This is phenomenal. I mean, I've never even heard this concept, which is amazing. Probably because it was formally only available to the very wealthy. Yeah, that's pretty awesome.

Timothy McNeely:
Exactly right. And just like you, right. Studying the best of the best. This is what you learn how to do is bring them down from the very top. And I don't want to be the pioneer. I want to fall on the well-worn path of people who have already done it.

Brian Kelly:
And I loved the business model you've put together. So basically, if I'm getting this right, you've actually brought in individuals who have expertise in various different areas that you may not have and put them together as like an all a cart choosing, if you will, for those who need their services through this virtual family office model. Is that correct? Is it close?

Timothy McNeely:
Yeah, exactly. And really, if you think about a virtual family office, it's a community based approach using the collective wisdom of the best of the best experts. And what we found is in today's environment, most of the best of the best experts. They work for their own firms. They are franchise players, and they are not tucked into your big firms out there. They want to be on their own. And because of that, we now have access to some of the best and the brightest that we can bring in on an as needed basis to serve you and your family.

Brian Kelly:
Wow. I like it even more that they're not tucked into a big firm. Now they have more incentive to really crush it.

Timothy McNeely:
Exactly.

Brian Kelly:
They're running their own business. You know, when you're working for someone else, you're incentive is typically less depending on where you work and what your rewards are for what you do. So this sounds fantastic. My gosh. Goodness, I'm reeling. My mind is going crazy. Lots of good info. Tim knows this stuff. Hey, I wonder if this guy knows you. The last name looks familiar. Daniel McNeely.

Timothy McNeely:
Oh, yes. I think it may be my brother. How you doing, brother?

Brian Kelly:
Daniel? Oh, yes. And my buddy Prince Ayo. And I'm sorry, buddy. I just cannot pronounce your last name. I've met you in person, and it's been a long time. I'm so glad you came on. And I wish you more success as well. My brother, you're an amazing, amazing man. I love this guy. Thanks for coming on and ask questions if you have questions for Tim. My gosh, please. I hope you have lots of questions for this whole virtual family office thing, because it's brand new to me. I've never said I know everything and I don't. And I never will. And I love meeting people like Tim. This is blowing my mind in such a great way. I'm thinking of all the possibilities. And I can't wait to have more conversations with Tim after the show to say, you know, where can we go at this? And what are the possibilities? Because as I was sharing with you before the show, I just brought on a fiduciary who's handling our finances now. And I'm loving that. When you were going up and talking about the levels of confidence, I was smiling inside on those because my confidence went way up after we got everything put together with my buddy Larry Zuckerman, who's handling our finances now. And it's been an amazing, amazing ride. And what you said, what you showed in that pyramid going up with the confidence increasing. It's absolutely the truth. That's what happens when you have somebody who knows what they're doing. It's taking care of what's important for you. And I love that. Hello, Don. Amazing Don is a local man here at the local Chamber of Commerce president, and he's an amazing guy, always helping businesses. Right. Glad you're here, Don. Ask some questions if you've got them. I want questions people. Bring them on. Bring them on. You know, when it comes to that kind of virtual family office, that sounds like that's really going to help people catapult their success in different ways that I can't even fathom at this moment, I can't wait to dive in. Okay, here's what I want to know. Give me a few examples of what these experts are experts in and what that can do to help specifically like an entrepreneur, say, starting out. Maybe they're just branching out. And they started building a team. They're just beyond solo-preneur, and they brought in a few apprentices, employees, VAs, what have you. What would be a good potential fit for somebody like that? Not knowing all the details, of course. But yeah, it would be a good example of somebody that you could put them in alignment with.

So maybe they're just starting out, right. They've got a couple of team members and they're struggling building the systems and processes. Ari Mozelle. Right. Let's put him in touch with an optimization expert who's going to help him automate, outsource and optimize their processes so that they can create scalability. Or maybe that entrepreneur, you know, maybe they're they're coming up with their first fundraising and they're looking to get some v.c and they have no idea how to present. Right. They're like, "I don't know what to say." Well we're gonna put him in touch with one of the top speaking coaches in the entire world who's going to help them hone their message so they can communicate with even more clarity. Or maybe they've got a health issue and they just are not getting any traction with their doctors and they don't know where to turn. We're going to put them in touch with some of the best concierge's medicine professionals on the face of this planet who's going to give them access to the front of line and get them the care that they want. Those are just a few of the examples of what you can do through a virtual family office.

Brian Kelly:
This is like, this is so moving my needle right now. This is exciting. This is incredible.

Timothy McNeely:
Right. And a lot of these best of the best professionals, if you just pick up the phone and call them, they're not going to talk to you because they don't know who you are. Whereas that virtual family office, it's access. So my clients usually go to the front of the line. And when I make that introduction, they're getting a call back from the professional. Not only that, we've got negotiated rates with these professionals so that your costs are less because we work collaboratively as a team. And I'll tell you, there's really kind of three ways that I think about the virtual family office. The first pillar is what I call the human element. You want to work with advisers who get you, right. Everyone has the same product. But do people actually understand you and what you're trying to achieve? And that really is that first pillar is building the human element. From there, you want a cohesive team. There's plenty of people who can refer you to someone else. But do you actually collaborate on a deep level to help that client achieve everything that's important to them? And then really the last pillar of that virtual family office is you want a systematic process. And that systematic process is going to do two things. It's going to address failure and it's going to make sure that you're taking advantage of all the potential opportunities out there. And when it comes to failure, you know, one of the questions and things I hear all the time when I tell people what I do is they say, "you know what, Tim? I've got a team of people. I'm all set." And I look at them and I ask them a question. I go, great. I say, your level of wealth, I wouldn't expect anything less. Most of my clients, they made a lot of money in real estate or they've sold the business. They're already wealthy. And I say I would be surprised if you didn't have a team in place. Then I ask them, when was the last time you did a stress test of your wealth plants? And they look at me kind of sideways and they say, a stress what? And I go a stress test. And I explained that in the family office world in the last five years, 98 percent of family offices have stress tested their wealth plans. What's a stress test? Well, a stress test is where that family office brings in someone who's not on the payroll. They bring in an outside expert and that job of that expert is to not tell the family what they want to hear. They're there for two reasons. They want to check the wealth planning to identify errors, because errors happen, and they want to make sure that they catch those. And they also want to make sure they're identifying all the opportunities out there. And if the super rich are stress testing their wealth plans, you should, too.

Brian Kelly:
Absolutely. It's amazing that now. So here, one of the keys is getting access to what the super wealthy have, which is rare for many, most individuals. And that's another reason I am so excited about this. Not so much for myself personally, but for everyone. I'm thinking of people in my mind as you're talking Tim. You know, who else could potentially reap huge rewards by getting connected with you and your entire team of experts? Your brother has a question here, so I hope he's not setting you up with something. I don't know if I should bring this up. But I'll let you handle it because he's your brother. So I'm going to read it so that our podcast listeners can hear it as well. He says, Daniel McNeilly says, "With the advent of Robinhood free trading and EFTs, how do money managers add value in today's market?"

Timothy McNeely:
I think that is such a brilliant question. And Daniel - I almost feel like he set me up here. This is a great question. You know, we kind of touched on this earlier, right? Everyone has the same product, right? And when it comes to investments, that's really no different. Once you reach a certain level the dirty secret of my industry is everyone has the same portfolio. And there are certainly people you never want to let handle your money. But once you're at a certain level, they've all got the same stuff. And if the only value is asset management, you probably shouldn't be working with that person. But if through proper tax planning, we can save you a hundred and fifty, two hundred, three hundred thousand dollars a year in taxes, that's some value that you're adding. If we can help you set up your own insurance company so that you pay premiums to yourself instead of the insurance company, that's a massive value. We. We talk about it in Seriously Wealthy, Bryan. It's in the book in front of you. If we can help you create tax free income for life, that's an added value. So the asset management, that's table stakes. It's all the additional value in the wealth enhancement mitigation of taxes. It's wealth transfer, wealth protection and charitable gifting. Those are areas that you can really move the needle.

Brian Kelly:
Goodness sakes. I guess I'll tell you right now, Tim, there has not been a guest. You're like the guest number one hundred and two or this is show number one hundred and two or so. And nothing has intrigued me more than what we're talking about now because it's so new to me and just the idea that these kind of things are accessible. I didn't know you could have your own insurance company. I've never heard that before. So that sounds like something a super wealthy group of people would figure out and do. So I'm loving this so much and we will definitely - don't worry, everyone watching/listening we'll get you the contact information so you can have a conversation with Tim and see if you're a fit going forward with him and what he's got put together. I know I'm going to because I am so intrigued. I have so many questions. One of the things you really hit on very early on the show that I wanted to circle back to Tim, was you talked about how you read a lot and you also slipped in there that you had coaches and then you continued on. I thought, awesome, because this is like what Tim is talking about is you have an instant team of highly skilled coaches and there is nothing that I have ever done in my business life that has excelled me farther, faster than ever before, than by actually hiring a coach and multiple coaches. One for speaking. One for marketing and others for time management. And those have all reaped huge rewards for me. Now you're talking about having multiple people there at your beck and call to say, I need help. Can you please help me? And they will have the expertise to do so. This is like. I can't imagine what this is truly worth to, for people. I can only imagine. So this sounds amazing, brother. Keep talking about it. What else you got?

Timothy McNeely:
It really is. It's a lot of fun. And the coach thing. I'm so glad you brought that up. Right. Coaches have accelerated my success more than just about anyone else. And I love your process in kind of coming on your show. We do some chatting before and kind of go through some questions like, you know what, how do we want to serve the audience and one of your questions was - right - if you had the chance to start over again, what would you do differently? And as I thought about that, right, the thing I would do is I would surround myself with more like minded people much sooner in life. And this is a danger that you and so many entrepreneurs fall into, is we think we want to do this alone. And you think, "You know, if I reach out, if I say I'm struggling, then that's a sign of weakness." And I just can't do that. And there's a proverb about love. It says, if you want to go far or I'm sorry, "if you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go with others." And that to me is so true. Right. You can go fast, but it's going to be a sprint and you're going to run out of energy. But if you surround yourself with the right people, you're gonna go so much further. There's something about the community, faith, wisdom and the collective wisdom of everyone working together to achieve common goals.

Brian Kelly:
Wow. An absolute wealth of information in just a short period of time and look, so I was a prodding those who are watching and listening to take notes. I'm running the show. I'm hosting the show. And I'm not asking you to do anything I don't do. So I've got a full page going. I can barely read it because I'm so excited, my hand is shaking. But there's so many things that you just mentioned that were so profound. Surround yourselves with like minded people. I went to every entrepreneur based seminar and networking event I could get my, you know, that I could go to, that I had the time for, that I had the money for. Even sometimes when I didn't have the money, I found the money and went. And I, you know, a lot of people - this will date me but do you remember an actor by the name of Mr. T? He was in Rocky. And he was -

Timothy McNeely:
Oh yeah.

Remember oftentimes he would walk around with just a massive bundle of gold chains around his neck? I mean, I don't know how much that weighed. That had to weigh a lot. He was a big dude too, so probably nothing to him. Well, over the course of years, as I went to these seminars, I would keep those who would let me those badges that came with the lanyards that you walked through the door and it has your name. Hi. I am. And over the years, I kept them. And then when I went up on stage, I looked in my bag that of all these and like, my God, there's a lot of it there. And so I have, you know, one of my assistants run up on the stage at this at an opportune time. And I put those on and I look and I have Mr. T up on the screen. I say, look, I put Mr. T to shame because they were thick.

Timothy McNeely:
I'll give you a fist bump for that. That's awesome.

Brian Kelly:
Yeah. And I only say that not to pat myself on the back, but to implore upon those out there who are not doing that. We're not getting out there. And look, I get it. We're kind of under restriction at this moment. It will lift. Go on to webinars and attend those and interact, take action, make, you know, communicate with people. That's the key. Don't just show up, but SHOW up. I mean fully, and really engage and ask questions. Be the curious one. Richard Branson's like, one of the most curious people on the planet and he's also one the most successful. I wonder if there's a pattern there and maybe we should follow that.

Timothy McNeely:
Well, and the amazing thing is when you find that right group, people are so willing to share and help. They want you to reach the top too. And you talk about that curiosity - I was attending another mastermind group in my niche and, you know, they had this panel up there and they're talking about hiring people and associates. And all of a sudden this guy in the audience pops up and imagine being in your group of your peers, and the most successful person running the most successful company in your niche pops up and you're like, "what's this guy doing?" And he gets up and he asks that panel and he says, "Well, can you tell me how you're hiring people?" And it's like, "wait, you should be the one up there telling u- huh, you're asking a question?" Like the most successful guy in the room by far and he's got a humble attitude and he's trying to learn and he's genuinely curious and he's at the top of his game. And that's why he's at the top of his game.

Brian Kelly:
Interesting you bring that up, because the reason I use Richard Branson is from an actual real story from my mentor. His name's Mel Cutler, who is by age, could be my son. He's younger than I am. I don't care about age. I don't care about race. I don't care about gender. If someone has the results I want, I latch on with my hands to both ankles and I don't let go virtually, of course. But he said he had this story, where he met Richard Branson and they were staying in the hallway during a break or something. The guy came up and he just started peppering my mentor, Mel, with questions. And so Mel would tell us from the stage and it's like, you know, he's thinking this, but he says it from say, like, "Hey, man, you're the one that's got all this success. I want to ask all the questions. Why are you asking me all the questions?" And so that was the that was the lesson. You know, the most curious person, I guess, wins. Right. And here's the thing. One of the things that we don't do as humans is ask questions because it makes us appear as if we don't know very much. And where does that come from? You touched on it and that you call that weakness? I call it ego. Same thing. You know, it's ego thinking. Well, I don't want to come off as not knowing everything. And if I ask questions and I certainly don't look like I know everything, so I'm going to act like I know everything. And that will be good for me. Well, it won't you know, it's time to get rid of that ego shuck it aside. I'm looking at my notes of all the stuff you said. You can go fast and become alone and go far and be with others. I just love everything that's coming out here. This is like a super show. I'm going to call us a super show. This is phenomenal. Oh, Prince Ayo, "thanks, Brian, for featuring Timothy. I love what's coming out of the brother." Yes, same here.

Timothy McNeely:
Likewise, Prince. Thanks for tuning in.

Brian Kelly:
This guy is amazing. And he was this was many years ago, but he was putting together this phenomenal t shirt company. And I met him during one of those seminars where I was helping with my mentor, Mel Cutler, and amazing, just gorgeous human being. I love this guy. I love everybody. This is amazing. Wow. My God, dude, we only have ten minutes left. This is amazing. Oh, I love. I definitely want to touch into this because here's the thing with business. It's what blows me away right now is with what's been happening with a pandemic. A lot of companies are closing. Before they close, many of them are cutting certain departments. And what I'm seeing over and over and over again is they're starting with their marketing department. And to me, that's like cutting off your own arm. I don't understand that because they're the lifeblood. If you don't have marketing and new clients coming in or marketing to repeat clients, just game over, just throw in the towel. And so marketing is so vitally important. There are many things that are important, but marketing, in my opinion, is one of the most important. And along those terms, Tim, for you, what has been one of your most successful forms of marketing? Like how do you build a successful customer base? What's working for you right now?

Timothy McNeely:
Yeah, great question. I think the thing that matters most ,right and this is any industry, right? When you are building your customer base, you have to be focused on one thing. How do you solve your customers problems? Right. You solve problems. And the more you solve problems and then clearly communicate, that's the other thing, right? If you use all sorts of crazy, esoteric language, you're going to lose people. But if you solve problems and communicate clearly, you're going to build a fantastic customer base. And to take it even one level deeper, this is the most recent research project I was involved in with John Boeing and Russ Allen Prince. Who are some of the best of the best when it comes to private wealth is Russell's newest book and John's newest book is called Everyone Wins. And the more you can create scenarios where everyone walks away a winner, the more you're going to win too.

Brian Kelly:
Totally agree. Leaving you hanging there for a microsecond. That was fun. Yeah. And when you go to actually market, do you have any, like, platforms or specific ways about bringing - other than coming on shows like this, which I think is genius. And everyone should do more of this. Whether it's a live TV show like this, a video or podcast that is a proven marketing avenue. And look, what is Tim doing right now? Is he selling anything? It doesn't appear so. He's providing value. And in the process of providing value, inherently he's selling. But not like coming out and say, hey, let me tell you what I got. Let me open my jacket. Show me my watches and my trinkets and things. He's doing so in a very professional and high value manner, which this is natural to him. He's not one of those snake oil salesman type people. And that's the cut time. This is the kind of approach to model is where I'm going with all this. For those of you watching/listening is model what Tim is doing and appear on other shows and provide value because, you know, just talking to him a half hour before I was asking him, what does he do? He he piqued my interest, you know, with this new concept to me. Virtual family office then I said "holy moly, what is that?" And just started peppering with questions. And I truly appreciate you answering all those questions and fielding those because that provided value to me. Okay, here's another. I think it's a question, yes, ArmorGames dot Com, thanks for coming on. "High net worth individuals like working with the best. I love the idea of the team aspect. How do we know the team you've assembled is top tier?" Good question.

Timothy McNeely:
I would tell you to go Google them. It's that simple.

Brian Kelly:
Sweet. And how would they know where that team is to go? Google them, would they need to connect with you first?

Timothy McNeely:
Yeah. If they want some of the names, they can go look up the professionals themselves. I would tell you. Go vet them. I've had spent a an entire process where the professionals I work with, they get vetted. And if they don't have philosophical alignment, then they're out. I don't care how good they are. And when it comes to the vetting process, you know, there's some interesting things because sometimes the best of the best people, they're not responsive. You can't get a call back from them. And if they're not responsive, they're out. If they don't have the client first and center, they're out. If they are not a leader, they're out. So.

Brian Kelly:
Well, this would be a good time to segue over and if they want to know and find out who these people are, they could reach out to you and get that list, correct?

Timothy McNeely:
And I would tell you, look at the coauthors of becoming seriously wealthy. Look up, Russ Alan Prince. Look-Up, John Bowen and a Russ works with billionaires all day long. That's where the research comes from. When it comes to private wealth, there's really no one better than John Bowen. These are the best of the best. And I've got him on retainer and consult with them regularly.

Brian Kelly:
There you go.

Timothy McNeely:
Right, surround yourself with good people.

Brian Kelly:
Sweet. Russ Alan Prince. John Bowen Jr., oh there's this forward by a really cool guy, Tim McNeely, in this book. Yes. And yeah, we want to give you the ability to get a copy of this book. And I guess, you know, since we're here, let's just go for it and do it right now. One of the gifts that Tim has given away to everyone who was watching right now or listening is a copy of the book. It's a free book. You just pay shipping. It's nine ninety five, 10 bucks to get more information about this, to actually get a deeper understanding of these individuals that he's talking about. What better way than to read the words they've written and then get it in a very deep level? So to do that, we have a website that I have cued up, I think. And there it is. You want to go to this website address is W-W-W-.LifeStoneCo. I guess that's for company LifeStoneCo.com/becoming-seriously-wealthy. And I'll drop it in the comments. It will show up on most social media platforms so that you can all just click the link. And go straight to it. There it is on its way. So go click that link and grab a copy of that book. Ten dollars for. That's not that's no investment of any kind. That's a small investment for massive value. If you've been watching any part of this show, you know that to be true. Ten dollars is - my goodness. If you're not willing or able to spend ten dollars, then there's another issue that needs to be probably looked at. And I'm not here to preach or shame anybody. Just get the book. Just get the book. And then change your life. I'm getting the book myself, so definitely. More books to read. I can't wait to get it out. What else do we want to talk about here? We have three minutes. Good Lord. What happened? So-

Timothy McNeely:
It went fast, didn't it?

Brian Kelly:
It always does, especially when you're having fun and I'm having a blast. I tell you. Absolute blast.

Timothy McNeely:
Let's talk briefly about how to achieve long term success. Cause I think my answer to blow your mind.

Brian Kelly:
All right. Let's do it quick.

Timothy McNeely:
The best way you achieve long term success is by doing the ordinary and the mundane. You show up every day, you set your vision, and then you just implement it little, by little, by little. And so often, right, we think we're gonna have this magical experience. And overnight you'll be a success. Now it's a long road and you've got to do the ordinary and mundane day in and day out.

Brian Kelly:
Consistently, persistently stacking the rocks.

Timothy McNeely:
Yep.

Brian Kelly:
I love it. I love it.

Timothy McNeely:
There's a song by Sarah Grose called Setting Up the Pins, and that is the entrepreneurial song about a man at a bowling alley setting up the pins just to knock them back down.

Brian Kelly:
That's right. Yes. I can't agree more Digs By Dan, "I'll have to check it out. Hard to beat a free book." Yes. Just pay shipping and handling that, is it? They've got to cover their costs. And so. Yeah, definitely. Go after that. Hey, I promised everyone that before we signed off. And by the way, there's one more question that I am going to ask Mr. McNeely. And it is one of my favorite questions I ask every guest that's been on the show. And it's a personal question, yet extremely powerful. And I can't wait to hear Tim's response to it. But before we do that, I did promise that everyone that stay with us live to the end. It's now that time that I would give you a way to win five nights, stay at a five star luxury resort in Mexico, compliments of TheBigInsiderSecrets.com. You see their logo up there. I'll put their little cool banner on the bottom. And here it is. What you now. We now give you permission, Tim and I, to now take out your phone, which I used to have sitting right next to me. But imagine that's in my hand. Tim's got one right there. Beautiful. And what you want to do is pull up your messaging app. I can say it. I can talk. And here's what you do. You want to text the word PEAK to the number 661-535-1624. So in other words, where you would put the name of the individual you want to text, you type in the number 661-535-1624. And then where you want to actually type in your message, maybe throw some emojis in, instead of doing that, just type in the word peak P-E-A-K and then tap the little send the icon and you will automatically, instantly be entered to win this phenomenal, phenomenal prize. Again, sponsored by TheInsiderSecrets.com. Incredible people, great friends of mine. I love them dearly and appreciate that they're sponsoring and providing this for us. We give this away every single show. And I hope you win. Every one of you. Only one of you is going to win. But I wish you all one. Well, we'll pick it randomly. You'll be notified via text. It will come back to you and we'll get your additional information and get you in the system so you can go grab that vacation stay of your dreams. I can't wait to see who wins that.

And so coming back to the man, the myth, the legend, Mr. Timothy J. McNeely. Ahh the question. Now, here's the thing, Tim. It is a personal question, but it doesn't go into your personal business. It's just personal because it's unique to you and your response. So, regarding your response, there is no such thing as a wrong answer. Just so you know that. It doesn't exist. It's exactly the opposite. The only correct answer is yours, again, because it's unique to you. So now that you're, like, probably going crazy, like, what the heck is this question? Are you ready?

Timothy McNeely:
I am ready. Bring it on.

Brian Kelly:
All right, here we go. Timothy J. McNeely. How do you define success?

Timothy McNeely:
Success is being able to build an amazing life of significance, so that you can take care of the people you love, the causes you care about, and make that impact in the world.

Brian Kelly:
Bang! Boom! Right between the eyes. Immediately, quickly. I love that. I love asking that question because every person reacts differently. I've done over a hundred shows and no two people have answered exactly the same way. Is that amazing?

Timothy McNeely:
My other answer would be 42.

Brian Kelly:
I love it. Yes, that's a good one. Oh man. Yeah, that is the secret to success if people only knew about 42.

Timothy McNeely:
Yes.

Brian Kelly:
But the one thing I noticed in every answer I've gotten so far, none of them were money centric. Not a single one. It's not about like when I make my first 10 million or five million or one million or whatever. It's never their top part of their priority or definition of success. And underline. Yes, money is part of that. We discussed that earlier. But every one to a person is more about serving others. And, you know, to serve more like we talked about earlier, it is important that each and every of my wonderful guest experts that have come on make an absolute killing when it comes to income and wealth so that they can serve others, especially like in Tim's case, what he's doing is he's taking his wealth and helping you to create your wealth.

Brian Kelly:
Is that amazing? It's like a direct transfer.

Timothy McNeely:
It's a fun partnership. And well, you go back to the greatest commandment. Love God and love others.

Brian Kelly:
Yes, I love it. And I've loved this show. This has been phenomenal. Tim, do you have any parting words or words of advice for our wonderful listeners and viewers before?

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Tim McNeely is the CEO of The LifeStone Companies and consults with driven business leaders and select professionals. He can help you optimize your financial world so you can grow your wealth and confidentially take care of the people you love, the causes you care about, and change the world for the better.


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So, here's the big question. How are entrepreneurs like us, who have been hustling and struggling to make it to success, who seem to make it one step forward, only to fall two steps back. Who are dedicated, determined, and driven. How do we finally break through and win? That is the question, and this podcast will give you the answers. My name is Brian Kelly, and this is The MIND BODY BUSINESS Show.

Brian Kelly:
Hello, everyone, and welcome, welcome, welcome to The MIND BODY BUSINESS Show. Super excited for tonight's show. We have not just one, not two, not three, but four, four amazing guest experts who are joining me tonight right here on this very stage.

Brian Kelly:
They are waiting in the wings at this moment. So let's get busy. Shall we? The MIND BODY BUSINESS Show, that is a show about what I call the three pillars of success, and that came about as a result of my study of only successful people in the last decade or so. And these patterns kept bubbling to the top and those patterns being mine, which is mindset set. Each and every successful person, to a person, had a very powerful and flexible mindset. So I learned that and said," I need to implement that". Then body: body is about literally taking care of yourself. Through nutrition and through exercise, exercising on a regular basis, and again that was another pattern of very successful people and in business. These successful people had mastered the skill-sets that were necessary to create, maintain, and grow a thriving business. They're wide and varied. It's like marketing, sales, team-building, systematizing. It goes on and on and on, leadership. There's no one person, in my humble opinion, that could master every single one of these. All you have to do is master just one, and I actually mentioned one of those. It was in that list. I don't know if anyone caught that, but if you master just one of those skill sets then you're good to go. That skill set is leadership. When you've mastered the skill set of leadership, you can then delegate those skills off to people who have those skill sets. See where I'm going? Good. That's what successful people do; the ones that I studied, anyway, over the course of about 10 years. That's what this show's about. It's a show for entrepreneurs by entrepreneurs. I got four guests waiting, and I'm not going to wait any longer. So, I think we should just bring them on. What do you think? Let's do it.

Narrator :
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Brian Kelly:
And there they all are. These amazing, beautiful guests on The MIND BODY BUSINESS Show. How are you all doing? Altogether, too. That was phenomenal, I love that. So real quick. All of you, I hope you don't mind for just a moment. I want to do some housekeeping? I wanted to mention to everyone watching here live. If you stay with us till the end, you can win a five night stay at a five star luxury resort. All compliments of our friends at The big insider secrets dotcom. You see them flying by on the bottom of the screen right now. It's an amazing, amazing vacation stay. Stay until the end, and you'll learn how you can enter to win that wonderful prize. We also have this. If you're struggling with putting on a live show, and it's overwhelming and you want a lot of the processes done for you while still enabling you to put on a high-quality show. And connect with great people like the ones we have tonight, and to grow your business all at the same time, then head on over to carpet bomb marketing dotcom. Carpet bomb marketing, saturate the marketplace with your message. One of the key components that is contained in the carpet bomb marketing courses, and this is one that you'll learn how to absolutely master, is the very service we use to stream our live shows right here on The MIND BODY BUSINESS Show. Over the course of the past, now it's over nine years, we have tried many of these, "TV studio solutions" for live streaming. I'll tell you right now, Stream Yard is the best of the best. It combines supreme ease of use along with unmatched functionality. So, go ahead. You can start streaming high-quality, professional live shows for free. Yes, I said it. For free, with Stream Yard right now. Visit this website, and do this after the show over. Take notes while the show is going. So write this down R-Y-P dot I-M forward-slash stream live. R-Y-P dot I-M forward-slash stream live. Fantastic. Now let's get to the real fun, and the fun is these amazing people. Dylan, Julie, Tim, Christian. How are you all doing tonight? Thank you for being on this amazing show. Yes. So, what I'd like to do is open it up. Let the folks get to know you just a little bit now. Ok, guys. We're talking sixty seconds or less. All right. Just lay it low here, but we'll just go and order. I usually go ladies first, but let's just go around the circle. It's easier for me who's running the show. So. That's what's important. Right? So, let's start with Dylan Shinholser. Go ahead. Take it away. Give us a little brief background about you, what you do, and your business.

Dylan Shinholser:
Yeah, absolutely. So like I said, my name is Dylan Shinhoser. I own a couple of different businesses. I'm owner of a company called, "Experience Events", which is event management. I'm also a director of business development at a virtual event, event ticketing, and virtual event platform called, "ViewStub". As well as a co-host of another show called, "Event Masters", where I just ramble all day, every day about how to produce better experiences. It's really all I know and love to do is events. That is my less than 60-second pitch about myself.

Brian Kelly:
That's a good one, too. I'll tell everybody I've spoken with you in person. We had a call some time ago, and this gentleman, Dylan, is made of integrity and great character. So, reach out to him if you need any assistance in any of the areas he talked about, or if you just want to say hi to a really great guy. Then get in contact with him, and at the end of the show, we'll go through that. Please. Somebody remind me if I forget how to contact each of you. Because that's very important to me. This is the reason I bring this show to the forefront. (It) is to bring people like you into the lives of those who may not know who you are yet, and even those that do, to experience even more of your brilliance, your experience, your knowledge, and your value. It's not about me. This is about you. Always, always. Every time. I have one guest, usually. I just feel like I'm in this big family right now. But let's keep moving. Julie Riley, amazing young woman. Take it away.

Julie Riley:
Yes. So, I am Julie Riley. I am the social media manager at StreamYard. The platform we're using right now. Prior to my time with StreamYard, I owned my own marketing agency. I've been in digital marketing since two thousand and seven. So the very, very early days of the start of it is when I jumped in(to) digital marketing, and I love just being able to help others succeed in their business.

Brian Kelly:
Fantastic, and I will also say that I have spoken with Julie in the past. Both through a typewritten chat form and verbally. I think it was Clubhouse first time, which was phenomenal. Yet another phenomenal person, incredible integrity, and character. And yes, you're going to notice there's a pattern about this with the remaining two. It's the same thing. Hopefully, we can get the last one to talk a little bit. That will be nice. I'm just having fun because we were having fun before the show started. The one smiling. The biggest down there with the green hood; not pointing anyone out or anything. Thank you, Julie, for coming on. Yes. These people, Julie and Christian specifically, I know Christians coming up here in second. They're non-stop. They don't stop working. It's evident because of the very software research we're using right now. It's of grand quality for a reason. It's because of people like Julian Christian who keep everything rolling smoothly on the back end. Dylan's there nodding his head emphatically because he gets it. It's a lot of work, and they're doing it masterfully and we appreciate you. All right. Enough of the favoritism here that felt like favoritism. Julie's our favorite. Timothy McNeely! My buddy, my friend from just a little north of where I reside. I believe. If I remember.

Timothy McNeely:
Central California, baby. Bakersfield. Yeah, my name is Tim McNeely. Today, so many dentists and driven entrepreneurs are just not sure if they're getting advice that really makes a difference for them. They may have a financial adviser who is giving them some advice on their investment portfolio, but they're not really sure that they're on the right track to really maximize their net worth outside of their business. That's what I help them do. Maximize your net worth so that you can keep taking care of the people you love, support the causes you care about, really make that difference in the world, and build an amazing life of significance. I love doing streaming because I get to talk to some of the best of the best out there and share the knowledge with the beautiful entrepreneurial community.

Brian Kelly:
I'll tell you something on a personal note as well. Literally, we talked earlier today, Tim and I, on a Zoom call. He just reached out to me and said, "let's catch up." I had him on the show some time ago as a single, solo guest, and he was phenomenal. We've just kind of maintained a relationship, a friendship ever since. He just wanted to reach out and say, "Hi" and "What's up? What do you want to talk about?" We just started talking about business and things. He gave me resources that will help me in my business, and hopefully, I reciprocated it somehow. I don't know if I did, but it is the people like Tim, like Julie, like Dylan, like Christian. That is the cloth that they are all cut from. They are here to help people. That's why I love entrepreneurs. I love all of you. I mean it. I do. I love you. You guys are amazing. I didn't even get a crack at a Christian on that one. Jeez, I mean... there we go. That's a little better, but I'm telling you, he's working on StreamYard our stuff right now as we're on the show. I mean, I'm.

Christian Karasiewicz:
I'm really trying not to, seriously.

Brian Kelly:
The founder Geige Vandentop. If you ever watch this, there's a message to you. Ease up on your people. Alright? Just having fun. Alright, Timothy, you're an amazing guy. Thank you for spending your valuable time and coming on here. As well as Dylan, Julie, and the ever so talkative one, Christian. I'm not going to attempt to say your last name. I'll let you take care of that one. Welcome to the show, Christian. Let's hear all about your brilliance.

Christian Karasiewicz:
Sure. Thanks a lot for having me. My name is Christian Kerasiewicz. I'm the content marketing manager at StreamYard. So, pretty much anything you see on our blog that we're going to soon be launching. I'm the mastermind behind that. So, I do that. In addition to that, I also host live stream reviews, a YouTube show. We also do on the StreamYard YouTube channel where we invite people on to talk about their live streams and help them work through some of their problems, some of their challenges that they might be having with getting community or building a show. Thanks a lot for having me. I appreciate it.

Brian Kelly:
Oh, my gosh. Thank you again, Christian, for your time and being here. I mean, he's literally building a blog while on a live show. I mean, that's a great thing. I'm not even kidding with this one. That is phenomenal. That is showing such dedication. So, it's more than that. It's passion. It's love. You know? What time is that where you are, Christian?

Christian Karasiewicz:
About 9 o'clock, or yeah... about 9 o'clock.

Brian Kelly:
(Nine o'clock) PM. Ladies and gentlemen, in case you're watching this recording. Yes. By the way, I'm going to be on twenty-five different platforms after this is over. So no pressure, but don't mess up. I'm just kidding. So, this is a phenomenal group of people, and I can't wait to dig in. Christian, just what you just said, what you do is right down the alley of what I was hoping to talk about tonight. It'll go organically, but I wanted to talk about... I mean, look at Julie, and look at Christian, and look at their images. Look at their video. It is gorgeous. Here, we'll start with a really gorgeous one first. Look at that. I mean. If there were nose hairs that weren't in place, we'd see them. That's phenomenal, and there is Julie. Wow. Very beautiful. Even more beautiful. I should just have her up like this all the time, and we can just talk in the background. Because, you know, maybe more people would come on. So, you guys have phenomenal camera setups, and here's one thing I always like to preach to those who are getting into the live streaming game. Does it take money? Yes, it does. It takes resources. It takes cameras, microphones, (a) computer, internet, good internet, fast internet, lighting, doesn't have to be fancy. What I always say though, is, do the best you can with the resources you currently have. OK, I wanted to start it off that way because what we're about to talk about with Julie and Christian is their cameras. They are top of the line. We're not talking a one-hundred or two-hundred-dollar webcam here. I like to let ladies go first. So, Julie, do you have a story when you first turned on your new camera versus when you had the webcam and what that looked like and felt like.

Julie Riley:
Oh, my gosh, I turned that camera on, and it was immediately noticeable (the difference). I actually did a live on my personal Facebook page where I logged myself in as a second user into StreamYard. I had my Logitech camera that I had been using up as a camera and then had my new one. So, I could do back and forth and show everybody the difference between the two. What an upgrade that was. The Logitech served me great for years. It didn't stop me from going live, but that upgrade was immediately like, "oh, I can never go back down now".

Brian Kelly:
So, that so that is one thing. Let's say you're on the road, and I can imagine at some point both you and Christian, maybe, you'll be sent on the road to maybe support conventions and things that are on the road. Now, you want to stream live, what are you going to do then?

Julie Riley:
Well, you know, the great thing about the Sony is (that) it's a small camera. Tripods, portable ones, are small. I can take it with me. If all else fails, and I'm either on my phone or I'm on my little webcam or even my built in webcam, it's not going to stop me from going live. Is it going to be exactly what I want? No, but more than likely I'll have the Sony with me.

Brian Kelly:
Thank you for saying that. I mean, that spoke such volumes. I hope people are taking notes that are watching. Definitely take notes on this. Because, look, the show must go on. That's what I say, and this show tonight is the result of a guest who unfortunately was ill and could not make it on. So, I scrambled and found these four wonderful people to say, "I'll come on and do a panel with you." And that's it. The show must go on, and I'm going to either do it with people or I'll do it solo. It doesn't matter. Consistency is key, and we can talk more about that, too. I love how you're just talking about, Julie. Where, look, I don't care where I'm at. If I've got something and it's my time to go live, and I don't have my gear. I'm doing it.

Julie Riley:
Right.

Brian Kelly:
I love that commitment. So, thank you for that. For everyone listening, that's important. Yes, quality is important. Like I said, do the best you can with what resources you currently have. That includes, wherever you are. You may have a DSL camera that Julie paid five-hundred thousand dollars for. Oh, sorry, it wasnt that much.

Julie Riley:
Thank God it wasnt that much!

Brian Kelly:
What was the model of that again?

Julie Riley:
A6000.

Brian Kelly:
What does it run about?

Julie Riley:
It was about seven hundred.

Brian Kelly:
OK, not too bad. A little bit less than five-hundred thousand. Not much but yeah.

Julie Riley:
Yeah.

It's a phenomenal thing, and I love that that's your attitude toward commitment. I'll tell you. You have a similar attitude...anytime I go and ask for support through the back side of StreamYard community. I mean, like through messaging. When I say the backside, that's sounded weird. When I ask for support, you're always there. I mean, you don't sleep, and I appreciate that. So, keep not sleeping for everybody's sake. Christian, you do the same. So, Christian, what about you? When you made that initial change from whatever camera you had before to this unbelievably clear one year look you're working with right now. What did that feel like the moment you saw a difference?

Christian Karasiewicz:
So, it's very interesting actually. So, this is actually what I was using before. I've been using this for quite a number of years. This is a Logitech Brio. It does do 4K. I invested in this one and eventually came out, and the quality was fantastic. The only thing was, though. I wanted to scale. So this was great for traveling, for example. This is what I took around with me. Super portable. It's got the ability to put it on a tripod. Fantastic, but it did not allow me to scale, so I had to always take up another USB port and all that sort of thing. When I moved to the Sony, the Sony looked very good. I will say the one thing you have to do, though, is you need to go through the settings. There are a few adjustments you want to change. That's what's going to actually enhance your picture quality of it. It's a fantastic camera. It's a Sony 6400. Then, really, the other side to it is also the lens. So I'm using a Sigma lens. So, that I think is the real big difference. I mean you have the kit lenses it comes with. I did make the investment in the the additional lens, which I think that's actually what's contributing to why it looks so good. I will say from a quality standpoint, again, start with what you have. You know, the key things for live streaming. Audio is going to be your most important part. Then also, if you, for example, are using one of these webcams, make sure you have enough light. These things look great with a lot of light. When you don't have a lot of light, you're going to see pixelation. You're going to see distortion and things like that. So, turn it back to you.

Brian Kelly:
Especially with light, if you turn on the green screen feature, you really need to have good lighting then. That's the biggest time. I'm so glad to be liberated from that. Even though I loved it. This is actually a natural well behind me. I painted the entire studio. I actually occupy my daughter's former bedroom. I've been here for four or five years now, and I finally got rid of the cartoon drawings and the yellow paint. I'm a real boy now. I have a real studio. This is awesome.

Christian Karasiewicz:
That looks really good by the way. I was very surprised (by) your background because that looks like one of the standard backgrounds people would normally bring up during a live stream. One that has, you know, the gradient going around the outside. So, whoever did the painting on that fantastic job.

Brian Kelly:
Why, thank you very much. My wife did most of the work to be honest, but I feel like that helps with that. Yeah.

Timothy McNeely:
If you want that comparison between cameras. Right. Christine was just talking about the Logitech Brio. That's what I'm on, and you can see the massive quality difference between Kristen and Julie versus the webcam. So. Right. (A) huge step up.

Brian Kelly:
Yeah, we'll point that out in glowing detail right now.

Christian Karasiewicz:
You're using a green screen. Right?

Timothy McNeely:
Yeah.

Brian Kelly:
Your sound, Christian, is smooth. I mean, you have a great radio voice. Having that microphone, I think will pivot to that too. Dylan, what are your thoughts on cameras? Yours looks actually really decent right now? You're on (a) green screen, correct?

Dylan Shinholser:
Correct. Yeah.

Brian Kelly:
It looks really clean. You've done a good job with all the lighting. It's almost like you've done this before, and you know what you're doing.

Dylan Shinholser:
I try. Yeah. So, I actually when I first started doing it, I started listening back on my phone. When this whole pandemic hit, I was using the one inside your laptop and realized very quickly (that) I'm on calls all day, live streaming shows and stuff. I was like, "I got to set my game up." So, I haven't made that leap yet to the DSLR, but I will. I'm on a Logitech, one of the models. I won't even lie because I'm not that tech-savvy. It was expensive for Logitech, so I bought it. I was like, "it's got to work." So, yeah. So, that's where I'm at. I agree heavily. I think it comes down to, because we get asked it and I know you guys get asked, it comes down to what you can afford at the moment. Then always trying to push the limits of production value. Right? My background was a wall. It was just like random yellow wall, and now I have a giant green screen wallpaper now. So, now, I can be wherever I want which is a concert. That's where I want to be, and that's where I'm going to be.

Brian Kelly:
You're the one on the stage, brother. Not the audience.

Dylan Shinholser:
No, I'm actually the guy behind the stage. I never want to be this. It's actually weird for me to be in front of people. I'm the guy behind the stage telling people to get on the stage.

Brian Kelly:
Pushing them forward. Well, you do a good job, Dylan. I wouldn't know any different. Maybe your calling is to step out from behind and be on front more often.

Dylan Shinholser:
We will see. Twenty twenty-one has a lot of stuff, and I've got a long way to go. I got super bored in twenty-twenty so I might as well talk.

Brian Kelly:
I've gotten to know you a little bit over time, and you've got a great personality. I think you need to shine in front of more people. That's my humble opinion.

Dylan Shinholser:
I appreciate that.

In the front, not behind the scenes. It's okay to be behind the scenes on occasion, but someone like you with your personality and your integrity, your character...get out there, buddy. It's a disservice if we don't get to see you. Let me put it that way.

That's what a mentor of mine said. He was like, "dude, you're actually being selfish by not talking more and getting it out." Because like I said at the beginning, I only want to help more people create better experiences and events. Make them flow better and make them more money as humanly possible. At the end of the day, I just want to travel the world with cool people and do cool things. I've learned a lot, and a lot of people need some of that experience. So, I got a stern talking to by one of my mentors. He was like, "dude..." I was like, "alright, it's alright. I promise." I started live streaming then had to get better cameras, better lights going on. It's crazy up here in my little command center of all these different lights, webcams, and monitors. Everything you need to do to pull these shows off.

Brian Kelly:
Yeah, I love it. Christian, go ahead.

Christian Karasiewicz:
So, I want to throw something in there real quick. We talked about various types of cameras. If you're just getting started, use that built-in laptop, the webcam. So then you can take it up a notch. You can go to the Logitech. The C922. That's about, I think, a 60 to 70 dollar webcam. So, don't overpay by the way. It's about 60 to 70 dollars. Get it from Logitec, probably. If you find an astronomical price on Amazon, move up to like the Brio, for example. If your budget allows it, that's about one hundred fifty dollar camera. Then move up to a DSLR. For example, Julie's got that, the Sony 6000. I would also say if you happen to have a smartphone, this can be used as a webcam. Essentially, if you think about it, this is a thousand dollar camera. Because you paid a thousand dollars for this device of sorts, and this will give you some phenomenal picture quality. If you already have a smartphone and you don't have to have the latest iPhone, it could be pretty much any iPhone and Android phone. You just need an app such as one called,"Camo." There's one called,"Erion." So, there are lots of apps out there. Don't think like, "hey, I have to now go drop a bunch of money." Look at the phones you have lying around. Those are going to be great ways to fix your picture quality.

Julie Riley:
I've been going live since 2015, and I only had this camera last year.

Brian Kelly:
That's it. You keep reinvesting. I had a good friend of mine who were business partners. He said, I'll never forget it,"sales drive service". When you're making money, you're able to invest. You're able to up your game, and I love that. So many great points. You can just set a phone on a tripod and your camera will look better than many people's webcams. For sure. One of the things that I would recommend, this isn't just a plug StreamYard, is to get at least get the free plan. Do they need any more than the free plan to be part of the community, Julie?

Julie Riley:
No. They can come to join the community even if they're just getting started into streaming. We do like everybody to have the free plan so they have an understanding, but we'll still let you in. Agree to the rules. That's the big thing. Yeah, come join the StreamYard community. It's really a "stream yard" community.

Brian Kelly:
It's a very valuable place because questions like what Christian just addressed are often asked (What do I need?). I'm just starting. I'm a newbie. I see that so much in there. What can you do to help with a camera or microphone or computer? You can go there if you have those questions and ask, and the community will fill in the blanks wonderfully well because they're a great bunch of people. Just like Tim down there who's gotten pushed to the side for a while. So, Tim, is this your first camera that you've been using for live streaming so far? Did you have one before it?

Timothy McNeely:
Yeah, right. I started with just an HD one. Right. Logitech and then jumped up to the Brio. Been happy with that so far. But, you know, it's interesting how the game keeps growing again. That's the thing, right? Just get started! Just do this. I started with just using zoom and recording those for my interviews, and then I realized (that) I need a better platform. I need a way to kind of do that live production. Now I'm doing Stream Yard and got intros. Just get started with whatever you've got and kind of build that proof of concept. You know, I recently just upgraded my lights because I bought the cheapest lights I could at first. I just wanted to do something, and done is better than not done a lot of times.

Brian Kelly:
I totally agree with everything you just said and like what Christian was saying. If you're going to put money into anything, make it the audio side of things first when you upgrade. I was fortunate. I started over nine years ago streaming live. This is a DSLR. Not a DSLR. Good grief, XLR microphone. It's old school. It's not even USB. So I plug it into a mixer board, and from there into my computer. I've used it for years. It's been just amazing. I've never had to do anything with my sound as a result. For you, there are great USB alternatives now. Oh my gosh, there are so many out there. Someone like Christian could probably point you in the right way. Someone like the StreamYard community could push you in the right way and tell you,"these are the ones". I have a connection with the guy who is a sound expert. I've never heard of this before. He has a studio that does 4D sound. I don't even know what that means. Four dementional?

Christian Karasiewicz:
Sweet.

I don't know what that means, audibly. He was telling me about speakers in the ceiling. I'm like, holy moly,. You don't need that obviously for a talk show like this, but think about the possibilities and have fun with it. The bottom line is, when you go on and go live. Enjoy yourself. I'm trying to do that a little bit with these fine people tonight. Thankfully, they're still here with me. I haven't upset them too great, especially Christian. I keep picking on him. Poor guy. I appreciate you all, and it's okay to have fun on your show. Would you guys agree with that? Is it okay to have a little bit of fun?

Julie Riley:
One hundred percent. If you're having fun, your audience is going to be having fun with you.

If you're not having fun... I don't believe in doing anything that I don't find fun. It's a life motto of mine. If I don't want to do it, I don't want to do it. Yeah. Like you said, Julie. If you're not having fun with it, then how in the world do you expect the viewers to want to have fun or engage or interact? It starts with you.

Brian Kelly:
Absolutely, absolutely. One of the things I wanted to pivot to is something I'm deeply interested in because the product that came up earlier when I did the quick ads spot. I like to solve the pain points that people are having in their live streaming experiences. I'm curious. I'll bet, Julie and Christian, you guys have seen and heard a lot about that. I actually had a team member of mine from my company put a poll up in the form of a meme, a graphic. What's the right word? I am having trouble with words these days. It's an infograph. That's it. Simple. I was a little bit shocked by the result, but I was just curious what you guys think. What are the biggest pain points you're seeing? (Either) that you're having individually. Tim, if you have that as well. Dylan as well. Dylan, you probably hear about a bunch of it as well. What are the pain points you are seeing come back over and over and over again? I'm having a horrible time trying to find another guest on my show if they're interview style, or the tech is just blowing my mind. Even though StreamYard is so simple. I'm having trouble with x, y, z. Let's just go around the horn. Dylan, if you don't mind, I put you on the spot. Can you think of any of those pain points that keep coming up over and over again?

Dylan Shinholser:
Yeah, absolutely. The biggest thing I see is they underestimate what it does take. I totally agree. Why I promote StreamYard to our clients and everyone I possibly can is because of the ease of use. People go into it and think shows are just like setting up the webcam, and they can be. Setting up the webcam and just talking. Right? There's a lot of back end stuff to this. These shows and I'm learning that as doing my own now. I'm like, holy cow, I'm about to hire fifteen people because this is absurd. But, yeah. I think that's the biggest thing that I see is underestimating it, but also at the same time, they overcomplicate it. They have to think (that) they have to have all these bells and whistles and seventeen thousand cameras and two million dollar microphones. It goes back to our first point of "just do it". It doesn't need to be overcomplicated, but understand going into it, there is some work that takes and understand that you do have to respect what it takes to put these on. At the same time, don't overcomplicate it. It's funny how people work. They overestimate or underestimate it, but then heavily overcomplicate it at the same time. I think that's the biggest one I see.

Brian Kelly:
I'm so glad you brought that up. I've said this so many times, people don't realize what goes on behind the scenes before the show even comes on live for that episode. The amount of time and effort. If you want to do a live show that's of quality and represent yourself and your brand in a way that you want it to be represented professionally. It takes a good amount of work for every single show. That's why I automated nearly every process (that) I use now. It took time to get there, but you can use a team. You can get a team. Like you said, Dylan, to also help out. For me, it's all about quality, and more time is spent before the show by far than the show itself. After the show is over, another good deal of time is spent. That is in the minor edits, the repurposing, the marketing, and everything else that goes beyond. The live show is this tiny window of time, and it's the fun is part of it by the way. When you have everything automated, the rest is not "not fun" because you're not doing it. It's all automated, but definitely great. Thank you for that. Julie, what has been some of the big p.. sorry to wake you up there. What have been some of the big pain points? You are wide awake. I just starttled you. You've seen over and over, I bet you've seen a bunch of them.

Julie Riley:
Oh, my gosh. So many, you know, especially because I'm approving all of the comments that are coming into the group. I think one of the huge ones is that the hesitation of people who believe that they have to have everything perfect. That they have to have all of the backdrops, the overlays, the banners, the super expensive microphone, and the super expensive camera. That they have it. The room behind them is messy. They haven't thought about turning to just a blank wall because they're like, "well, then I don't have a fancy studio set up." They get to this point where they're trying to create perfection, and perfection is a fairy tale. It doesn't exist. There is no such thing as perfection. There is, again, where Dylan said the overcomplicating it. They've got to really just slow down and go, "what do I need to get this process going?" What is the minimum to make it happen? From there, then I can then build on it, and build on it each week. Go, "okay, I got live. I got the first one out. I got the jitters out. I hate the way I sound." When I had my agency, I would tell my clients. They'd be like, "I can't stand the way I sound." I'm like, nobody likes the way (that) they sound. There's actually, and I say this all the time, there's a term for it that is a term for not liking the sound of your own voice. I tell people, you have to get over that fear. They're like,"I don't look good on camera, I don't know how to be on camera." The other thing I tell people is to set up a fake Facebook group with nobody else in it but you. Go live in there a bunch of times and just get those jitters out. Get that feeling of pressing the button and going live. Then invite your husband in, your sister, your mother, or whoever. Somebody so that you're talking to somebody. From there, build up each time. As we said with the cameras, again, you can you can slowly build. You can slowly add in the overlays. You can slowly add in the backgrounds.

Brian Kelly:
My goodness! I absolutely love it. I have my own Facebook group that I use just for that. Nothing more. I go in there, and I test things for StreamYard and other things in there. I go live in there because there's no substitute for going live. We've got more buttons to click, and things kind of change their arrangement just a little bit in the window. If you practiced it 20 times without going live, then you go live you're going to go, "what the heck just happened?" I don't know what I'm supposed to do now. That was perfect. Perfect advice. I love that. We've got a comment coming in or two or three. Yeah. Kelly, crucial. Kruschel. Sorry if I got that wrong.

Dylan Shinholser:
Kelly Kruschel. It's Kruschel. She said she's on my team. She's a friend. Hey, we've got a supporter.

Brian Kelly:
Love it. Love it. Then Fran Jesse, I know her. I'm getting ready to make my first video essentially input. Yeah. Reach out, Fran. We're friends. I will give you assistance in any way you want because this is the greatest this is the greatest avenue for media on the planet, in my humble opinion, for so many reasons. One is people get to see you. I love clubhouse. It's also phenomenal in different ways, but people get to see you. They get to interact with you. They can engage with you, and they get to see your essence. It doesn't cost you, the studio owner, studio time. If you do this in the old days when you have to go to a television studio and you want to do a show, it would cost you thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars just to use the studio. Let alone get the media time to put it up on a television station. We're living in wonderful times. It's the greatest time to be alive, in my humble opinion. I'm a tech geek. I'm not young anymore. I'm fifty six, but I can't wait for the rest of what my life has to hold. Yes. You're welcome, Fran. Any time. Wonderful. Wonderful. Alright. Where were we? I got all messed up and loving myself there. We're going to have fun. I'm being real. This is like... I don't know. I'm the most relaxed (that) I've been in a long time with everything that went on today. It was one of those weird, everything-going crazy days. I feel like I'm at home with you guys. That's why.

Dylan Shinholser:
It's been one of those years.

Brian Kelly:
Thank God that last one is over.

Dylan Shinholser:
Yeah, yeah. Sure.

Brian Kelly:
So, okay. Pain point. Let's go back around one more. Tim, what do you have?

Timothy McNeely:
Yeah. When I first started doing this, my whole goal was to get out there and to talk to the different experts in the different areas of the challenges that my my clients face. I started off as an interview show and just using Zoom to record the video. Then all of a sudden I had the video. Now I had to put an intro in. I had to put an exit in. I had to extract the audio so I could do the podcast. My team members and myself were spinning our wheels. Just trying to really kind of create a workflow around the creation of this content so we could get the message out and help people with their challenges. For me, all of a sudden, the revelation was (that) I can do this live. I can have people type in (and) ask comments as I'm doing the show. Not only that, from start to finish, I can produce the whole thing going live. Right? You go live. You can play an intro now. You can throw in little commercial breaks. You can throw in the outro, and then it's done. Download the audio. You throw it up, and now you've got your podcast. You don't have to upload video to YouTube and Facebook and LinkedIn. It's done for you now, automatically. So really my biggest pain point was just the production side of things and putting everything together so that I could keep talking to people and doing the fun part. Right? I don't want to get caught up in all the details of making this. I want to talk to people, learn, and share that knowledge. Really, a lot of the pain point, just using StreamYard has really been absolved because it's a turn-key easy to use platform.

Brian Kelly:
Amen to all of that brother. Here's the key for everyone that's ever going to do a live show or has done one. The most important part is that you show up and you be the talent. That means you need to be dedicated mentally toward what the task is at hand. If I have too many things going on, like production-wise, which I used to when I didn't automate things. That's in the back of my mind. Did I dot every "i"? Did I cross every "t"? What's going to screw up on this show? Versus showing up fully for my guest. Being there for them. Getting out of myself and my own business and being present for the other person, that's what I'm about. Lifting up the other people, that's what my show's about. It's important to me.

Timothy McNeely:
Actually, if I can touch on that talent piece, Brian? I think he brought something up so important for everyone listening to this. If you're doing any kind of a show where you're interviewing people, chances are (that) the person you're talking to (is) a little bit uncomfortable. Your job, as the talent, is to spend some time before the show really crafting what it's going to look like. What direction are you going to go in? You want to make that person you're talking to look like a star. The more you can rehearse with them and put them at ease, you're going to end up with a much, much better show. Because you've taken a little bit of time to make sure that (the) other person is going to shine just as bright as you do. So, take that time to work with your guests beforehand through interview guides, through little questionnaires. So that you can help prep them, to keep them on a thread, and you can really help them deliver their message. Most people are not trained professional speakers. They just aren't. I've hired some of the best speaking coaches to help me develop messages, stay on topic, and learn how to tell stories. People don't invest time, energy, and effort to do that. You can help them do that through a briefing before you start your live with them.

Brian Kelly:
Yeah. That's why I was saying before, I do a thirty-minute preshow. All of us were on here for 30 minutes getting to know each other, making sure all the tech was good, doing some checkout. You were talking about people being nervous and stuff. That's why I'm riding Christian so hard with all these jokes and stuff because it broke his nervousness. You can see his sweating. I am so kidding. This guy's raw. He's a rock. He's awesome. He's a pro. I love this guy, man. I always pick on the quiet ones. I don't know why that is. Christian, man, you're bringing massive value. All kidding aside, you're very experienced. You're matched for what you do. You've said already so many amazing things. What about you, brother?

Christian Karasiewicz:
I'd say this. I think a couple of the pain points. I think one is people want to ask, "how do I get better at my live stream?" I think (that) the first thing is practice. To Julie's point, I think you mentioned having overlays, backgrounds, and all this other stuff. Look at it like this. You want to show your audience as well while you're helping them. You're doing this with them. You have everything at the same time, and you're trying to make everything perfect. Your audience is going to be like, "I'm not going to stick around this person because they've done such a good job already. I won't ever get to that point". They start having that self-doubt. The key thing is going to be practice. You don't have to have every single one of the overlays. Maybe start with the the intro or the thumbnail, and maybe you have an outro for example. (Those are) the first two things you do. As you build the show, then you can add segment graphics. You can add videos. So, you can scale it, but you don't have to have so much at one time because then it's just too overwhelming. That's point number one. Pain point number two is that people, for some reason, think that they're going to immediately be able to monetize their live stream. I say pain point because everybody's like, "oh, I bought all that equipment." Now, you've got to figure out how to pay for all that equipment, you know? If you're struggling already with your business and growing it, then you're not going to immediately monetize live stream. You have to have an audience. You know, you have to build that community. When you go live, they're tuning in because (of) the social platforms. They want to see that you're bringing viewers, they want to see engagement. So, point number two is monetizing your live stream. There are ways to do that, but don't always set out with monetization being number one. It could take a couple of years to monetize. So, get started. Build on it, then make those investments as your business is growing. Yes, mic drop. Yes.

Dylan Shinholser:
Do you have that mic? Just a mic drop? Because I might need to get one.

Brian Kelly:
It's actually super.

Dylan Shinholser:
Yeah, super real.

Christian Karasiewicz:
That's pretty cool, actually.

Julie Riley:
I like that.

Brian Kelly:
It's actually part of a magic trick that you put in a paper bag. It's a long story, but I found one more affordable that would not break my keyboard because that's what it landed on. You didn't hear it. Oh, my gosh. Golden nuggets there, as usual, from Christian who I give a lot of hard time to. I'm going to stop because you're amazing dude, and I don't want to get mad at me. I want you to be my friend. So many great things. So, you said two years. I was like, wow. I was watching an interview. How many of you have heard of Lewis Howes? Former professional football player and turned incredible entrepreneur. He's all over the place. He was being interviewed, and the guy interviewing him asked him a question. He said, "so, Lewis, if someone came to you, and they were talking about the fact they wanted to start a podcast. Now, we're talking just the audio version. That's what a podcast really is for everyone that may not know it's audio-only. Not video, even though they're going that way." He said, "well, here's what I'd tell them. First, you got to actually be consistent. Whenever you decide to do it, do it at that same day and that same time every week or multiple times a week. Whatever that happens to be. Number two, more importantly. You must commit yourself to doing that for at least, the magic number, two years. If they are not willing to do that, I would tell them, don't even get started." We didn't talk about monetization. None of that was discussed during this Q&A. That was telling. Who was I talking about this earlier with earlier today? It's not necessarily about monetizing. It's about building your platform, and I wanted to add to that. It took me in two years. I was just hitting that moment in time of my live show. That's when the momentum started. He was spot on, and so are you, Christian, about the two years. Then using a certain strategy (that) I use, I continually ask for referrals in a certain way. I eventually landed the one and only Les Brown. Some of you know who that is. Some of you don't. I've noticed some don't and Im like,"what rock are you living under?" He's amazing, and he's been on my show. Because of that, the two-year commitment is my point. Not talking about monetization. Then what I found after doing this for two years and striving for excellence all the time in every facet, I'm talking about the preshow communication with upcoming guests and the setup and the prep that they all go through and my system makes sure they do. The show itself and then after the show, all the post-production, everything that goes into it. Once you have that, people notice and my show, without my intending it to be, became an incredible, powerful lead magnet for my business. Focus, just as Christian was stating so properly, does definitely, positively impact your business. If you do it right. You do it high quality, and again, within reason within the resources you have. Go ahead, Christian.

Christian Karasiewicz:
I was going to say. That's another point that people look at, and they want to generate revenue off of it. That revenue may not be actual money upfront. It may end up being (help) (to) drive more leads to my website. It's not necessarily driving more people to my social channels. You're following is... It's OK. That's not going to necessarily grow your business because you had five more followers on Instagram or something like that. It's potentially getting them back to your website, which can be an opportunity for them to schedule a coaching call with you, maybe buy a product from you, learn from you for example. You're not going to get every single person to become a customer, but you're going to be able to use it to generate more leads.

Brian Kelly:
Totally, totally true.

Dylan Shinholser:
That's why I do it.

Brian Kelly:
You see on the top of this screen "streaming live on" and then five. We're doing it to eight right now or seven right now. "Listen-on" down below. On the bottom, there's actually twenty five of those like us could fit them all. Roku now was on Fire TV. Look, you're not making money from those, but here's what happened. How many of you have heard of Kevin Harrington? Shark Tank? Original Shark Tank? He has a partner named, "Seth Green", and they do a podcast together. They've been doing it for years now. They have five-hundred plus episodes. We got introduced, Seth and I. I met Kevin. We shared the stage once. I'm not name-dropping, but yes, I am. It was awesome, and it was fun. Seth reached out. We were connected by someone else. We were introduced, and Seth did his own homework. He came back, we literally talked on Zoom, and he says, "wow, I did some research. I looked you up and, my God, you're everywhere." I just wanted to say, "yeah, that's right." So, you want to get out there. That's why, shameless plug, I call it, "carpet bomb marketing". You saturate with everything you've got within reason. Right? If you can automate it, it can be near or completely free. So just do it. Why not add it to your arsenal? So, it works. Just be consistent to a minimum of two years. Get in touch with people like Julie, Christian, Tim, and Dylan. You might make that even quicker than two years. I'll direct you to the shortcuts that many of us did by trial and error.

Timothy McNeely:
Touching on the monetization piece, a good friend of mine runs one of the top coaching consultancies out there. Right. Very, very successful. Runs a great podcast, great show. I ask him one day. I said, "have you need any money doing your podcast?" He thought for a second. He says, "naw, I've actually lost money doing it. The relationships that I've made...I've made millions off (of) that." If you approach it from that standpoint... There's different goals, but I always approach, you know, what's the end result? What are you looking for out of your show? Why are you doing it? That's how you can measure the success of it. Is it helping you achieve whatever goals you set for yourself?

Brian Kelly:
Totally agree. It's very similar. Isn't it? To writing a book? I'm holding up another namedrop. Yes, it's very similar to writing your own book. Because a lot of people want to write a book and make a living off of the sales of the book. I'm sorry, ladies and gentlemen, most of the time it just doesn't happen that way. If anyone comes up to you and you're talking to them... During the course of conversation, maybe you ask them what they've been up to? Or, hey, I've authored a book. The moment they say that, in your eyes, do they not lift up in an influence in your mind? Right then and there? Instantly. It builds authority. That's exactly what this live show, and live shows like it, are doing. When you're giving evidence of it by spitting it out to all of these platforms, there's no way people can't find you and know that you're serious. You know, it's showing that you have a commitment level. It's showing that you have a quality level of professionalism. It's not about the show itself. It's like, well, if I do business with that person, or will I... Will I want to do business that person? If they're professional. Yes. If they put on a shoddy show, they might give me shoddy service. If I do business with them. Does that make sense? People want to (be) representing yourself in the best. Do it the best you can, but do it. Please, don't delay. Don't try to be perfect. You heard everybody talk. Go ahead, Dylan. You had something?

Dylan Shinholser:
Well, yeah. There's indirect ways to make money with shows, live streams, and of course direct (ways). Right. Direct is selling sponsorships, ad-space, all that good stuff. The indirect monetization is so much more powerful. When I do shows or when I hop on shows or anything, it's literally just to build a top-down awareness of myself. I just want people to know what Dylan Shinholser is. Then that way, because I do multiple things, I'm never trying to sell one product at any given time. I'm trying to sell myself, and what it does is it gives me that outlet to do it. Then if you're hosting a show. Right? This maybe goes into some other topics around how to market and things like that. It's a powerful relationship tool because when you can open your platform to other people that you're looking to connect with. I'm in the business of working with influencers and throwing their events. Well, the best way to connect was get them on my show. It gave me a reason to reach out that wasn't pitchy or sales. It was more or less. Hey, man, I just want to give you an outlet, because I think what you talk about is cool. Tell my people about it. After the show, I was like, "hey, man, what are you doing next Tuesday? I need a speaker." Or "hey, man. I have some ideas (that) I want to pitch you or (some) things. They're more receptive. So, I always do shows and things not about the direct money I get, but the indirect thing. It's the indirect impact that I get from relationships, or people sharing my stuff out and people go, oh man, he sounds semi-intelligent unless they're watching this. Then then they'll go, okay, great. Let me go over to this platform that he runs with this business that he does or whatever because he sounded halfway intelligent on that show. Right? So, I think the indirect monetization is what most people don't... They don't get that the instant gratification of like that five thousand dollars sponsorship check. When I forgo that and go on to bring on much more money on the backend with the people I connect with, in the top influence that I get.

Brian Kelly:
The magic word there was "relationship".

Dylan Shinholser:
Relationships all day, every day. That's all I do- is build relationships, and how can I do it? Do more shows like this. Can I get it out? You're on like forty-two different podcast or outlets here, right? Every one of those. Every time you put a show on it, you're building a relationship with someone on that platform. Even if it's just you talking, and they're listening. You're building that relationship. Everything (that) I do, is built on: how can I develop relationships? Live streams is just an amazing way to do so.

Brian Kelly:
Posting them is one thing. Right? That's a great thing. What I learned through a podcasting expert friend of mine is the maybe not as equally important, but possibly greater importance, is getting on other people's shows. That includes audio podcasts only. He explained how his business skyrocketed when he did what he called, "podcast guest marathons". He would have someone get him booked in his team. He would carve out three days and just say get as many as you can for me. He'd do that. Then when they ask him about how to get in contact with him... This is the gold right here... It's not go to my Facebook page and look up my name and message me. He would tell them to go to his podcast website and from there to subscribe. Now he's building a following. It's genius. It's so genius. I just want to impart that. The cool thing, though, is when you're hosting a high-quality live show that opens the door for you to be a guest on many more.

Dylan Shinholser:
Oh, yeah. Yeah, absolutely. Being a guest is what goes back to the authority building. Right? If I can build my authority, I build my influence. If I do have something to sell... If I'm trying to build my brand or whatever it is or I'm just trying to get to as many people as possible to talk about events with them... That authority I call it, "authority hacking", being able to get them on your show. That'll get your show in front of their audience, and then going on to other shows helps you develop your authority. It's like writing a book. I was I'm a guest on this show, this show, this show. It's like writing a book. Your authority starts to become a little bit more when you're leveraging their influence. Right? When you're a guest on the show, if that show has a following, you becoming a guest on that show gives you authority because now you have the validation of the host that everyone is following and love. So, I can authority hack by getting on other people's shows.

Brian Kelly:
It leverges. You have a whole new tribe watching and interacting with you as well. I mean, this is one of the most powerful things people can use. If they just get out of that rut of trying to find a way to make money with it directly, that's when they'll see the real value come through. It's about building relationships. It's long-term. Not short, quick kill. I got to make a commission and run. It's build a relationship. Establish it. If you go into this with the mindset of it not being for directly making money, I personally think you have greater success. The long-term plays always work better than the short-term. Short-term works can work, but they're temporary. The long-term is a lot more permanent and lasting. Just think of all the wonderful bread crumbs you're leaving throughout the world. Through all the venues and platforms we've been talking about. In speaking terms, if you're on stage, that's what we call a "stage swap". Where you would be a guest on someone else's stage in return for them saying, "okay, but I'm going to do the opposite." We'll have you on our as well. The same thing with podcasts and live video. It works really great. Just make sure they're a fit.

Dylan Shinholser:
They've got to fit. (It's) got to makes sense.

Brian Kelly:
Both ways. Yeah.

Christian Karasiewicz:
I want to add something real quick to that. If you are consistently going live, so it's great to be consistent, go live on a regular basis, but also think about the long game. It's a couple of years, for example. Also, don't be afraid to be making changes and adjustments as things are moving along. It's not about substituting equipment. It's about looking at your process. For example, you mentioned Brian, that you have automation on some of the things. Think of smarter ways to take bigger jumps ahead. If I have to send someone an email, and I'm like, "hey, do you want to be on my show?" Then I have to deal with the whole back and forth. Well, okay. Yeah. What time? Then I have to send everything back. There are tools out there like Calendly, Harmonizely. You can send a calendar link to somebody and they can only book a certain slot for example and vice versa. This takes out the guesswork out of having to do all that back and forth. That's a way to work smarter because now you want to book people for your show. You send them one link. The person then doesn't have to send you a message back, and you can even use it to collect feedback for your show questions. There's not a lot of back-and-forth and downtime.

Brian Kelly:
Yeah, absolutely. I do that as well, and it's a godsend. I could not do what I'm doing. I would not do what I'm doing without the automation part of it. I have an onboarding form. You guys all... Most, not all of you went through it, but that was a mini version. Julie, you went through the big version. I then changed it right after I saw that. Like you said, make adjustments. That's what I did. I'm constantly doing that. Improving. I have a document automatically generated in Google Docs with your bio. The answer you had to why you think you would bring value to the show. Also, all the questions you chose to be asked for the show. Some of you didn't see that. So everything's done. The Q&A part used to take hours and hours doing manually. Now I just give them thirty-eight questions. Choose ten, and we're good. You tick the box. You choose what I'm going to ask you. (I) just made it a system, and it has worked beautifully. I don't even use the ten questions hardly. I use maybe the first three. Then we go organically like we've been doing tonight. My God, it's six twenty-nine! Are you kidding me? I'm having too much fun. Real quick. I know everyone that came on in the beginning. You heard this thing about a prize. We're going to do that real quick, and we'll come back and wrap it up. For those of you watching, remember in the beginning I said, "take notes and don't go clicking away and stuff like that"? Now I think Dylan, Julie, Tim, and Christian will also give you permission to do what I'm saying, and that is take out your phone. Take your gaze away from us for just a moment, but you'll still have to look back. Yes, yes. You can do this too. Please, do. What I want you to do....

Dylan Shinholser:
I need a vacation.

This is how you can enter to win a five-night stay at a five-star luxury resort of your choosing. Here's what you do. Take out your message app on your phone. Fire that up- your text message app. Where you would type in the name of the person normally that you're going to text. Instead, put in this number: three, one, four, six, six five-they're all doing it behind the scenes- one, seven, six, seven. I love this. Three, one, four, six, six, five, one, seven, six, seven. If you're watching this and you're not a guest, go ahead and write this down because I gonna take the screen down. I want you to get it. This will be open until the end of the evening. Where you actually put in the message... Where you might put emojis, those kinds of things, not emojis, just two words separated by a dash or a hyphen. Those words are peak (P-E-A-K) dash Vacation (V-A-C-A-T-I-O-N). All together. No spaces. Peak vacation. Send it off, then monitor your phone. You're going to get an automated response back asking you for your email address, and that will then officially enter you into the contest. Compliments of The Big Insider Secrets. Our buddies, Jason Nash, the owner. Dear friend of mine who lets us give this away every single week. Every show, actually. We do more than one a week now on average. So go ahead, get that entered. I can't wait to see who's going to win that. You're going to be asked later, you don't have to if you're the winner, to provide your Facebook information. Just your profile so we can say congrats and give you a high-five online and get others to come watch the show. To be honest, that's another strategy. We're just rolling back the curtain. That's why we do it this way. You can offer incentives like that. My friend has offered that to anyone who is my friend. If you're not my friend, you don't get it. If you're on as part of the panel here, they're all my friends. Christian may differ on that opinion, but I think he's my friend.

Christian Karasiewicz:
I'm your friend. Yes.

Brian Kelly:
Ok, good. I picked on you so hard. I apologize, but you're just you're a fun guy. I appreciate you for putting up with it. I definitely do stuff like that. Implement it and announce it in the beginning. That helps retention. I'm just pulling back the curtain for everybody. You can do different things like that. Having multiple people, I noticed, is also a little better than just one every single time. So, mix it up now and then. Alright. I know we're a little bit over, but I want to give you each another chance for a final parting tip. Anything you want on live streaming. It could be hardware, software, how you smile, what bling you wear, don't wear, your makeup. I'm wearing some, by the way, just so the guys know. Yeah, I don't know what they call it. It's not like guy up.. guy-liner, but it's like makeup. I know. That was bad.

Dylan Shinholser:
I haven't heard of that one.

Brian Kelly:
I just did that. I'm not a young fart anymore. Anyway. So, Dylan, we'll do the same thing. Go around the horn. What would be one final quick tip, or parting words of advice, you can give our wonderful viewing and listening audience?

Dylan Shinholser:
Keep it simple stupid. Don't overcomplicate it. There's things that you need to do and standards you need to meet. At the end of the day, keep it simple stupid will allow you to not overcomplicated it (and) get overwhelmed. Once you get overwhelmed, it's a wash. I would just say as a life advice, event advice, live stream advice, just keep it simple stupid and keep it moving.

Brian Kelly:
Real quick, I got to interject on that. Just so people know that that comes from an acronym K.I.S.S. So we're not calling everybody stupid, for one.

Dylan Shinholser:
Well...

Brian Kelly:
That was great. I have a friend who is Sicilian in nature, and he did this from the stage. He talked about it, and he brought up the whole thing. We're talking about doing it without complicating it. He goes, "It's like K.I.S.S. Who knows what K.I.S.S means?" Someone raised their hands. They said, "keep it simple, stupid". He goes,"Oh, no, no. It's keep it simple Sicilian." He lighten the load of the stupid part. I thought that was cool. Sorry, Julie, what is your parting tip?

Julie Riley:
You know, you're going to have to get started at some point. In order to do that, you're going to have to get over your fear. Go practice. Get those done, but also go watch and find other people that you resonate with their live shows. Start to take pieces from each of those. Now, obviously, you cannot go copy their live show and recreate it. You can pull little things from multiple different people's live shows that you like and that resonate with you. If you're comfortable and things are resonating with you, you're going to exude that comfort and that confidence out to the rest of the world.

Brian Kelly:
I love it. I love it. Alright. The man, the myth, the legend, Timothy J. McNeely. What is your final parting word of advice?

Timothy McNeely:
I'm going to close with a story. The purpose of this story is to illustrate the power of doing a show. July 20th, 1969, the first man walked on the moon. He left his footprints up there. On the moon, there's no wind. There's no rain. There's no weather, and those footprints today in twenty twenty-one look exactly like they did in nineteen sixty-nine. They're going to be exactly the same a million years from now. You too. You leave footprints on the hearts and the minds of everyone that you come in contact with. In streaming and having a platform, that's your opportunity to leave your footprints and to have an impact on people. Get clear about what your message is. What's the impact you want to have? If you do that, all of the other puzzle pieces are going to fall in place for you.

Brian Kelly:
Oh, baby. Okay, I've got to do it. I've got to do it. That was amazing.

Dylan Shinholser:
You have to get one of the little lower third animation gifts that are possible here on StreamYard. It's just a mic drop every time someone does one.

Brian Kelly:
Not nearly as much fun though, bro.

Christian Karasiewicz:
That's true. Fair. Very fair. I'll give it to you. I've got to get me one of those little squishy microphones.

Brian Kelly:
A little sound effect like I just broke my desk or something. That would be good. Alright, Christian, you've had a long time to think about it now. No pressure, but this better be a good one. I'm kidding. What do you have?

Christian Karasiewicz:
Let's see. The best piece of advice, I think, would be don't have gas or gear acquisition syndrome. You're going to watch people doing their live streams, and they're going to go and be like, "hey, I got to get that mic because this person upgraded." Oh, they got a new webcam. Remember? If you develop a plan, the whole thing is work the plan.. work the system. It's great (that) somebody else got some equipment, but it doesn't mean that you need to go out and get that yourself as well. Remember, work your plan. When you get to the certain points, maybe set that as a milestone. If I get to a certain number of viewers, for example, or a certain number of subscribers on a channel, then I might need to upgrade something. Don't be buying stuff just because someone else is doing so.

Brian Kelly:
Sales drive service. I love it. You guys are amazing. Thank you so much for coming on. Everyone who watched live. Thank you for coming on. Those of you that watched on the recording. Thank you for spending your valuable time with us, and those listening on the podcast. The same goes for you. Definitely. I hope you took a lot of notes because these are experts in the field. They are giving their value, their heart, their experience. They only charged me two-hundred thousand dollars for it. It's really been a deal. I'm kidding. They charged me nothing. You got incredible value from these amazing, amazing professionals. I can't thank you all enough. I appreciate you Dylan, Julie, Tim, Christian. Thank you from the bottom of my heart with all seriousness. I know we had some fun tonight. Thank you, Christian, so much for letting me pick on you so hard. You've been a great guy. I look forward to getting to know each and every one of you at a deeper level. If you're open to that after tonight. Appreciate you all. On behalf of these amazing people, that's it. We're out. My name is Brian Kelly. I'm the host of The MIND BODY BUSINESS Show. Until next time we will see you. Be blessed. So long for now.

Narrator :
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